Why can’t normies accept a “I don’t want to”

[360peter]

Just had to lie straight up to two of my friends, because I didn’t want to go to a party. There are some extremely annoying nt cunts there, so I enjoy my own pressene so much more. My two friends who hasn’t let the nt cunts completely steal their mind aren’t coming either, so it would genuienly be hell.
It was a birthday party and I backed out a couple hours before, so that was a bit fucked up from my side, but like there’s no need to try and guilt trip me, just cus I don’t want to waste my time on a couple of cunts lol

 

[Azi.org]

Mostly virtue signaling when you say you dont want to do something they act as if the world is ending because it shows they really care about you when in reality they dont

 

[BadLuck7892]

Just had to lie straight up to two of my friends, because I didn’t want to go to a party. There are some extremely annoying nt cunts there, so I enjoy my own pressene so much more. My two friends who hasn’t let the nt cunts completely steal their mind aren’t coming either, so it would genuienly be hell.
It was a birthday party and I backed out a couple hours before, so that was a bit fucked up from my side, but like there’s no need to try and guilt trip me, just cus I don’t want to waste my time on a couple of cunts lol

The best guess I can think of: Because normies live for social events (so they can't comprehend the idea of hating social events)

I've dealt with the same thing with this NT party animal couple that used to live in my building