Why can't I make friends :(

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habeebullah

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Yes I'm a subhuman but I've seen many guys within my looks range have close friends, even being able to befriend foids. I'm kind, interesting, and funny and reasonably NT I'd say.

I'm in my second semester of university and so far I haven't really made any friends. I don't think it's a looks thing because literally a few hours ago I saw this subhuman short curry walking with a chink foid and they were clearly friends.
 
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Pls answer guys :feelswhy:
 
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Do you actively do anything to socialize?
 
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Di u stay inside all day / what user ontop said
 
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enter their life some how ? I don't really know
 
Do you actively do anything to socialize?
Like I haven't joined any clubs because my uni literally doesn't have any (atleast the campus I'm on. Next semester I'll be going to the main campus which does have clubs, and so I plan on joining one then)

I sit next to people in class but they never talk to me. Although yeah I've never talked to them either tbf
 
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Like I haven't joined any clubs because my uni literally doesn't have any (atleast the campus I'm on. Next semester I'll be going to the main campus which does have clubs, and so I plan on joining one then)

I sit next to people in class but they never talk to me. Although yeah I've never talked to them either tbf
Find a hobby girls like (music art fashion etc) and they will come up to you
It's not that hard really
 
Like I haven't joined any clubs because my uni literally doesn't have any (atleast the campus I'm on. Next semester I'll be going to the main campus which does have clubs, and so I plan on joining one then)

I sit next to people in class but they never talk to me. Although yeah I've never talked to them either tbf
I cant say too much about it, im going to uni in a few months but i feel like going to parties and socializing in the first few weeks is kinda law in college

Thats the time when most people dont have any friends and you can easily make some

Idk what i would do in your situation tho
 
Like I haven't joined any clubs because my uni literally doesn't have any (atleast the campus I'm on. Next semester I'll be going to the main campus which does have clubs, and so I plan on joining one then)

I sit next to people in class but they never talk to me. Although yeah I've never talked to them either tbf
Living off campus is the issue.
 
I go to uni and the gym and then spend the rest of the day at home
Like I haven't joined any clubs because my uni literally doesn't have any (atleast the campus I'm on. Next semester I'll be going to the main campus which does have clubs, and so I plan on joining one then)

I sit next to people in class but they never talk to me. Although yeah I've never talked to them either tbf
First thing you can do is make sure you join stuff next semester to get out of your comfort zone.

is it social anxiety or confidence issue and you dont know what to say or how to start convos ??
 
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Living off campus is the issue.
It's a commuter campus, it's legit built in a mall lmao. I couldn't live on campus even if I wanted to as there are no dorms
 
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abused dog dyndrome likely
 
Unfortunately if making friends doesn't come easy for you then you're screwed. I've seen guys less than half my looks level with big friend groups effortlessly while I can't get any if I tried. Maybe I'm nonNT but idk I don't view myself as that awkward or strange. Some guys just "fall through the cracks" of society
 
I cant say too much about it, im going to uni in a few months but i feel like going to parties and socializing in the first few weeks is kinda law in college

Thats the time when most people dont have any friends and you can easily make some

Idk what i would do in your situation tho
What if you donโ€™t get invited to parties
 
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iโ€™ll be ur friend bro
 
Yes I'm a subhuman but I've seen many guys within my looks range have close friends, even being able to befriend foids. I'm kind, interesting, and funny and reasonably NT I'd say.

I'm in my second semester of university and so far I haven't really made any friends. I don't think it's a looks thing because literally a few hours ago I saw this subhuman short curry walking with a chink foid and they were clearly friends.
You need to come up to people and introduce yourself and then bring up clavicular to get them hooked in a conversation
 

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