Why are Indians at the bottom of the dating hierarchy?

[Deleted member 1751]

I tend to avoid all the racism on these forums because I think it’s self defeating and since race is literally the only physical attribute that can’t be changed (lol even height and clavicle width can be changed in the modern world), I try to not comment on racial attractiveness, as I feel it’s a pretty shitty thing to do, but I want to take a crack at the original question...Why are indians viewed so negatively in the dating world?

Note: This is mainly based on a western-centric analysis, HOWEVER, a lot of it applies outside the west as well....

1. Very low contrast in their coloring (dark skin, dark eyes, dark hair). At least some contrast would make things better, which is why you get the light eyed chadpreet meme on these forums. (African/Black Men can get away with this because of average frame stereotype of being masculine, Nordic men as well, plus their average wealth, plus the unfortunate fact of life that across almost all cultures, lighter skin on average is seen as more attractive, so if you were to compare a Swedish man with low coloring contrast and an Indian man with low coloring contrast, most people with consider the Swede better looking)

2. ON AVERAGE, small frame and very short height. If average height of Indian men were 6’5, I doubt there would be this much of a negative stereotype of them.

3. Stereotype of being Smelly due to strong scented curry in food and hygiene issues present in the country. Other ethnicities get away with this due to what most people perceive to be as positive/ masculine attributes they have that Indians on average LACK (see above and below)

4. Related to #3–Stereotype of being “dirty” and no stereotype of MASCULINITY; when you see India in a western blockbuster film you are bound to see impoverished streets full of hundreds of people, plenty of which are dirty...and ZERO “bad ass” men....contrast this to Latin America, the Middle East, or Africa in western films, there are also impoverished areas and people but you rarely get the sense of “dirty” as you do with India in films, and you get plenty of “bad ass” portrayals of men...think Colombian Cartels, Nigerian Drug Lords, or Muslim Oil Princes driving sports cars and being involved in high crime. You just don’t see this portrayed in India in western film.

5. Due to they way they speak, their accent is incredibly strong in English and is generally not seen to be attractive or masculine, like say, a French, Russian, German, or Nigerian accent can be.

6. Western portrayal/ stereotype of Indian Men in India engaging in “desperate” work or activities, like call centers or sweatshops...contrast with the bad ass Latino and Nigerian drug lords, or Latino “artists” or Muslim men deeply devoted to their patriarchal and inherently masculine faith—hell even East Asians and Jewish people have “bad ass” or cool criminal representation in Hollywood (think mossad agents/ young Jewish financiers making it big in Wall Street or Japanese mobsters).

7. Stereotype of Indians living in the West being Nerds/Dorks: Accent has a lot to do with this, as well as heavy concentration in STEM fields and virtually no Indian representation in any liberal arts or humanities. (note how Jewish Men might have a similar stereotype but they can get away with it because they are also prominent in pretty much all the humanities, as well as business, finance, law, politics, etc. None of these fields have any strong Indians representation.)

I think I covered pretty much all of the major reasons Indian Men are, unfortunately for them, perceived as unattractive.

Chad in ur avi?

 

[ExCel]

Lmfao you are a shitskin sikh who thinks that islam was forced upon anyone in the region. Also jfl at loving "muslim girls", how cucked are you?

He is just a retarded shitskin sikh, don't pay him attention.

Im not shitskinned either faggot, Jatts have a lighter skin colour than rajputs due to persian and macedonian ancestry, infact my grandma is also pashtun so there is no way I am more shitskinned than you lmfao.

 

[Deleted member 1751]

They do the worst in online dating and are also avoided by many girls in real life, why does this happen, the Indians are brave people, they formed one of the world's first civilization, they wrote the Vedas and the Upanishads, they invented chess, the numbers, they are the fastest growing population in the world, and will soon surpass China, women should be honored to have an Indian as their partner...

Just pretend you're from another country theory

 

[ExCel]

Literally 2 vs 1, yet both these muslim cucks are getting bullied by me with facts lol. Speaks volumes about Jatt dominance, absolutely brutal.

 

[mikeock]

I tend to avoid all the racism on these forums because I think it’s self defeating and since race is literally the only physical attribute that can’t be changed (lol even height and clavicle width can be changed in the modern world), I try to not comment on racial attractiveness, as I feel it’s a pretty shitty thing to do, but I want to take a crack at the original question...Why are indians viewed so negatively in the dating world?

Note: This is mainly based on a western-centric analysis, HOWEVER, a lot of it applies outside the west as well....

1. Very low contrast in their coloring (dark skin, dark eyes, dark hair). At least some contrast would make things better, which is why you get the light eyed chadpreet meme on these forums. (African/Black Men can get away with this because of average frame stereotype of being masculine, Nordic men as well, plus their average wealth, plus the unfortunate fact of life that across almost all cultures, lighter skin on average is seen as more attractive, so if you were to compare a Swedish man with low coloring contrast and an Indian man with low coloring contrast, most people with consider the Swede better looking)

2. ON AVERAGE, small frame and very short height. If average height of Indian men were 6’5, I doubt there would be this much of a negative stereotype of them.

3. Stereotype of being Smelly due to strong scented curry in food and hygiene issues present in the country. Other ethnicities get away with this due to what most people perceive to be as positive/ masculine attributes they have that Indians on average LACK (see above and below)

4. Related to #3–Stereotype of being “dirty” and no stereotype of MASCULINITY; when you see India in a western blockbuster film you are bound to see impoverished streets full of hundreds of people, plenty of which are dirty...and ZERO “bad ass” men....contrast this to Latin America, the Middle East, or Africa in western films, there are also impoverished areas and people but you rarely get the sense of “dirty” as you do with India in films, and you get plenty of “bad ass” portrayals of men...think Colombian Cartels, Nigerian Drug Lords, or Muslim Oil Princes driving sports cars and being involved in high crime. You just don’t see this portrayed in India in western film.

5. Due to they way they speak, their accent is incredibly strong in English and is generally not seen to be attractive or masculine, like say, a French, Russian, German, or Nigerian accent can be.

6. Western portrayal/ stereotype of Indian Men in India engaging in “desperate” work or activities, like call centers or sweatshops...contrast with the bad ass Latino and Nigerian drug lords, or Latino “artists” or Muslim men deeply devoted to their patriarchal and inherently masculine faith—hell even East Asians and Jewish people have “bad ass” or cool criminal representation in Hollywood (think mossad agents/ young Jewish financiers making it big in Wall Street or Japanese mobsters).

7. Stereotype of Indians living in the West being Nerds/Dorks: Accent has a lot to do with this, as well as heavy concentration in STEM fields and virtually no Indian representation in any liberal arts or humanities. (note how Jewish Men might have a similar stereotype but they can get away with it because they are also prominent in pretty much all the humanities, as well as business, finance, law, politics, etc. None of these fields have any strong Indians representation.)

I think I covered pretty much all of the major reasons Indian Men are, unfortunately for them, perceived as unattractive.

Good summary. And OP, don't cope with intelligence and scientific achievements. High IQ is not sexually attractive unfortunately.

 

[Gengar]

Since when do Jatts fall into curry category and Rajputs do not? There is a reason sikhs are known to be the martial race of India. Sikh Jatts had the highest height average in India even since near 50 years ago when the average height was recorded to be 170 cm , which is higher than the average height of pakistani men today, let alone midget rajput men lmfao. source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3190178

How am I the one who is cucked when I'm fucking your sisters lmfao.

Tales from the Jatt basement. i dont care that you slay ugly curry bitches. I bet you listen to nav as well you ugly jattroach. Enjoy living in the shithole that is Canada

Literally 2 vs 1, yet both these muslim cucks are getting bullied by me with facts lol. Speaks volumes about Jatt dominance, absolutely brutal.

Jfl at this hairy sikh faggot thinking he is bullying anyone. Islamics live rent free in your head and your temples

 

[Golden Glass]

Chad in ur avi?

Samuele Doveri. In that photograph he’s nearly physically perfect which is why I chose it.

 

[Gonners]

But is it really? How brown and black is attractive but dark bronze isn't?
Maybe it's just social conditioning. We see hispanic nigger men all the time on TV and instagram maybe that's why

condition on a social level could be a factor. The bottom line though is that most people won’t find a dark bronze skin tone attractive. It really does suck specially because you can’t REALLY do much about it :/

 

[Deleted member 1751]

Samuele Doveri. In that photograph he’s nearly physically perfect which is why I chose it.

He looks exactly like a greek statue in that pik but looks weird because of his lips in other photos

 

[Golden Glass]

He looks exactly like a greek statue in that pik but looks weird because of his lips in other photos

Yeah I actually think his lips are nice because of their width but something else is odd about them, not necessarily ugly just “odd”, and his philtrum is a bit longer than ideal.

He’s a great example of how “pretty” eyes with some Upper Eyelid Exposer can be just as attractive as hyper masculine eyes with zero Upper Eyelid Exposure.

 

[IndianJock]

Definitely bad stereotypes. Indians have no problem where I live

 

[Golden Glass]

Definitely bad stereotypes. Indians have no problem where I live

Which is where?

 

[IndianJock]

Which is where?

College area in the NorthWestern United States.

 

[Golden Glass]

College area in the NorthWestern United States.

Interesting, I’d guess it may be because you’re in an academic setting. I want to stress though that Indian men can definitely become physically attractive, as long as most crucially, they are at least average height, and are able to break the big Indian Male stereotypes.

 

[IndianJock]

Interesting, I’d guess it may be because you’re in an academic setting. I want to stress though that Indian men can definitely become physically attractive, as long as most crucially, they are at least average height, and are able to break the big Indian Male stereotypes.

What do you think the academic setting has to do with anything out of curiosity?

 

[Golden Glass]

What do you think the academic setting has to do with anything out of curiosity?

In general people in college tend to be way more open to new experiences, and nerdy STEM types don’t necessarily get looked down upon, they’re just seen as different and as good students. Also in college I’d bet you’re way more likely to see Indian men who break some of the bigger stereotypes, as the worse ones are of Indian men who live in India or who immigrated later in life.

 

[IndianJock]

In general people in college tend to be way more open to new experiences, and nerdy STEM types don’t necessarily get looked down upon, they’re just seen as different and as good students. Also in college I’d bet you’re way more likely to see Indian men who break some of the bigger stereotypes, as the worse ones are of Indian men who live in India or who immigrated later in life.

Yea that's a great point. And if I'm being completely honest I completely shatter the height stereotype....
Do you think these negative stereotypes apply more in high school then or society in general?

 

[Golden Glass]

Yea that's a great point. And if I'm being completely honest I completely shatter the height stereotype....
Do you think these negative stereotypes apply more in high school then or society in general?

Hmm if I had to take a wild guess I’d say in the order of stereotypes having the most negative impact to the least negative impact it would be:
1. Middle and Highschool
2. General Adult Society
3. College

Of course this is super context dependent. If you are in a super diverse metro area as an adult then the negative perception of being an Indian man could be nonexistent while if you went to a college in rural America with next to no diversity it may have played a bigger role there.

If as an Indian man, you have good physical features (height, physique, face), good career, and don’t have or even break negative stereotypes (basically make sure you lack the strong accent if applicable, and don’t have any reason for the “smelly”/“dirty” stereotype to apply to you, as well as the “dorky” one—since you’re username is @IndianJock that’s already a good sign)...then I’d say you can definitely find partners in Western cities.

 

[IndianJock]

Hmm if I had to take a wild guess I’d say in the order of stereotypes having the most negative impact to the least negative impact it would be:
1. Middle and Highschool
2. General Adult Society
3. College

Of course this is super context dependent. If you are in a super diverse metro area as an adult then the negative perception of being an Indian man could be nonexistent while if you went to a college in rural America with next to no diversity it may have played a bigger role there.

If as an Indian man, you have good physical features (height, physique, face), good career, and don’t have or even break negative stereotypes (basically make sure you lack the strong accent if applicable, and don’t have any reason for the “smelly”/“dirty” stereotype to apply to you, as well as the “dorky” one—since you’re username is @IndianJock that’s already a good sign)...then I’d say you can definitely find partners in Western cities.

Everything you're saying seems to make sense. Racepill isn't really relevant for me because of all the reasons you said above. First I heard of it was PUA/blackpill sites lol, but considering the kind of men who browse PUA sites it's no surprise.

 

[Golden Glass]

Everything you're saying seems to make sense. Racepill isn't really relevant for me because of all the reasons you said above. First I heard of it was PUA/blackpill sites lol, but considering the kind of men who browse PUA sites it's no surprise.

Yeah man buying into that stuff is pointless and self defeating, since you can’t change your race/ ethnicity. For what it’s worth I think the group that has it worst in the West in terms of trying to find partners outside their race/ethnicity isn’t even Indian Men but is actually East Asian men, at least that’s what I remember the statstics being (ironically East Asian women have some of the highest rates of marrying outside their group).

I think the immutability of race/ethnicity/phenotype is what makes plenty of PSLers so obsessed with it—if you’re of one of those races it gives you the perfect reason to explain away your inceldom/ if you’re of one of the more respected races here it’s the perfect blessing to explain why you’re still not “Hopeless”

 

[autistic_tendencies]

It is what it is

 

[Memeito]

Definitely bad stereotypes. Indians have no problem where I live

College area in the NorthWestern United States.

Those are Native Americans, not Indians from India.

 

[BackFromTheMogging]

They do the worst in online dating and are also avoided by many girls in real life, why does this happen, the Indians are brave people, they formed one of the world's first civilization, they wrote the Vedas and the Upanishads, they invented chess, the numbers, they are the fastest growing population in the world, and will soon surpass China, women should be honored to have an Indian as their partner...

Found the streetshitta

three reasons:
-less attractive on average
-shorter on average
-stereotypes making Indians appear unattractive/creepy

Wrong, it's because they are indians. Who in their right mind would be attracted to an indian. Even girls lmao, everytime I went to belgium or france, everysingle indian girl who I seen was unattractive, they were soooo hungry for dicks and no one wanted to bang them

 

[Deleted member 2933]

i wish i was hindu

 

[Deleted member 2617]

condition on a social level could be a factor. The bottom line though is that most people won’t find a dark bronze skin tone attractive. It really does suck specially because you can’t REALLY do much about it :/

Yeah I can know that
Even when I saw their skin I thought it was unattractive.
But I dont feel like that to Hispanic or black guys. So weird.

 

[Gengar]

I live rent free in your sisters pussy baby girl. I'd knock them up too but JFL but dont wanna be disowned by parents for fucking dirty paki sluts. Man I should make a video recording some time of paki girls talking shit about paki guys lmfao

Tales from the temple lmfao, nobody cares if you shag bottom of the barrel-tier bitches lmfao, similarly nobody cares that your female relatives are getting ravaged by black guys with Drake playing in the background since sikh bitches are known to be the biggest curry sluts, especially in Canada

 

[ExCel]

Tales from the temple lmfao, nobody cares if you shag bottom of the barrel-tier bitches lmfao, similarly nobody cares that your female relatives are getting ravaged by black guys with Drake playing in the background since sikh bitches are known to be the biggest curry sluts, especially in Canada

You aren't even in Canada lmfaooo how are you gonna tell me about Canada, Sikh girls dont even date out of community. The biggest hoes are known to be hijabi Muslims lmfao. Everyone can vouch for the fact that Pakistani girls are the biggest hoes I dont even need to defend this lmfao.

 

[IndianJock]

Those are Native Americans, not Indians from India.

Cope. I’m talking descendants of people from the Indian subcontinent

 

[Deleted member 2157]

india will never surpass china at all
its not even hard, curries just need to stop doing arranged marriage and practice eugenics to end 99% of their people
curries have death tier muscle genetics too, slow twitch as fuck

 

[Deleted member 685]

Another cope thread

 

[Joyride]

a lot of indians always tend to think that their country is the best in terms of everything e.g. economy, inventions etc. but actuality this is of course false. most indians i meet are always very patriotic to their own country (india) and are really proud of it also.

this is from my own personal experience and isn't racist at all since i hate everyone, of all races.

 

[elfmaxx]

three reasons:
-less attractive on average
-shorter on average
-stereotypes making Indians appear unattractive/creepy


what country?


foh

Add a fourth:
-They smell bad

Even if they have good hygiene, the garlic & weird spices from they curry they eat every night is excreted through their skin whenever they sweat.

 

[Memeito]

Cope. I’m talking descendants of people from the Indian subcontinent

Another cope thread

What's this "cope" thing you keep mentioning here?

 

[HighTGymcel]

cause they are small, brown, ugly, poor and smell like curry.

 

[Sal123]

They do the worst in online dating and are also avoided by many girls in real life, why does this happen, the Indians are brave people, they formed one of the world's first civilization, they wrote the Vedas and the Upanishads, they invented chess, the numbers, they are the fastest growing population in the world, and will soon surpass China, women should be honored to have an Indian as their partner...

They DID NOT form one of the first civilisations . It was Jericho in Israel/Palestine , then Babylon in Iraq then Damascus in Syria. India is probably 20

 

[Deleted member 685]

What's this "cope" thing you keep mentioning here?

The fact people here actually think Indians don't have it worse in the dating market. White men will always be the most attractive

 

[Memeito]

The fact people here actually think Indians don't have it worse in the dating market. White men will always be the most attractive

No, I'm referring to what "cope" means in general, almost in every thread someone says "cope", what is this?

 

[Sal123]

LISTEN EVERYONE!!! hindus are dirty mother fuckers who worship barbie dolls and drink from this ganges river in which others shit in. but that said all people in that region r fucking tapped in the head - muslims giving meat to graves and sikhs wrapping their shit around their head to keep them lucky. bengalis eat dogs yh so stfu all of u @ExCel @TRUE_CEL @BigBoy

 

[Deleted member 685]

No, I'm referring to what "cope" means in general, almost in every thread someone says "cope", what is this?

Look up the definition

LISTEN EVERYONE!!! hindus are dirty mother fuckers who worship barbie dolls and drink from this ganges river in which others shit in. but that said all people in that region r fucking tapped in the head - muslims giving meat to graves and sikhs wrapping their shit around their head to keep them lucky. bengalis eat dogs yh so stfu all of u

I thought you were Indian too?

 

[Memeito]

Look up the definition

WHERE???????

 

[Deleted member 685]

WHERE???????

IT'S CALLED GOOGLE

 

[Ekeoma_The_BBC]

lol I can tell op is indian just by the fact he writes "..." after every sentence

 

[FatJattMofo]

im not even from shitskin curryland with your castes. jfl @ jatts for thinking their superior.

the most subhuman currys

cope more you cry yourself to sleep at the superiority of the Jatt phenotype and genetic admixture

 

[Memeito]

IT'S CALLED GOOGLE

Google gives the following definition to cope: "deal effectively with something difficult ". But here, in most of the threads it seems to mean the complete opposite.
So which one is it??????

 

[Deleted member 685]

Google gives the following definition to cope: "deal effectively with something difficult ". But here, in most of the threads it seems to mean the complete opposite.
So which one is it??????

You still don't get it?

 

[MadMong]

three reasons:
-less attractive on average
-shorter on average
-stereotypes making Indians appear unattractive/creepy

This but it all originates from the same reason.
Their culture of arranged marriages, often of incestual nature, caused this to occur.
This practice is highly dysgenic and never results in attractive, robust peoples.

And they're stereotypically awkward and sexist because there is literally zero advantage for Indian men to have developed skills with women when their marriages are even to this day still arranged for them by parents.

 

[Golden Glass]

This but it all originates from the same reason.
Their culture of arranged marriages, often of incestual nature, caused this to occur.
This practice is highly dysgenic and never results in attractive, robust peoples.

And they're stereotypically awkward and sexist because there is literally zero advantage for Indian men to have developed skills with women when their marriages are even to this day still arranged for them by parents.

This still doesn’t explain the relative success of middle eastern men in western countries when compared to Indian men, as arranged incestuous marriage is incredibly common in that demographic as well. It all comes down to Indian Men having zero positive/masculine stereotypes and multiple bad ones. Arab man get plenty of positive/masculine portrayals in pop culture, they don’t have the strong unattractive Indian accent, etc, there’s a higher likelihood of Arab men having higher coloring contrast than Indians, etc. All these attributes are ones Indian Men when seen as a group in western countries LACK.

 

[Memeito]

You still don't get it?

Get what?
You said to google it, but you have no idea what the google definition is.

 

[Deleted member 685]

Get what?
You said to google it, but you have no idea what the google definition is.

I do and you're fucking retarded

 

[BigBoy]

Keep coping faggot, you will never escape your roots. All Bangladeshi muslims are low tier trash who would love to lick the feet of Jatts. Know your place and stay in your lane.

fuck off fag. the only reason you have this ego is because you were born into a priveleged class. if you were born a Tamil the tone wouldve been very diff from you.

the only reason i hate jatts is cuz of fags like you. i actually didnt even know u niggas existed until i logged onto this forum.

daily reminder: this isnt curryland, in the west its currycel vs. chadpreet

and youre the currycel