Why are girls allowed to get as obsessed and clingy as they want, and guys aren't

[got.daim]

If a chick is like, "OMG Chad fucked me and dumped me! It's not right! I miss him so much!" this is considered normal chick behavior, and in fact Chad would be considered the villain of the situation, a heartbreaker.

But if a girl dumps a dude and he's upset, people are like, "Damn, you're so weak" or "Damn, you need to get over her," and they disrespect him for getting so attached to her. Or if he gets a crush and becomes obsessed with her, he's considered dangerous, while the same behavior on the part of a girl would be considered harmless, even cute. (A girl I knew, e.g., stalked a dude she was into; she went to his house to see if he was with another girl.)

Yeah, I guess guys are the ones more likely to kill chicks and whatnot, but still, as far as emotional behavior goes, there's a blatant double standard, even though the sexes are supposed to be equal.

Problem is, the sexes AREN'T the same, yet any time it advantages women to treat them as equal, they're allowed to claim that privilege, and demand men not discriminate.

 

[White_Bwoi]

Almost everything girls do if applied to men will be cringe buddy
But It depends of your social circle, everybody hates normies here but all I see are normies here. As normies I don't assume "normal nt" people, just NPC's with boring jobs and standard aspirations / no creativity and original thought. If you're around really COOL people it's not a problem to grief your loss etc, problem is not everybody can be in higher echelon and are doomed to normie companionship...