Why cant i have the same kind of life with boring friends as i can with popular friends?

[Deleted member 64428]

For my own good i cut contact with my ex after talking for 7 months, at the same time I stopped talking to popular guys in my school and just started hanging out with the normal kids who dont use any drugs or drink alcohol etc.

My life and mental health instantly improved, but holy fucking shit it was boring. I got a talking stage while doing that and even she was boring as fuck because she was a "good" type of girl

Now a few days ago I started talking to a girl again who uses drugs, drinks, has mental health problems etc. But holy fuck does it feel so much better again

Its like I was just reborn from this stupid boring version of myself, but this is not what I want though

I would want to have the good life i want but i dont think its possible, atleast not before I apply into a private highschool

Tldr: This thread is so hard to explain, especially to someone who's not my age in english that im not even trying to make a tldr

@6ft4 @majesticincel @i_love_roosters

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Water thread for real

 

[PsychoDsk]

I feel ya
Just peer pressure the boring dudes into some fun and there’s your solution

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Just peer pressure the boring dudes into some fun and there’s your solution

You know I tried this once and it almost worked but no

 

[BrutalMogger]

this thread changed the course of my life

 

[PsychoDsk]

You know I tried this once and it almost worked but no

Lmao seeing nerds do drugs is actually so funny
Start them off simple with some snus and slowly work their way up till they’re shooting dark

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Lmao seeing nerds do drugs is actually so funny
Start them off simple with some snus and slowly work their way up till they’re shooting dark

Literally everyone does snus, I live in finland

But yeah youre right

 

[i_love_roosters]

For my own good i cut contact with my ex after talking for 7 months, at the same time I stopped talking to popular guys in my school and just started hanging out with the normal kids who dont use any drugs or drink alcohol etc.

My life and mental health instantly improved, but holy fucking shit it was boring. I got a talking stage while doing that and even she was boring as fuck because she was a "good" type of girl

Now a few days ago I started talking to a girl again who uses drugs, drinks, has mental health problems etc. But holy fuck does it feel so much better again

Its like I was just reborn from this stupid boring version of myself, but this is not what I want though

I would want to have the good life i want but i dont think its possible, atleast not before I apply into a private highschool

Tldr: This thread is so hard to explain, especially to someone who's not my age in english that im not even trying to make a tldr

@6ft4 @majesticincel @i_love_roosters

I know what you're talking about. My friend group consists of very funny and unusual people. It's not the friend group a person like me usually has. The good thing is that despite them being this way they're not into drugs. I don't like drugs. I can't imagine hanging out with normies. Infact this really nice normie wants to be my friend so bad but I just can't, that nigga is way too npc

 

[Deleted member 64428]

I don't like drugs.

Me neither, i hate them. I can't stand it that only good people use them and the ones who hate them too are so autistic its unbelievable

 

[i_love_roosters]

Me neither, i hate them. I can't stand it that only good people use them and the ones who hate them too are so autistic its unbelievable

I don't use cuz I had terrible experiences, my niggas don't cuz they're village dwellers

 

[Deleted member 64428]

I don't use cuz I had terrible experiences, my niggas don't cuz they're village dwellers

Holy shit this is so real

 

[Darkeningstar]

this thread changed the course of my life

Tales from Sekondi-Takoradi

 

[NORDEN SLAVORUM]

Same shit for me

 

[Deleted member 64428]

I don't use cuz I had terrible experiences, my niggas don't cuz they're village dwellers

Dude fuck now the girl asked me to come drink with her

 

[R@m@]

Self destruction is cool

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Self destruction is cool

Self destruction is cool, self healing is boring.

I dont know which one to choose

 

[Alucard69]

Why do you have to exclude one thing to do another?

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Why do you have to exclude one thing to do another?

Its hard to have both

 

[Alucard69]

private highschool

private highschool suomes en oo kuullu enne

 

[Deleted member 64428]

private highschool suomes en oo kuullu enne

Private highschool = yksityinen lukio, Tampereella on aika monta

Eli vaan perus lukio mut joka ei oo kunnan omistuksessa niinku joku vitun hervannan lukio joka on täynnä nistejä ja spurguja

Vaikuttaa budjettiin ja silleen osittain myös keskiarvorajaan

Käytin varmasti paskaa termiä mutta kun ei vittu englanniks ees oo hyvää termiä lukiolle kun highschool tarkottaa Amerikassa kai vaan jotain luokkia 9-12

 

[Alucard69]

Private highschool = yksityinen lukio, Tampereella on aika monta

Eli vaan perus lukio mut joka ei oo kunnan omistuksessa niinku joku vitun hervannan lukio joka on täynnä nistejä ja spurguja

Vaikuttaa budjettiin ja silleen osittain myös keskiarvorajaan

Käytin varmasti paskaa termiä mutta kun ei vittu englanniks ees oo hyvää termiä lukiolle kun highschool tarkottaa Amerikassa kai vaan jotain luokkia 9-12

Miten en oo kuullu enne yksityisist lukioista, luulin et ei oo juttu suomes. Maksaaks ne tai mitää, miten ne eroo norm lukioista

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

Private highschool = yksityinen lukio, Tampereella on aika monta

Eli vaan perus lukio mut joka ei oo kunnan omistuksessa niinku joku vitun hervannan lukio joka on täynnä nistejä ja spurguja

Vaikuttaa budjettiin ja silleen osittain myös keskiarvorajaan

Käytin varmasti paskaa termiä mutta kun ei vittu englanniks ees oo hyvää termiä lukiolle kun highschool tarkottaa Amerikassa kai vaan jotain luokkia 9-12

i thought you were italian

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Miten en oo kuullu enne yksityisist lukioista, luulin et ei oo juttu suomes. Maksaaks ne tai mitää, miten ne eroo norm lukioista

No siis ei yhtään mitenkään muuten kun että kunta ei omista niitä, sama asia kun esim osa amiksista kuten vaikka Tredu, ne amikset ei oo kunnan omistuksessa mutta ne on silti samanarvoisia kuin kunnan omat ja niistä saatu tutkinto ei oo yhtään parempi tai huonompi

Suurin etu on se että voi olla parempaa ruokaa, paremmat tilat, paremmat varusteet ja paremmat opettajat.

Koska kuten varmaan tiiät, Suomen kunnat on yleensä köyhiä ellei olla saaristossa

 

[Alucard69]

No siis ei yhtään mitenkään muuten kun että kunta ei omista niitä, sama asia kun esim osa amiksista kuten vaikka Tredu, ne amikset ei oo kunnan omistuksessa mutta ne on silti samanarvoisia kuin kunnan omat ja niistä saatu tutkinto ei oo yhtään parempi tai huonompi

Suurin etu on se että voi olla parempaa ruokaa, paremmat tilat, paremmat varusteet ja paremmat opettajat.

Koska kuten varmaan tiiät, Suomen kunnat on yleensä köyhiä ellei olla saaristossa

Ei mitää hajuu suomen poliitikasta tbh lol, tiedättekste yhteyshaus mitkä on kunnan omistamii/mitkä yksityisii, haetaaks niihin jotenki eriksee?

 

[Deleted member 64428]

Ei mitää hajuu suomen poliitikasta tbh lol, tiedättekste yhteyshaus mitkä on kunnan omistamii/mitkä yksityisii, haetaaks niihin jotenki eriksee?

Ei, täysin sama yhteishaku eikä OPOt yhtään suosittele yksityisiä yhtään enempää kuin julkisia. Yhteishaussa sitä ei kyllä mainita mutta sen löytää googlaamalla ja jossain tapauksissa nimestä tai motosta

Ne on siis loppujen lopuksi ihan normaaleja lukioita mutta omistaja on vaan eri

 

[Alucard69]

Ei, täysin sama yhteishaku eikä OPOt yhtään suosittele yksityisiä yhtään enempää kuin julkisia. Yhteishaussa sitä ei kyllä mainita mutta sen löytää googlaamalla ja jossain tapauksissa nimestä tai motosta

Ne on siis loppujen lopuksi ihan normaaleja lukioita mutta omistaja on vaan eri

Jos ymmärsin oikein mitä nopeesti googlasin, niin sillä ei oo hirveen välii et onko yksityinen vai julkinen. Sanoisin et ei opettajil tms. hirveesti välii lukiossa lol, ellet oo jotenki erityisen kunnianhimone koulun suhteen

 

[majesticincel]

I Cant beleive that im rotting in this shithole again

 

[jefty]

For my own good i cut contact with my ex after talking for 7 months, at the same time I stopped talking to popular guys in my school and just started hanging out with the normal kids who dont use any drugs or drink alcohol etc.

My life and mental health instantly improved, but holy fucking shit it was boring. I got a talking stage while doing that and even she was boring as fuck because she was a "good" type of girl

Now a few days ago I started talking to a girl again who uses drugs, drinks, has mental health problems etc. But holy fuck does it feel so much better again

Its like I was just reborn from this stupid boring version of myself, but this is not what I want though

I would want to have the good life i want but i dont think its possible, atleast not before I apply into a private highschool

Tldr: This thread is so hard to explain, especially to someone who's not my age in english that im not even trying to make a tldr

@6ft4 @majesticincel @i_love_roosters

Idk what to say lokki, its not as bad