why am I always disinterested in socializing?

[Deleted member 8244]

can I overcome this natural disinterest in talking to people? do you have a similar experience?

 

[Deleted member 8244]

bumpu

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

Yes

 

[Deleted member 8244]

Yes

 

[Deleted member 2214]

Cause u are better than everyone.

 

[Growth Plate]

What does one even talk about with people?
I've gained 2 friends recently I guess but I'm mostly silent and just sit there while they talk, and when I do have an actual conversation it's something autistic like film or martial arts. I don't even feel the need to have friends. I just need resources but I got 2 friends so I don't have to have some adult sit with me because he felt bad that I was lonely or some shit.

 

[Deleted member 8244]

What does one even talk about with people?
I've gained 2 friends recently I guess but I'm mostly silent and just sit there while they talk, and when I do have an actual conversation it's something autistic like film or martial arts. I don't even feel the need to have friends. I just need resources but I got 2 friends so I don't have to have some adult sit with me because he felt bad that I was lonely or some shit.

Thats cool that you have friends that you can share your interests with, especially if they are quirky.

 

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Probably u cope or distract yourself with something else. Do you use your phone or pc very often?

 

[Deleted member 8244]

Probably u cope or distract yourself with something else. Do you use your phone or pc very often?

Basically this I just browse YouTube all day

 

[Deleted member 8576]

antisociaal

 

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Basically this I just browse YouTube all day

Yea mb stop doing that so you would naturally want to do smth else.
Will help u in the long run too so u get work done instead if rotting

 

[Deleted member 8576]

Yea mb stop doing that so you would naturally want to do smth else.
Will help u in the long run too so u get work done instead if rotting

 

[Enfant terrible]

i have the same problem

 

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[Deleted member 8244]

Yea mb stop doing that so you would naturally want to do smth else.
Will help u in the long run too so u get work done instead if rotting

deleting insta and yt and tiktok, is the move but its hard because snap is too important for socializing now

 

[Deleted member 8576]

He's so good at driving i'm so proud of him

 

[Deleted member 8244]

It's like I wait for people to talk to me first, but this is rare unless I've had a "streak" of socializing with others and sometimes I can't play a video game with them because I have homework but then won't even finish the homework

 

[Deleted member 206]

you‘re introverted and no, you can’t do anything about it

 

[Deleted member 8244]

you‘re introverted and no, you can’t do anything about it

Fair enough