Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

[Lookologist003]

Why should a woman date someone like you?

For the same reason I would date a woman. A woman should date you because she likes you. Otherwise you're a provider. Women don't do shit and we all love them. Just lol at this idea that you need to be worthy of a woman's love when women contribute nothing to society and act like spoiled children.

Bluepilled content

This is like ground up redpill sprinkled into your food. Gross. "I don't know you, but you're just not trying hard enough, bro!" They say this because the finality of ugliness is impossible to accept. Once you've accepted it, the last answer is to embrace death.

 

[SntDomistheRealChad]

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.

Self pity has to occur sometimes to avoid being gaslighted and in order to realize you deserve better. Once your neural networks are abused being positive isn’t going to immediately help, you have to recognize the unjust situation you were in first and then move forward, otherwise you will continuously allow yourself to be abused.

 

[lestoa]

drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.

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