Why both men and women should save their virginity for marriage/ltr. High IQ (incels and volcels GTFIH)

[_Tigrim_]

For both men and women, their first time having sex is special and they are never the same after. While this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. On top of this, every time a person has sex with a different person, their ability to pair bond decreases. And again, while this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. Both of these effects are because when you have sex with a person your brain releases chemicals which literally create new connections in your brain. But when you keep having sex with different people, this trains your brain to produce less of these chemicals since if you're going to keep moving on to new partners, what's the point of bonding right? So this results in it being harder to pair bond. This is why we naturally feel levels of disgust if we know someone has a high body count.

Therefore if you save your virginity for ltr/marriage to your soulmate, you'll have a much stronger bond than if you had fucked a bunch of others before. It is even proven in studies that virgin marriages last longer/have lower levels of divorce and have higher levels of marriage satisfaction and higher chances of being satisfied with their sex life.

Also I just want to mention here that some guys think that this only applies to women, that you can slay when you're young and then marry a virgin and it will be fine but that is not the case:

Other reasons are that since the two of you haven't slept with anyone but each other, you won't have prior experiences that could affect your expectations. Such as if you fucked a girl with a really tight pussy in the past but the girl you marry has a normal sized pussy, that previous experience can negatively affect your sex life. Same as if your wife previously slept with a guy bigger than you, you might end up like this JFL:

Mindblowing sex with a previous partner has ruined sex with my current partner. How do I fix this?

or just over a year from about mid 2023- mid 2024 I was separated from my partner of two decades. The split was amicable and necessary as he had some things he needed to sort out and was getting a little abusive of me while doing it. I wasn’t having that around our kids. We are now back together...

looksmax.org

The fact that you both are virgins means you can learn and explore together so you won't have any sexual baggage from previous sexual partners.

Higher numbers of sexual partners is also linked to depression. This is why you see so many guys say that slaying is not worth it and how they don't feel anything from it.

 

[ihearvoices]

I SAW this before i think

 

[craven]

virgin girls dont exist
its depressing

 

[isis_Bleach]

water

 

[_Tigrim_]

virgin girls dont exist
its depressing

That's why I said both genders should wait.

They do exist in religious/conservative countries, mostly Muslim ones. And some rare ones in the west that grew up with a strong Christian influence.

 

[flippasav]

Dnrd but I definitely agree

 

[St.TikTokcel]

Dnrd but I definitely agree

Are virgins more likely to set you on fire?

 

[mayo mogger]

For both men and women, their first time having sex is special and they are never the same after. While this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. On top of this, every time a person has sex with a different person, their ability to pair bond decreases. And again, while this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. Both of these effects are because when you have sex with a person your brain releases chemicals which literally create new connections in your brain. But when you keep having sex with different people, this trains your brain to produce less of these chemicals since if you're going to keep moving on to new partners, what's the point of bonding right? So this results in it being harder to pair bond. This is why we naturally feel levels of disgust if we know someone has a high body count.

Therefore if you save your virginity for ltr/marriage to your soulmate, you'll have a much stronger bond than if you had fucked a bunch of others before. It is even proven in studies that virgin marriages last longer/have lower levels of divorce and have higher levels of marriage satisfaction and higher chances of being satisfied with their sex life.

Also I just want to mention here that some guys think that this only applies to women, that you can slay when you're young and then marry a virgin and it will be fine but that is not the case:

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Other reasons are that since the two of you haven't slept with anyone but each other, you won't have prior experiences that could affect your expectations. Such as if you fucked a girl with a really tight pussy in the past but the girl you marry has a normal sized pussy, that previous experience can negatively affect your sex life. Same as if your wife previously slept with a guy bigger than you, you might end up like this JFL:

Mindblowing sex with a previous partner has ruined sex with my current partner. How do I fix this?

or just over a year from about mid 2023- mid 2024 I was separated from my partner of two decades. The split was amicable and necessary as he had some things he needed to sort out and was getting a little abusive of me while doing it. I wasn’t having that around our kids. We are now back together...

looksmax.org

The fact that you both are virgins means you can learn and explore together so you won't have any sexual baggage from previous sexual partners.

Higher numbers of sexual partners is also linked to depression. This is why you see so many guys say that slaying is not worth it and how they don't feel anything from it.

cope chads had harems of women , be grateful for soyciety that its somewhat controlled

 

[_Tigrim_]

cope chads had harems of women , be grateful for soyciety that its somewhat controlled

 

[qazw]

For both men and women, their first time having sex is special and they are never the same after. While this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. On top of this, every time a person has sex with a different person, their ability to pair bond decreases. And again, while this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. Both of these effects are because when you have sex with a person your brain releases chemicals which literally create new connections in your brain. But when you keep having sex with different people, this trains your brain to produce less of these chemicals since if you're going to keep moving on to new partners, what's the point of bonding right? So this results in it being harder to pair bond. This is why we naturally feel levels of disgust if we know someone has a high body count.

Therefore if you save your virginity for ltr/marriage to your soulmate, you'll have a much stronger bond than if you had fucked a bunch of others before. It is even proven in studies that virgin marriages last longer/have lower levels of divorce and have higher levels of marriage satisfaction and higher chances of being satisfied with their sex life.

Also I just want to mention here that some guys think that this only applies to women, that you can slay when you're young and then marry a virgin and it will be fine but that is not the case:

View attachment 3288784

Other reasons are that since the two of you haven't slept with anyone but each other, you won't have prior experiences that could affect your expectations. Such as if you fucked a girl with a really tight pussy in the past but the girl you marry has a normal sized pussy, that previous experience can negatively affect your sex life. Same as if your wife previously slept with a guy bigger than you, you might end up like this JFL:

Mindblowing sex with a previous partner has ruined sex with my current partner. How do I fix this?

or just over a year from about mid 2023- mid 2024 I was separated from my partner of two decades. The split was amicable and necessary as he had some things he needed to sort out and was getting a little abusive of me while doing it. I wasn’t having that around our kids. We are now back together...

looksmax.org

The fact that you both are virgins means you can learn and explore together so you won't have any sexual baggage from previous sexual partners.

Higher numbers of sexual partners is also linked to depression. This is why you see so many guys say that slaying is not worth it and how they don't feel anything from it.

Damn I didn't know this. Just be first is real

 

[_Tigrim_]

Damn I didn't know this. Just be first is real

Yes that's why just be first exists in the first place and why it is one of the only things that lets less attractive guys get girls out of their league. Because they have a stronger bond.

 

[_Tigrim_]

Bump

 

[mrdouchebag]

True, but you're comparing a hand that misses 4 fingers with a hand that misses 1 finger. Both are suboptimal, but one is still mostly functional while the other is useless. Not even remotely the same.

Plus it's not like the vast majority of men can be slayers even if they wanted.
The vast majority of women can be sluts quite easily, they just have to want to be sluts.
There are are geriatric, fat and ugly sluts. There are no geriatric, fat and ugly studs.
(mentioning the 0.01% of rich famous unattractive guys doesn't count)

Women already have the lead when it comes to promiscuity and destroying their pairbonding ability. Memes and jokes aside, the average 25 year old woman in the west nowadays probably has twice the bodycount of the average 25 year old man. If for example the average guy at 25 has been with like 5 women, the average woman at 25 has been with at least 10 guys.

 

[_Tigrim_]

True, but you're comparing a hand that misses 4 fingers with a hand that misses 1 finger. Both are suboptimal, but one is still mostly functional while the other is useless. Not even remotely the same.

Plus it's not like the vast majority of men can be slayers even if they wanted.
The vast majority of women can be sluts quite easily, they just have to want to be sluts.
There are are geriatric, fat and ugly sluts. There are no geriatric, fat and ugly studs.
(mentioning the 0.01% of rich famous unattractive guys doesn't count)

Women already have the lead when it comes to promiscuity and destroying their pairbonding ability. Memes and jokes aside, the average 25 year old woman in the west nowadays probably has twice the bodycount of the average 25 year old man. If for example the average guy at 25 has been with like 5 women, the average woman at 25 has been with at least 10 guys.

I'm not sure what your point is and I don't think you understood the point of my post either

 

[FutureSlayer]

bro jbf died in 2020, no girl is faithful even if you drill her hymen in todays world

 

[keepcopingboyo]

I agree but most of the world is too far fucking gone for this shit. As a dude if you save yourself due to how it is nowadays there is still a very high chance you marry a non-virgin, which kind of ruins the whole point.

 

[monecel]

virgin girls dont exist
its depressing

part of this seems to be to do with early puberty in women due to environmental endocrine disruptors and other reasons

 

[3links2]

Just thinking about it makes me depressed

I agree but most of the world is too far fucking gone for this shit. As a dude if you save yourself due to how it is nowadays there is still a very high chance you marry a non-virgin, which kind of ruins the whole point.

 

[charlieroo]

For both men and women, their first time having sex is special and they are never the same after. While this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. On top of this, every time a person has sex with a different person, their ability to pair bond decreases. And again, while this is more pronounced in women, it affects men too. Both of these effects are because when you have sex with a person your brain releases chemicals which literally create new connections in your brain. But when you keep having sex with different people, this trains your brain to produce less of these chemicals since if you're going to keep moving on to new partners, what's the point of bonding right? So this results in it being harder to pair bond. This is why we naturally feel levels of disgust if we know someone has a high body count.

Therefore if you save your virginity for ltr/marriage to your soulmate, you'll have a much stronger bond than if you had fucked a bunch of others before. It is even proven in studies that virgin marriages last longer/have lower levels of divorce and have higher levels of marriage satisfaction and higher chances of being satisfied with their sex life.

Also I just want to mention here that some guys think that this only applies to women, that you can slay when you're young and then marry a virgin and it will be fine but that is not the case:

View attachment 3288784

Other reasons are that since the two of you haven't slept with anyone but each other, you won't have prior experiences that could affect your expectations. Such as if you fucked a girl with a really tight pussy in the past but the girl you marry has a normal sized pussy, that previous experience can negatively affect your sex life. Same as if your wife previously slept with a guy bigger than you, you might end up like this JFL:

Mindblowing sex with a previous partner has ruined sex with my current partner. How do I fix this?

or just over a year from about mid 2023- mid 2024 I was separated from my partner of two decades. The split was amicable and necessary as he had some things he needed to sort out and was getting a little abusive of me while doing it. I wasn’t having that around our kids. We are now back together...

looksmax.org

The fact that you both are virgins means you can learn and explore together so you won't have any sexual baggage from previous sexual partners.

Higher numbers of sexual partners is also linked to depression. This is why you see so many guys say that slaying is not worth it and how they don't feel anything from it.

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