why are people rude?

[Eversor]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

 

[topology]

It's boring

 

[Eversor]

It's boring

being rude or being kind?

 

[topology]

being rude or being kind?

Being kind

 

[Eversor]

but u shouldnt act fake, honesty is important

 

[Eversor]

Being kind

i think its fun

 

[MangoLover]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

Unfortunately in many cases kindness is viewed as a weakness, but yes I agree with your post

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Irl I'm quite polite tbh

 

[Eversor]

Unfortunately in many cases kindness is viewed as a weakness, but yes I agree with your post

only low iq individuals think kindness is weakness

 

[MangoLover]

only low iq individuals think kindness is weakness

Of course

 

[Eversor]

Irl I'm quite polite tbh

its much easier to be rude online where there is really no consequences

 

[caleb555]

Being rude to strangers in order to get a reaction out of my peers

 

[MLGS0LD1ERB0Y]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

This generation lacks empathy.

 

[xzylecrey]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

I mean i dont see the point in making enemies just cause theres no roi.

 

[Eversor]

Being rude to strangers in order to get a reaction out of my peers

cringe

 

[Troglodyte452]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

rude people are usually really insecure and they do it without realizing or they just have some sort of autism/aspergers. From my experience. I haven't met a high iq dude that would be a rude guy

 

[Eversor]

This generation lacks empathy.

lacks virtue

 

[caleb555]

cringe

Its a satire man

 

[richpilled]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

Agreed to all of this. Rudeness is always, literally always, some kind of projection of one's own insecurities. A phenomenon I find interesting is that when someone is acting rude in a group setting, for example to the 'new guy' in a group, it's often the case that the perpretator is themself insecure about their standing in the group or their own sense of belonging.

 

[Eversor]

Agreed to all of this. Rudeness is always, literally always, some kind of projection of one's own insecurities. A phenomenon I find interesting is that when someone is acting rude in a group setting, for example to the 'new guy' in a group, it's often the case that the perpretator is themself insecure about their standing in the group or their own sense of belonging.

 

[Deleted member 255555]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

I’m only rude to ppl who rude to me

 

[Eversor]

I’m only rude to ppl who rude to me

thats warranted

 

[tatelangdon444]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

eryone on this app is rude and idk why lmao.

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

Everyone on this app is so hateful it lowkey makes me upset

 

[chocolate milk]

i seriously dont understand the appeal to being rude to others, it has only negatives for the perpetrator and the perpetrated

even in an egoist scenario being kind is much more favorable, as people will treat u better in return, and u never have to deal with negative feeling of regret after hurting someones feelings

u will seriously live a much greater life if u stop being rude to others and start acting with virtue and longer-term thinking

i will start being much kinder

sometimes i catch myself being rude and its honestly just cause i dgaf (not in a cringe self-important way). Dont take it personal if someone is rude to you they probably just are going/went through some shit and couldnt give less off a fuck if you think they are kind or not. Also it gets boring trying to "please" every single person you meet