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Why BP doesn't exist, and u must be retarted to believe in it (part 2)
I decided to make a part two of this after many people were disagreeing. I'm not sure if explaining things with further detail will help open their eyes a bit, but here's further research, factual information, and non-objective evidence that Black Pill does not exist.
What is the definition of Black Pill?
To understand if Black Pill exists in the first place, we need to identify what it really is and what its definition is.
“Black Pill is an ideology, originating from incel online communities, that holds that physical appearance, specifically facial structure, height, and overall physical appearance, are the primary factors that determine someone's value or worth.”
Pretty much, Black Pill means that looks are literally everything and fully determine your value and worth as a human being.
IF Black Pill's definition meant “Looks are everything when it comes to dating and first impressions”, THEN, Black Pill would be considered to be true, but that is not Black Pill's definition.
What Looks are good for
Looks are incredibly important, but they are not EVERYTHING like how black pill says. They determine your romantic and social life as well as first impressions. These are considerably big parts of life, but they are not EVERYTHING.
If someone had the mindset where all they wanted to do was hook up with girls, then it makes sense why they would believe in Black Pill. However, if ur only interest is in being able to pull any girl you want while getting a good sense of “popularity” for it, makes HUGE npc as you are letting your path be chosen in life by other people instead of wanting to decide what YOU want to do with your life.
Looksmaxxing VS Black Pill
One thing to also discuss is what Looksmaxxing and Black Pill both mean and why they are almost completely different.
Looksmaxxing is the act of personal improvement to try and make yourself more attractive; whether it's just working out or getting a full on jaw surgery, both are considered some form of looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing is the idea that you can improve how you look.
Once again, Black pill is the idea that it's pretty much already over, and that you have no worth if ur like an MTN. Many people might confuse these because people who are Black Pilled will want to learn and do a TON of looksmaxxing, as their belief is that their looks are what define them and are the only thing that matters. Although occasionally, most people will never reach HTN in their life, ever. Therefore, they get this depressing sense of worthlessness and that their life is “over”.
Black Pill when it comes to looking good not for others, but for yourself.
One thing I experienced a lot which made me depressed was not wanting appreciation from others for looking good, but appreciation for myself. I think this is one of the most common reasons why people believe in black pill. I have this giant mirror in my room and am constantly reminded about how I look, and that I always want to look better, not for anyone else but myself, as it's a sense of confidence and self love; however, at the end of the day, for some people, no matter what you do, you will never reach HTN. Notice how I said for SOME people, there are so many LTNs who have reached HTN, so it's not always completely over. No matter how much shit you research about the anatomy of the face, most of the time the only way to actually make big improvements is through surgery, which is expensive and not what most people can afford.
Mental Health
This part is gonna make so many black pilled dumb asses mad, but let's just cover the main motive of this before we get into this with this idea on “How to enjoy life as much as possible”.
When it comes down to it, everyone alive now was born, whether they liked it or not. Doesn't matter if they never wanted to be; they were. You might compare yourself to someone having insane genes and being a HTN or Chad, but there are some Sub 5 out there wishing they looked as good as you. Overall, your genes and your attractiveness are fully luck-based; however, it is not the main source of luck that determines your "happiness".
Why mental health is important MORE than looks.
As I said, it's a source of luck that determines your looks, but you are only given ONE shot at life, you're not gonna die and then reincarnate as some chad. Do you not think that if you're only given one shot, you may as well enjoy it to the best you can? The chances of you being born are 1 in 400 trillion, this is surface level knowledge. Are you really going to waste your life away because ur not an HTN? One way to enjoy your super rare life that you only get once is to enjoy it. You're not going to enjoy it if you obsess over how others look and how chopped you are.
This is obviously well known logical knowledge, and if you disagree, your logic skills must be shit, but there are definitely millions of people who lived better lives than those who were more attractive than them.
Yes, you're right, being confident and looking attractive and being a chad obviously does help increase your mental health, but too much confidence can lead to narcissism, which is only what NPCS believe in. Yes, looking good can increase your mental health, but if the idea is to enjoy your one shot at life as much as possible, there are still other ways to be mentally healthy.
Ways to increase Mental health.
Here's a bunch of ways to increase your mental health and overall enjoyment in life.
General
Hypergamy is real, no doubt about it, but it isn't real everywhere around the world. Obviously, it is largest in America, but in countries that are less on social media, it doesn't even exist. I live in New Zealand, and I'm going to tell you there are hypergamous GUYS. The amount of MTN guys I have seen with HTBs is insane.
Obviously, just cos in New Zealand it isn't that big of a deal doesn't mean it's not that big of a deal in America, that is not what I was trying to say at all. What I'm trying to say is that it does exist, but it should not be generalised to ALL human relationships. So if you live in America, yeah, it might be larger, but it does not exist for EVERY woman who walks the earth. What I'm trying to say is if u live in some more niche country that sort of has lower social media intake, blaming u not being able to pull on hypergamy is stupid, I mean, sure it COULD be the reason, but very unlikely.
Conclusion
Overall, looks define massive concepts of life, mainly when it comes to dating, social popularity, and first impressions. BUT, they are not “everything”. You can still live a good life, maybe even better than someone who mogs you, if you just do everything right and genuinely enjoy it.
Also, to those little low IQ retards who didn't read the whole thing and are just like “loyal to the pill” and make comments saying IM the retarted one, I couldn't give two shits bro keep ur cortisol spiked. THE ONLY WAY you could make believe that Looks really are the most important thing in life is for u to make ur own post like this with full evidence explaining why black pill is real and that looks truly are everything.
Also, this is not a blue pilled post, this is a grey, if u think it's blue ur dumb af.
I decided to make a part two of this after many people were disagreeing. I'm not sure if explaining things with further detail will help open their eyes a bit, but here's further research, factual information, and non-objective evidence that Black Pill does not exist.
What is the definition of Black Pill?
To understand if Black Pill exists in the first place, we need to identify what it really is and what its definition is.
“Black Pill is an ideology, originating from incel online communities, that holds that physical appearance, specifically facial structure, height, and overall physical appearance, are the primary factors that determine someone's value or worth.”
Pretty much, Black Pill means that looks are literally everything and fully determine your value and worth as a human being.
IF Black Pill's definition meant “Looks are everything when it comes to dating and first impressions”, THEN, Black Pill would be considered to be true, but that is not Black Pill's definition.
What Looks are good for
Looks are incredibly important, but they are not EVERYTHING like how black pill says. They determine your romantic and social life as well as first impressions. These are considerably big parts of life, but they are not EVERYTHING.
If someone had the mindset where all they wanted to do was hook up with girls, then it makes sense why they would believe in Black Pill. However, if ur only interest is in being able to pull any girl you want while getting a good sense of “popularity” for it, makes HUGE npc as you are letting your path be chosen in life by other people instead of wanting to decide what YOU want to do with your life.
Looksmaxxing VS Black Pill
One thing to also discuss is what Looksmaxxing and Black Pill both mean and why they are almost completely different.
Looksmaxxing is the act of personal improvement to try and make yourself more attractive; whether it's just working out or getting a full on jaw surgery, both are considered some form of looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing is the idea that you can improve how you look.
Once again, Black pill is the idea that it's pretty much already over, and that you have no worth if ur like an MTN. Many people might confuse these because people who are Black Pilled will want to learn and do a TON of looksmaxxing, as their belief is that their looks are what define them and are the only thing that matters. Although occasionally, most people will never reach HTN in their life, ever. Therefore, they get this depressing sense of worthlessness and that their life is “over”.
Black Pill when it comes to looking good not for others, but for yourself.
One thing I experienced a lot which made me depressed was not wanting appreciation from others for looking good, but appreciation for myself. I think this is one of the most common reasons why people believe in black pill. I have this giant mirror in my room and am constantly reminded about how I look, and that I always want to look better, not for anyone else but myself, as it's a sense of confidence and self love; however, at the end of the day, for some people, no matter what you do, you will never reach HTN. Notice how I said for SOME people, there are so many LTNs who have reached HTN, so it's not always completely over. No matter how much shit you research about the anatomy of the face, most of the time the only way to actually make big improvements is through surgery, which is expensive and not what most people can afford.
Mental Health
This part is gonna make so many black pilled dumb asses mad, but let's just cover the main motive of this before we get into this with this idea on “How to enjoy life as much as possible”.
When it comes down to it, everyone alive now was born, whether they liked it or not. Doesn't matter if they never wanted to be; they were. You might compare yourself to someone having insane genes and being a HTN or Chad, but there are some Sub 5 out there wishing they looked as good as you. Overall, your genes and your attractiveness are fully luck-based; however, it is not the main source of luck that determines your "happiness".
Why mental health is important MORE than looks.
As I said, it's a source of luck that determines your looks, but you are only given ONE shot at life, you're not gonna die and then reincarnate as some chad. Do you not think that if you're only given one shot, you may as well enjoy it to the best you can? The chances of you being born are 1 in 400 trillion, this is surface level knowledge. Are you really going to waste your life away because ur not an HTN? One way to enjoy your super rare life that you only get once is to enjoy it. You're not going to enjoy it if you obsess over how others look and how chopped you are.
This is obviously well known logical knowledge, and if you disagree, your logic skills must be shit, but there are definitely millions of people who lived better lives than those who were more attractive than them.
Yes, you're right, being confident and looking attractive and being a chad obviously does help increase your mental health, but too much confidence can lead to narcissism, which is only what NPCS believe in. Yes, looking good can increase your mental health, but if the idea is to enjoy your one shot at life as much as possible, there are still other ways to be mentally healthy.
Ways to increase Mental health.
Here's a bunch of ways to increase your mental health and overall enjoyment in life.
General
- Reducing isolation
- Your hobbies; could be playing Fortnite with mates, playing a sport, or even a solo hobby like drawing.
- Regular Exercise
- Good Sleep consistency
- Good, healthy nutrition
Hypergamy is real, no doubt about it, but it isn't real everywhere around the world. Obviously, it is largest in America, but in countries that are less on social media, it doesn't even exist. I live in New Zealand, and I'm going to tell you there are hypergamous GUYS. The amount of MTN guys I have seen with HTBs is insane.
Obviously, just cos in New Zealand it isn't that big of a deal doesn't mean it's not that big of a deal in America, that is not what I was trying to say at all. What I'm trying to say is that it does exist, but it should not be generalised to ALL human relationships. So if you live in America, yeah, it might be larger, but it does not exist for EVERY woman who walks the earth. What I'm trying to say is if u live in some more niche country that sort of has lower social media intake, blaming u not being able to pull on hypergamy is stupid, I mean, sure it COULD be the reason, but very unlikely.
Conclusion
Overall, looks define massive concepts of life, mainly when it comes to dating, social popularity, and first impressions. BUT, they are not “everything”. You can still live a good life, maybe even better than someone who mogs you, if you just do everything right and genuinely enjoy it.
Also, to those little low IQ retards who didn't read the whole thing and are just like “loyal to the pill” and make comments saying IM the retarted one, I couldn't give two shits bro keep ur cortisol spiked. THE ONLY WAY you could make believe that Looks really are the most important thing in life is for u to make ur own post like this with full evidence explaining why black pill is real and that looks truly are everything.
Also, this is not a blue pilled post, this is a grey, if u think it's blue ur dumb af.
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