Why am I such an ND loser

[incellife]

Life is so hard for nd losers what is there that I can do to save myself

 

[witcher78]

i struggle with this same shit every day

 

[incellife]

bump

 

[bigman12442]

Life is so hard for nd losers what is there that I can do to save myself

The more you have social interactions, the better you’ll be handle them

 

[incellife]

The more you have social interactions, the better you’ll be handle them

i just dont even know how to begin

 

[MaDraw]

What kind of nd are we talking, inhibmaxxed tism bpd like what

 

[incellife]

What kind of nd are we talking, inhibmaxxed tism bpd like what

super high inhib and slight tism but i can barely even function from the inhib

 

[MaDraw]

super high inhib and slight tism but i can barely even function from the inhib

ok this we can work with, inhib is often caused by your upbringing such as helicopter parents or usage of adhd medicine that suppresses your emotional regulation (projection talking )

But anyways something that I can see working is military, when I was there fulfilling orders I did not give a shit since I'd just have something I had to do and I would do it out of fear of being gangraped simply put
This eventually bled into my life when I got out mainly from the part that made me realize how much people overreact to shit that does not matter.

I'd also recommend mpmd he is an og, I don't know org's stance on him but I always liked his advice, he has a lot of content on inhibminimizing but the gist of it is to start small and cold turkey your way up into having social aptitude and confidence

 

[incellife]

ok this we can work with, inhib is often caused by your upbringing such as helicopter parents or usage of adhd medicine that suppresses your emotional regulation (projection talking )

But anyways something that I can see working is military, when I was there fulfilling orders I did not give a shit since I'd just have something I had to do and I would do it out of fear of being gangraped simply put
This eventually bled into my life when I got out mainly from the part that made me realize how much people overreact to shit that does not matter.

I'd also recommend mpmd he is an og, I don't know org's stance on him but I always liked his advice, he has a lot of content on inhibminimizing but the gist of it is to start small and cold turkey your way up into having social aptitude and confidence

I was also thinking of copping pregab to help with it

 

[MaDraw]

I was also thinking of copping pregab to help with it

Have you tried anything else?
Do you have any clue where your inhib could be coming from?

 

[incellife]

Have you tried anything else?
Do you have any clue where your inhib could be coming from?

i got cheated on a couple years ago as well as years of upbringing as antisocial

 

[MaDraw]

i got cheated on a couple years ago as well as years of upbringing as antisocial

Are you young? you strike me as very young idk also what do you mean by "upbringing as antisocial"
You could always try drilling into your skull to unlock your 5th sense

 

[incellife]

im a senior in hs
I was brought up without a lot of social interaction and received a lot of insults for being a weirdo

 

[MaDraw]

So you struggle with confidence? I mean many believe that improving your looks will improve your confidence as well and I can vouch for that when I height fraud. Boosting your ego is a sure fire way to improve confidence and thereby lower inhibition.
I personally use alcohol at gatherings like any normie would but I do not recommend this for you since you're young, much less taking drugs.
It sounds to me like you need a cope something like gym or something to create a valid "persona" you can fall back unto but idk if you aren't confident or anything I'm assuming here

 

[incellife]

So you struggle with confidence? I mean many believe that improving your looks will improve your confidence as well and I can vouch for that when I height fraud. Boosting your ego is a sure fire way to improve confidence and thereby lower inhibition.
I personally use alcohol at gatherings like any normie would but I do not recommend this for you since you're young, much less taking drugs.
It sounds to me like you need a cope something like gym or something to create a valid "persona" you can fall back unto but idk if you aren't confident or anything I'm assuming here

I agree but inhib can get to a point when it stops looks from prospering

 

[MaDraw]

I agree but inhib can get to a point when it stops looks from prospering

What exactly do you mean

 

[MLGS0LD1ERB0Y]

Life is so hard for nd losers what is there that I can do to save myself

Because you don’t go outside and socialise with others.

If you haven’t been diagnosed and are complained, please kill yourself.

 

[bigman12442]

What exactly do you mean

I was also pretty anti social a few years ago, or mostly with people I didn’t know, mine kinda cured itself over time so

 

[6ft8sub5]

So you struggle with confidence? I mean many believe that improving your looks will improve your confidence as well and I can vouch for that when I height fraud. Boosting your ego is a sure fire way to improve confidence and thereby lower inhibition.
I personally use alcohol at gatherings like any normie would but I do not recommend this for you since you're young, much less taking drugs.
It sounds to me like you need a cope something like gym or something to create a valid "persona" you can fall back unto but idk if you aren't confident or anything I'm assuming here

Alc is a looksmin tho

 

[AryanSchizo]

i’m in same boat , ima mid 20s ND mentalcel

 

[incellife]

Because you don’t go outside and socialise with others.

If you haven’t been diagnosed and are complained, please kill yourself.

I'm diagnosed autist and anxiety so I think I'm justified

 

[frae]

Life is so hard for nd losers what is there that I can do to save myself

Reincarnate

 

[incellife]

Reincarnate

great advice thank u