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tldw:
For people in the mid-low parts of the social (dating) hierarchy
Option 1 - You never adjust, you look at your partner every morning and say "oh well, this is the best I could do"
Option 2 - You start finding unconventional features attractive (like bald guys or short guys). Just be her type bro
On an experiment done on "hot or not .com", people rated eachother. People who are 4 rated 9s as 9 and 9s rated 9s as 9. So ugly people still do know what is attractive and what is not. Then how do they cope?
Further on, the experiment continued on the "meet me" feature of the site where you were matched with partners (chance of rejection). In this case 4/10s approach 4-5 even though they know they didn't rate them as attractive. So people know their place in the social hierarchy.
Finally, the users participated in speed dating. Good looking people valued attractiveness the most whereas ugly people said "we don't care about attractiveness, we want funny and kind people". So ugly people adapt and cope by changing their priorities.
Just be her type pill is real!
Hypergamy is cope!
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