Why are users here fixated so much with other men's opinion and gigachads experiences?

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It's like users here ask to be miserable

The problem with the fixation with men with higher status and looks then them (Tyler Maher, Josh McGregor, many several 0.001% men in looks) that don't allow them to be free and genuine in order to find a woman they actually like, be their true self or follow their actual hobbies

Most users in this forum don't want a beautiful woman for the sake of having a relationship, build a family and actually enjoy her company and both develop each other, but to impress other men and gain more respect in the male circles (looksmax.org), that's why many of them don't succeed, because they lack the tools to have a decent relationship. Their focus is more on what men want, and this just breeds more insecurity, more being miserable, more not attaining unattainable physical standards due to unfixable failos, and this leads to sometimes botched. And users here will tell me (but alriodai, women in the west aren't relationship material, you idiot they fuck 100 guys a day) but who told you to pursue them? If you think all women are like this then you're just lying to yourself because I met alot of actual pretty women that ahve morals, low bodycount and actually good people, no shit you'd meet women that are whores when the only places you go to are bars, clubs, and or on Tinder which is a hookup app.

They are not even capable of being their own person and their own man for being mentally weak and slaves to the opinion of men they worship. Their whole life is a mission to try and please other users here, I think the lack of being chad facially because they are never satisfied with themselves and are always seeking external validation? I don't know, we can see attractive users here still seeking for external validation from autists here (Crisck and Larsnova, hi)

The men that are comfortable with themselves and don't have to please anyone usually find a good woman for them. They are well solved psychologically and don't need to literally kill their mental health or do the whole recipe of attracting women, although sometimes it may help. In general, women even come to them, because all you need is literally just not look deformed and not be an indian male.

With that said, I think the problem is much more complex than saying they want to be miserable, because I don't think anyone does. They probably just haven't realized what is blocking their path and even why they want to be with a woman or fuck a woman, or even who they want to be in life. I think users here are just lost people who spend way too much time online looking up theories instead of being themselves, making themselves be more attractive and voilà.
 
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no shit you'd meet women that are whores when the only places you go to are bars, clubs, and or on Tinder which is a hookup app.
Most guys here have no other alternatives to those.

The men that are comfortable with themselves and don't have to please anyone usually find a good woman for them.
In general, women even come to them, because all you need is literally just not look deformed and not be an indian male.
They do cuz the have actual reasons to feel comfortable with themselves, and the ones who don’t usually get played by these women, it definitely takes more than “muh just don’t be deformed”

I think users here are just lost people who spend way too much time online looking up theories instead of being themselves, making themselves be more attractive and voilà.
Nobody is truly themselves cuz we are all influenced by other people to some degree, so this doesn’t make sense really, you mean to tell me guys here should just “be themselves” even if that’s detrimental to their dating life success and overall quality of life?
The incels who take pride on not being an “NPC” for not conforming to societal norms and indulging in the most autistic copes always make me cage honestly.
 
Most guys here have no other alternatives to those.



They do cuz the have actual reasons to feel comfortable with themselves, and the ones who don’t usually get played by these women, it definitely takes more than “muh just don’t be deformed”


Nobody is truly themselves cuz we are all influenced by other people to some degree, so this doesn’t make sense really, you mean to tell me guys here should just “be themselves” even if that’s detrimental to their dating life success and overall quality of life?
The incels who take pride on not being an “NPC” for not conforming to societal norms and indulging in the most autistic copes always make me cage honestly.
If you don't have alternative to meeting women other than clubs where it's whores and Tinder where it's a hook up app for chads then honestly women shouldn't be your priority

They are comfortable with themselves because they already accepted their failos and know what their looks can get them and don't have high expectations for anything that happen later so they're not shocked with it, they're realistic and the least they can do is be themselves and be comfortable with them and understand that life isn't fair

Yes, you can get influenced easily and we see it:
- Man that lives in Japan is racist because of all the online social media stuff he seen about black people but he never saw a black man in his life
- Man that hates women on incel forums but he never had any bad experiences with women and actually only had positives ones

Being yourself is being true to what your life is and your experiences is, and most of the users here are NPCs

This is funny since I myself am an "incel" like you mock but I had 3 girlfriends, lost my virginity and actually had girls crush on me when I started being myself, and I already said guys should looksmax since it's natural and it will gain more self confidence for them, but to change your whole behavior, your personality for a crumb of pussy is just cucked behavior

Yet you who look at least HTN/chadltie and literally look ok expect that your "alar base" isn't perfect think it's determental to their dating life success and overral quality of life? I think the person you showed on Moonblunt discord isn't really you, or you have literal 8 PSL foids as standards
 
True, that's why I'm obsessed with @Cheesyrumble's sex life.
 
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I Just compare gigachad experience with mine. I don't feel stressed because my experience still mogs many. And yes ltrs are a fucking scam. It's all about being gl enough to get sex whenever you want and with hot girls. The more the Better, anything else Is delusional. LTR worthy girls Will be all taken in college, so if you're out of It that possibility Is gone.
 
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If you don't have alternative to meeting women other than clubs where it's whores and Tinder where it's a hook up app for chads then honestly women shouldn't be your priority
So I have to give up on women forever cuz I had the misfortune of not having a social circle or what? Well sadly I cannot do that, I crave intimacy with them like any normal guy does.

They are comfortable with themselves because they already accepted their failos and know what their looks can get them and don't have high expectations for anything that happen later so they're not shocked with it, they're realistic and the least they can do is be themselves and be comfortable with them and understand that life isn't fair
They are comfortable with themselves cuz they are aware that they look good and also have more things going for them than just their looks, they have all the tools needed to enjoy life, the average unattractive male is not comfortable with himself unless he is a deluded fuck with 0 sentience.

This is funny since I myself am an "incel" like you mock but I had 3 girlfriends, lost my virginity and actually had girls crush on me when I started being myself, and I already said guys should looksmax since it's natural and it will gain more self confidence for them, but to change your whole behavior, your personality for a crumb of pussy is just cucked behavior
Lmao stop the cap, if that happened it’s not just cuz you started “being yourself” but because you became closer to their ideal, either by looksmaxing or developing a more NT desirable personality.
And it’s not just for pussy, it’s for how society will treat you as a whole, for example why would I rot on my basement grinding on some nerd ass game if people are gonna look down on me for it and I gain nothing from it besides some meaningless dopamine? Or why would I choose to shoot myself in the foot and be seen as a weirdo outcast by not having social media at all cuz "muh social media is normie cancer!!!" :soy:?
These realizations make me immediately despise such behaviours to the core.

Yet you who look at least HTN/chadltie and literally look ok expect that your "alar base" isn't perfect think it's determental to their dating life success and overral quality of life? I think the person you showed on Moonblunt discord isn't really you, or you have literal 8 PSL foids as standards
Yes I think it can be detrimental to oneself dating life success and overall quality of life when it doesn't align with what is broadly considered NT, and the person I showed is indeed me, idk why would you doubt it when I don't even look that good, also my standards are not high at all.
 
Not a single light photon of that text was picked up by my ocular nerve, redditcuck.
 
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