Why being socially adept is better then looks for pulling girls

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Table of contents:
1. intro
2. Example 1
3. Example 2
4. Friends/social groups
5. Tips/advice

6. Conclusion


1. intro:
Have you ever seen someone who looks worse and is shorter then you with a girl who mogs him to death or a girl that you yourself would probably have no chance of getting ?
Its not because of your looks, height or frame... its because your socially retarded



2. Example 1:
This short person who I have a mutual friend with is like 5,6 MAX without shoes and wears those thick soul shoes to make him taller as well as high lifts and is hltn-lmtn (not good at ratings) this fuck legit always has a bitch or gf, and I guarantee that YOU KNOW SOMEONE LIKE THIS yourself.
While he is jacked (around 170lbs) you gotta ask your self how does he do it while you cannot.
Some things that i will go over on why he can do this is his EXPERIENCE and FRIENDS

hes always getting invited to do things either going to clubs, parties, 2 mans etc and with proximity to women means he'll obviously have more experience (but hes also been doing this since middle school)
looks like this image below but worse

This may contain: a young boy sitting on top of a bed giving the peace sign with his hand

3. Example 2:
ME/You reading this if you have been in a situation before no matter how significant/insignificant YOU have fumbled a girl whether it be a girl from your class, at a party, etc.
And ask your self would that person from example 1 have failed? answer is they probably would have done way better then you did and the reason is quite simple YOU ARE SOCIALLY RETARDED.
you cant talk to women because you simply lack the social skills to do so


4. friends/social groups:
When you have a GOOD friend getting girls becomes 10x easier.
Your able to learn from them not just pulling girls but also to improve your own social skills, your able to have someone to hang out with/go to parties with... Because you dont want to being going to a club or party alone and if you are and have success (making friends/talking to women) this thread isn't for you
but being able to talk to your friends ≠ being able to talk to women
ALSO
Girls like someone who has a life you cant ldar all day and expect to have good social skills or meet women.
When your part of a social group you'll come into contact with more woman which increases your social skills and perceived value which is why there will always be people like example 1.
and remember having 1 good friend who you can count on>a friend group who you cant count on.


5. Tips/advice
Experience matters the more you CONSIOUSLY interact with people/women the better your social skills will be.
You can always meet more women (clubs, approaching, apps) but your success will always be mitigated if your lacking social skills/friends
If your "friends" arent inviting you out to places they arent really your friends.
Yes looks also matter the better looking you are the easier it is to improve your social skills.
Woman have will always have anxiety when your first meeting them so if she brings a friend and you bring a friend (making a group) their anxiety lowers.

theres other of advice here on this form this is just some of the things that stand out too me

6. Conclusion
The reason you cant pull girls isnt because of your looks its because your not socially adept. We have all seen someone who looks horrible getting hot women and ask yourself what separates them from you ? The answer is lack of: experience, social skills and GOOD friends so go out there and fix these things.
Also not much in a different situation if you relate to this the ball is just starting to roll for me but when it gets better/I succeed more ill make more threads if you want


ps: sorry for formatting/thoughts being all over the place first higher effort post in a while hope you are able to take away a couple of things.
 
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this is generally common knowledge,

looks get you through the door personality keeps you in the room yadda yadda yadda

healthy balance is key
 
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tell that to him, he for sure would even be invited somewhere:lul:
 
View attachment 5201674tell that to him, he for sure would even be invited somewhere:lul:
bro the guy i talked about legit looks like a slightly upgraded version of that guy no fucking joke but yeah hes also been in that his social circle for a long time so obviously hes gonna get invited
 

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