Who should you blame for your failures in life?

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e.g. Who should I blame for not being a mogger???? Parents, God, lack of luck.... who man? It ain't my fault that's for sure
 
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I blame the internet for making me giga ND
 
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No one. I believe shit is random and we just gotta deal with it
 
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Blaming won’t do shit anyway
 
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jews, or my teachers
 
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I blame the internet for making me giga ND
But isn't it your fault for entering rabbit holes of the internet, how come your peers haven't done that and stayed NT?
I think you were ND from the beginning, internet was just your cope
No one. I believe shit is random and we just gotta deal with it
So luck basically, me too
Blaming won’t do shit anyway
Blaming others protects one's ego, without ego you're destined to be depressed, unsatisfied with your existence and not believing in your own abilities. That's why so many people blame everything but themselves, to protect their self-pride
 
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myself
 
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I've always blamed myself and myself only because only you can take responsibility of your actions and only you can save yourself from them. Real man take action instead of pointing fingers
 
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It really is only your fault
 
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Blaming others protects one's ego, without ego you're destined to be depressed, unsatisfied with your existence and not believing in your own abilities. That's why so many people blame everything but themselves, to protect their self-pride
blaming others in general means you lack maturity because you can’t take responsibility for your shit, but in this context it means nothing because it’s not like your parents wanted you to be ugly or autistic or whatever
 
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I've always blamed myself and myself only because only you can take responsibility of your actions and only you can save yourself from them. Real man take action instead of pointing fingers
But always blaming yourself leads to low self-esteem, melancholy, not trusting your own abilities and senses... It's a dangerous route in a long run since it degrades your ego. You have to protect your own ego, it's an engine of ones will to do anything (from my understanding)

Also I was aiming more about who's to blame for one's trash genetics, bad environment or anything you have little control over.
In my case I blame my lack of luck but was interested in other's opinions
 
e.g. Who should I blame for not being a mogger???? Parents, God, lack of luck.... who man? It ain't my fault that's for sure
Parents and yourself
 
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I've not had any failures yet

@optimisticzoomer
 
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Parents + genetics
 
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