Why "Being Yourself" is ideal

[sub5amIalive]

I keep seeing time and time again where dudes think they "fumbled" a bitch because they use certain words or language. For example, a guy will send a text and spend 15 min thinking over how to word it the best and when he gets ignored he will still think its because of whatever he said. Bitches are shallow and we already know how they determine how good a guy's "personality" is so in this situation theres no amount of word play that will lead to an ideal outcome.

I guess the solution for this is just to say whatever the fuck you want when texting or talking to a bitch, since you save yourself the stress of trying to put on a good appearance and if you get the green light from talking how you normally would, you will generally end up in a happier situation where you can act like yourself. Assuming you desire a relationship, sooner or later you're gonna have to start acting like yourself and it saves you a lot of time weeding out a particularly shallow girl if she wants the certain type of guy you were pretending to be. Basically, bitches aren't worth stressing over and acting a certain way to appease them isn't worth it either.

Ofc if you're lhtn+ then this doesn't apply since you could act like a serial killer and be chased regardless and this is assuming the bitch in question is of that >.1%that cares for personality.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Yes and no. Only reveal authentic things about your character through the way you talk and whatnot in the beginning stages. Selective revelations. Don't just put everything out there or you can indeed fumble a bitch.

Once the girl's invested time and/or money into you you can begin to reveal everythibg else.

 

[them streets b cold]

Problem is lots of guys are secretly insecure and they never done any inner healing to boost their mental health optimal function

 

[carvxx]

Veo una y otra vez cómo algunos tipos creen que "arruinaron" a una chica por usar ciertas palabras o expresiones. Por ejemplo, un tipo manda un mensaje y se pasa 15 minutos pensando en cómo redactarlo mejor, y cuando lo ignoran, sigue pensando que es por lo que dijo. Las chicas son superficiales y ya sabemos cómo juzgan la "personalidad" de un hombre, así que en esta situación, ningún juego de palabras va a dar un resultado ideal.

Supongo que la solución es simplemente decir lo que te dé la gana al chatear o hablar con una zorra, ya que te ahorras el estrés de intentar aparentar y, si te deja hablar como siempre, generalmente acabarás en una situación más agradable donde podrás ser tú mismo. Si deseas una relación, tarde o temprano tendrás que empezar a ser tú mismo y te ahorrarás mucho tiempo descartando a una chica superficial si busca el tipo de chico que fingías ser. Básicamente, no vale la pena estresarse por las zorras y tampoco vale la pena actuar de cierta manera para complacerlas.

Por supuesto, si eres lhtn+, esto no aplica, ya que podrías actuar como un asesino en serie y ser perseguido de todos modos, y esto asumiendo que la zorra en cuestión es de ese >.1% que se preocupa por la personalidad.

Actually good take, your right

 

[lockhead]

dnr

 

[jp212]

I keep seeing time and time again where dudes think they "fumbled" a bitch because they use certain words or language. For example, a guy will send a text and spend 15 min thinking over how to word it the best and when he gets ignored he will still think its because of whatever he said. Bitches are shallow and we already know how they determine how good a guy's "personality" is so in this situation theres no amount of word play that will lead to an ideal outcome.

I guess the solution for this is just to say whatever the fuck you want when texting or talking to a bitch, since you save yourself the stress of trying to put on a good appearance and if you get the green light from talking how you normally would, you will generally end up in a happier situation where you can act like yourself. Assuming you desire a relationship, sooner or later you're gonna have to start acting like yourself and it saves you a lot of time weeding out a particularly shallow girl if she wants the certain type of guy you were pretending to be. Basically, bitches aren't worth stressing over and acting a certain way to appease them isn't worth it either.

Ofc if you're lhtn+ then this doesn't apply since you could act like a serial killer and be chased regardless and this is assuming the bitch in question is of that >.1%that cares for personality.

getting ghosted or as you said fumbled happens because the bitches have so much ego and no self respect that they think they can just ignore the guy and go on fucking dudes careless because of feminism and the #youngho movement

 

[sub5amIalive]

Yes and no. Only reveal authentic things about your character through the way you talk and whatnot in the beginning stages. Selective revelations. Don't just put everything out there or you can indeed fumble a bitch.

Once the girl's invested time and/or money into you you can begin to reveal everythibg else.

yeah i'm mostly referring to deliberate acts of trying to play a character or trying to "act ideal" but you're right about wanting to keep some shit on the low until things get a bit more serious