Why am I always the punching bag?

brutal thing ive learnt is that day 1s are irreplacable, do everything to support old friendships
I got very distant from my friend ive had since i was a little kid because he began to ditch me to hang out with these group of “cool” pothead kids who go to parties with the purpose of finding a hookup. These same kids talked shit about me to my friends parents, and tried to bully me whenever they came while us two were hanging out. I just stopped hanging out with any of them for a while
 
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im sorry man
I got very distant from my friend ive had since i was a little kid because he began to ditch me to hang out with these group of “cool” pothead kids who go to parties with the purpose of finding a hookup. These same kids talked shit about me to my friends parents, and tried to bully me whenever they came while us two were hanging out. I just stopped hanging out with any of them for a while
 
In any setting, no matter what type of people they are, im always the punching bag. Even among my own “friends” i was always the joke so it lead me to me leaving the group
Bc u let it happen
 
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This happened to me up until H.S when I started fighting then I had a new separate friend group and it was chill but If anyone is playing with u and u let it happen it isn't going to stop
 
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This happened to me up until H.S when I started fighting then I had a new separate friend group and it was chill but If anyone is playing with u and u let it happen it isn't going to stop
So do you think getting into a fight is good (if you know you can win)
 
I got very distant from my friend ive had since i was a little kid because he began to ditch me to hang out with these group of “cool” pothead kids who go to parties with the purpose of finding a hookup. These same kids talked shit about me to my friends parents, and tried to bully me whenever they came while us two were hanging out. I just stopped hanging out with any of them for a while
Try getting new friends when u leave that school since ur reputation is probably shit now
 
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Try getting new friends when u leave that school since ur reputation is probably shit now
Just known to be autistic which is horrible
 
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So do you think getting into a fight is good (if you know you can win)
Probably is too late to change ur overall reputation but of course, never let people blatantly disrespect you with no consequences
 
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Yeah normies do laugh at me for being loyal but im not sacrificing my morals for anything
It's crazy the world has reached a point where you are laughed at for committing to your significant other
What a joke of society
 
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Exactly how I felt writing that

I do, and when I do they get even more riled up, potentially recording me as well. I try to just ignore
Bro...

This sounds way worse than what meets the eye. They record you?

Are the town the laughingstock? Is it well known?

Who are they sending it to?

"Dude I swear this guy is such a loser, look at this shit 🤣"

That's what they're sending.



Enough.
Picture


You're done with them. Understood?

It's over.

It's time now, to  win

in spite of them.

there is no revenge to take, no way to get even.

nothing besides forgetting about them, and surpassing them


There are two outcomes, to those who are bullied.

like musk, like rogan, like eminem.

Young Men who were outcast,

They had no choice

No way to prove to themselves or to anybody that they were better...

Besides one.

One way,

They had to conquer

Are you ready? Or will you stay attached to them like a parasite.
 
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Probably is too late to change ur overall reputation but of course, never let people blatantly disrespect you with no consequences
Recently thats what ive been focusing on, i cant just fully ignore and pretend i cant hear them
 
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Just known to be autistic which is horrible
Yh, it's fine though your close to graduating anyway plus you can make friends online in the meantime which can grow into irl friendships
 
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Exactly how I felt writing that


Bro...

This sounds way worse than what meets the eye. They record you?

Are the town the laughingstock? Is it well known?

Who are they sending it to?

"Dude I swear this guy is such a loser, look at this shit 🤣"

That's what they're sending.



Enough.
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You're done with them. Understood?

It's over.

It's time now, to  win

in spite of them.

there is no revenge to take, no way to get even.

nothing besides forgetting about them, and surpassing them


There are two outcomes, to those who are bullied.

like musk, like rogan, like eminem.

Young Men who were outcast,

They had no choice

No way to prove to themselves or to anybody that they were better...

Besides one.

One way,

They had to conquer
I kinda used an extreme example usually they will just laugh more when I give any sort of reaction. Im not known around the school widely or anything, its just that people would describe me as weird and autistic
 
Recently thats what ive been focusing on, i cant just fully ignore and pretend i cant hear them
Yeah "just ignoring them broo" is such retarded advice I listened too and made me such a loser in intermediate school :forcedsmile:
 
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It's crazy the world has reached a point where you are laughed at for committing to your significant other
What a joke of society
Its because these normies who think they are chads talk like they have sex every day with a new girl, and even though they themself cant get any girls at all, they shame you for sticking to “only one girl”
 
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Its because these normies who think they are chads talk like they have sex every day with a new girl, and even though they themself cant get any girls at all, they shame you for sticking to “only one girl”
It's not even a Chad trait to do that
Not only is it not "Chad" morally speaking, but in the literal sense too. Chads are often bluepilled and stay with their highschool sweetheart their entire life
 
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It's not even a Chad trait to do that
Not only is it not "Chad" morally speaking, but in the literal sense too. Chads are often bluepilled and stay with their highschool sweetheart their entire life
Completely agree, im just saying they think they are chads because they act like the coolest guy around, like some sort of playboy

Its surprising to see how slayers are usually just NT and better looking than average rather than chadlite+
 
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I kinda used an extreme example usually they will just laugh more when I give any sort of reaction. Im not known around the school widely or anything, its just that people would describe me as weird and autistic
Stop fucking around

They record you like a circus amusement

Stop. Talking. To. Them.

Stop talking to anyone, I have 1 friend

my only other real friend is dead

But this is new best friend, we seemed to be close, I thought so...

but you see this new one, he... doesn't seem to care about me

He'd leave me on read for 2 days, then reply when he needed a ride, happened one too many times to ignore,

and he is generally nonchalant, but it's seemed excessive lately... like he's annoyed by me

I'm a nice guy, like you, a real one, actually considerate

I have impulses to be nice, to ease the pain for somebody else

Then the other day, my birthday, He forgot, and a coworker told him the next day

I don't really care about birthdays

But it was the icing on the cake

It made my realize my best friend is dead,

I'm this fellas errandboy


And it left me feeling... free

A weight off my shoulders.
1736467163534

It's time to get to work.
 
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bro im 6’5 wide frame and even then normies disrespect me sometimes.

it’s more about social power and how attractive your face is nowdays
Are u talking about settings involving alcohol? I've insulted and shouted at random ppl (more so in my drug days when I had less emotional control) and in my experience they are totally averse to confrontation. Im large built but only 5ft11 sp u shouldnt have a problem at 6ft5. I feel like most cases of fights/disrespect happen when ppl are drunk. In the adult world its all backstabbing instead.
 
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In any setting, no matter what type of people they are, im always the punching bag. Even among my own “friends” i was always the joke so it lead me to me leaving the group
Its tough to give advice because in school ur limited in terms of wht u can do and wht resources u have. Maybe start some type of mma or kickboxing class along with lifting weights to build ur confidence a bit. U prob look passive/behave passive/shy. To an extent I think if tht is ur rep in the school now u might just have to suck it up for how many years u got left.

When u reach the age u cn get a job get one as soon as possible so u cn start working on ur looks. School is important but not the be all and end all. Prob 80% of the popular kids I went to school with are ugly losers now. Just start developing urself hard as soon as u can.
 
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looks, wouldn't happen if you were Chad.
 
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