Why are you so insecure?

[Planes]

I have recently had a realisation that all my insecurities have come from a place of selfishness and narcissisism this is something u guys need to understand im saying this as someone who has been bullied is short and has never found love.

 

[supersaiyancarp27]

cool bro

 

[User28823]

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

I have recently had a realisation that all my insecurities have come from a place of selfishness and narcissisism this is something u guys need to understand im saying this as someone who has been bullied is short and has never found love.

bc im ugly

 

[Planes]

bc im ugly

So am i. The whole point is that unless you are ultra deformed no one cares abt what u look like in the street

 

[horseman.]

cant relate

 

[Planes]

cant relate

Rope asap

 

[horseman.]

Rope asap

why

 

[Deleted member 93861]

The external world giving me hell for not living up to it’s standards

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

So am i. The whole point is that unless you are ultra deformed no one cares abt what u look like in the street

But i do care

 

[Planes]

why

Bc I’m envious

 

[greyestgrey271]

I have recently had a realisation that all my insecurities have come from a place of selfishness and narcissisism this is something u guys need to understand im saying this as someone who has been bullied is short and has never found love.

i have always been like this ive always been self conscious and ive always hated my self for how i look being insecure is something i just cnat get rid of.

 

[Planes]

i have always been like this ive always been self conscious and ive always hated my self for how i look being insecure is something i just cnat get rid of.

same even though i said i can get around it deep rooted insecurity is impossible to get rid off

 

[greyestgrey271]

same even though i said i can get around it deep rooted insecurity is impossible to get rid off

and whats worse is that im tall and so these low iq scum automatically think a tall guy = pretty face asw and that just fuels my hate for humans even more

 

[Planes]

and whats worse is that im tall and so these low iq scum automatically think a tall guy = pretty face asw and that just fuels my hate for humans even more

I feel like height plays a huge role but you can be 6,3 but if u are sub 5 and have social anxiety it’s still over

 

[greyestgrey271]

I feel like height plays a huge role but you can be 6,3 but if u are sub 5 and have social anxiety it’s still over

yh im 6ft and a bit but im still growing so i stick out a lot for my age group and i absolutly hate it i always see people staring at me and in class i just wanna sit in the corner because of how ugly i am

 

[n1ks09]

So am i. The whole point is that unless you are ultra deformed no one cares abt what u look like in the street

True but what u look like affects on how people in ur social cycle treat u

 

[Baeseth]

I have recently had a realisation that all my insecurities have come from a place of selfishness and narcissisism this is something u guys need to understand im saying this as someone who has been bullied is short and has never found love.

Watch some rehab room on youtube it’ll help you out

 

[Planes]

Watch some rehab room on youtube it’ll help you out

I’ve been watching him for a while I feel like he’s decent

 

[Planes]

True but what u look like affects on how people in ur social cycle treat u

100% but I don’t mean this in an interaction way I mean as in I was to scared to leave my house to go on a walk type of insecurity not talking to people just being near people

 

[Baeseth]

I’ve been watching him for a while I feel like he’s decent

He talks about this there’s nothing selfish or narcarisitic about caring about your looks it’s human nature. And the only way to improve your life is improve your looks

You also should never blame yourself for what others did to you, it’s not your fault if you were outcasted or bullied every kid just wants to be accepted.

 

[n1ks09]

100% but I don’t mean this in an interaction way I mean as in I was to scared to leave my house to go on a walk type of insecurity not talking to people just being near people

Then u are right they don't care

 

[Planes]

He talks about this there’s nothing selfish or narcarisitic about caring about your looks it’s human nature. And the only way to improve your life is improve your looks

You also should never blame yourself for what others did to you, it’s not your fault if you were outcasted or bullied every kid just wants to be accepted.

I agree with this approach but I feel like it might be a bit pessimistic

 

[reda2010]

I have recently had a realisation that all my insecurities have come from a place of selfishness and narcissisism this is something u guys need to understand im saying this as someone who has been bullied is short and has never found love.

I've hated my appearance since elementary school.

 

[Planes]

I've hated my appearance since elementary school.

That’s the same w most people on here I remember crying infront of a mirror for hours bc I thought my face was lopsided and I was deformed