Why didn’t she respond? Is it over?

[throwaway499]

What the fuck man why didn’t she respond yet. She seemed very interested. Our first date went well we got ice cream. Btw I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’10

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

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What the fuck man why didn’t she respond yet. She seemed very interested. Our first date went well we got ice cream. Btw I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’10

What's your rating? Otherwise you have your answer there probably

 

[throwaway499]

What's your rating? Otherwise you have your answer there probably

I would say my face is +1 point above hers + I’m gymmaxxed

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I would say my face is +1 point above hers + I’m gymmaxxed

Hard to tell, but could be the factor, as well as anything like her probably not responding yet duo to not being active, her talking with someone else, her being busy. Doesn't seem like you did much wrong conversation wise

 

[AlexBrown84]

Big influences in my lifestyle right now are cycling, electro, Frank ocean, and Korean style tattoos

 

[DarkLoner94]

Hopefully you can rectify the situation

 

[Deleted member 4362]

She is riding chad

 

[Deleted member 16944]

'Watch a movie' = come over to fuck. Most girls still don't like it when you're that explicit. Better to take her to a venue near your place then bounce her back imho.

 

[throwaway499]

'Watch a movie' = come over to fuck. Most girls still don't like it when you're that explicit. Better to take her to a venue near your place then bounce her back imho.

In my view I’m expressing my sexual intent she could still come over and not fuck I’m not gonna rape her JFL. We only made out for a minute on first date due to poor logistics

 

[Deleted member 16944]

In my view I’m expressing my sexual intent she could still come over and not fuck I’m not gonna rape her JFL. We only made out for a minute on first date due to poor logistics

you don't understand how the game works, JFL. Women like to have plausible deniability. You don't even need to express sexual intent verbally, just do it through escalation
It might still work, she might say yes, especially if she's a slut.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

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What the fuck man why didn’t she respond yet. She seemed very interested. Our first date went well we got ice cream. Btw I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’10

She's not that attracted to you.

 

[Based_Toad]

whatever you do don't text her back

Just forget about it for now

 

[Yliaster]

'Watch a movie' = come over to fuck. Most girls still don't like it when you're that explicit. Better to take her to a venue near your place then bounce her back imho.

fckn cope lmao

her last text basically says everything

"busy and possibly" = boy bye

 

[reborn]

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What the fuck man why didn’t she respond yet. She seemed very interested. Our first date went well we got ice cream. Btw I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’10

Because she is getting pounded by Chad this very second.

 

[throwaway499]

She's not that attracted to you.

Possibly but if that was the case why would she make it so easy to get her out on a first date? She seemed to have a good time during it

 

[throwaway499]

whatever you do don't text her back

Just forget about it for now

wasn't planning on it. I see her at the gym sometimes JFL

 

[throwaway499]

fckn cope lmao

her last text basically says everything

"busy and possibly" = boy bye

how lol she literally offered the other days she wasnt busy

 

[thereallegend]

She's not that attracted to you.

 

[Based_Toad]

wasn't planning on it. I see her at the gym sometimes JFL

when you go to the gym and see her again ignore her

If she comes up and asks why you didnt say hi be like "Cuz you left me on read"

Shes gonna say "sorry plus excuse"

Then be like "ok so do you want to hang out then?"

if she says no or gives an excuse be like "alright then we're done you not fucking with me"

 

[thereallegend]

Maybe she's actually busy.

Give it one more day.

 

[throwaway499]

when you go to the gym and see her again ignore her

If she comes up and asks why you didnt say hi be like "Cuz you left me on read"

Shes gonna say "sorry plus excuse"

Then be like "ok so do you want to hang out then?"

if she says no or gives an excuse be like "alright then we're done you not fucking with me"

I seriously doubt she'd say anything, a wave at most. I'm gymmaxxed and nearly every woman is chickenshit especially with a confrontation like that

 

[looksmaxxed]

she knows you want sex but she sees you as a betabux orbiter who she can fall back on if she can't secure chad. best thing you can do is turn the conversation sexual. if she wants to she will continue, if not, move on.

 

[Based_Toad]

I seriously doubt she'd say anything, a wave at most. I'm gymmaxxed and nearly every woman is chickenshit especially with a confrontation like that

Alright whatever bro

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Possibly but if that was the case why would she make it so easy to get her out on a first date? She seemed to have a good time during it

Because she probably lost her attraction for you during that first date and just doesn't want to be mean about it. You gotta understand that women need to feel like they're a good person. You spoiled whatever mystery you held before going on the date. Whatever the case, she's not attracted to you.

Whenever you ask a girl if she wants to spend time with you and she responds with anything that has the words "possibly" or "maybe" in them then you can be 100% sure that she's not attracted to you.

In the future don't ask a girl if she got home safely or follow up with a text after a date. Don't tell her you had fun or any sh*t like that. Let her be the one to contact you first, and if she doesn't don't sweat it. If she likes you she will message you.

 

[throwaway499]

Because she probably lost her attraction for you during that first date and just doesn't want to be mean about it. You gotta understand that women need to feel like they're a good person. You spoiled whatever mystery you held before going on the date. Whatever the case, she's not attracted to you.

Whenever you ask a girl if she wants to spend time with you and she responds with anything that has the words "possibly" or "maybe" in them then you can be 100% sure that she's not attracted to you.

In the future don't ask a girl if she got home safely or follow up with a text after a date. Don't tell her you had fun or any sh*t like that. Let her be the one to contact you first, and if she doesn't don't sweat it. If she likes you she will message you.

the reason i sent the follow up was because i saw her in the gym like 2 hours beforehand and she was acting awkward. I though she was acting like that cuz i didnt contact her at all after date

 

[Deleted member 19157]

u cant fumble times, it makes it seem as tho u have nothing else going on, u need to be straight foward. say ok well another time then, and thats it.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

the reason i sent the follow up was because i saw her in the gym like 2 hours beforehand and she was acting awkward. I though she was acting like that cuz i didnt contact her at all after date

Yeah, she just didn't like you.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

All cope, unfortunately whores are so inundated with options their brains are beyond fried for pair bonding.

You need to try fuck first date and forget, that’s the only way you get leverage.

Forget this whore and move on, if you have nothing to move onto looksmax.

 

[throwaway499]

All cope, unfortunately whores are so inundated with options their brains are beyond fried for pair bonding.

You need to try fuck first date and forget, that’s the only way you get leverage.

Forget this whore and move on, if you have nothing to move onto looksmax.

she has been forgotten and i have determined i need a lower blepharoplasty

 

[gymmaxedhorse]

All cope, unfortunately whores are so inundated with options their brains are beyond fried for pair bonding.

You need to try fuck first date and forget, that’s the only way you get leverage.

Forget this whore and move on, if you have nothing to move onto looksmax.

If you don’t at least get kiss or head on the first date then ghost her ass. Interest isn’t there enough

 

[maxeverything]

Why are you going for chicks taller than you? They are way less likely to be attracted to you. You’re 5’8, that’s bad but it’s def not over, there’s many women shorter than you. With that said you also may have been too forward unless she hinted at wanting to do that or you guys had already talked about it. Some girls wouldn’t consider that too forward, it’s not super egregious but many would.

 

[throwaway499]

If you don’t at least get kiss or head on the first date then ghost her ass. Interest isn’t there enough

I did we made out and i groped her ass

 

[throwaway499]

Why are you going for chicks taller than you? They are way less likely to be attracted to you. You’re 5’8, that’s bad but it’s def not over, there’s many women shorter than you. With that said you also may have been too forward unless she hinted at wanting to do that or you guys had already talked about it. Some girls wouldn’t consider that too forward, it’s not super egregious but many would.

locationcel with shit tier logistics for fucking. Matched the chick on a dating app and she also goes to my gym

 

[throwaway499]

@Niko69 @Sortofcel @Jamesothy @Based_Toad @Yliaster @thereallegend @maxeverything

Finally got a text back from her. My first instinct is this is a bullshit excuse to save face while giving me a soft rejection. Is it cope if I still think she’s actually interested

 

[throwaway499]

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@Niko69 @Sortofcel @Jamesothy @Based_Toad @Yliaster @thereallegend @maxeverything

Finally got a text back from her. My first instinct is this is a bullshit excuse to save face while giving me a soft rejection. Is it cope if I still think she’s actually interested

i will probably reply something like "no worries just hmu to reschedule" to save my dignity as I occasionally see this chick irl.

 

[maxeverything]

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@Niko69 @Sortofcel @Jamesothy @Based_Toad @Yliaster @thereallegend @maxeverything

Finally got a text back from her. My first instinct is this is a bullshit excuse to save face while giving me a soft rejection. Is it cope if I still think she’s actually interested

Most likely she’s rejecting you. There’s a small chance she’s still down or could be in the future so don’t sperg out on her, but don’t get your hopes up

 

[Deleted member 16944]

i will probably reply something like "no worries just hmu to reschedule" to save my dignity as I occasionally see this chick irl.

Good luck getting a girl to hit you up with an alternative offer. They almost never will. Girls do not lead interactions in 90% of cases.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

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@Niko69 @Sortofcel @Jamesothy @Based_Toad @Yliaster @thereallegend @maxeverything

Finally got a text back from her. My first instinct is this is a bullshit excuse to save face while giving me a soft rejection. Is it cope if I still think she’s actually interested

She was probably waiting to see if there were other guys willing in the meantime and she probably found chad, I would honestly just dont reply, but if you'd like I suggest for you to wait a week and just say "no worries"

 

[Corleone]

Our first date went well we got ice cream

Should have creampied her instead

Btw I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’10

There‘s the reason. Her being seen outside with you is like if you take out your landwhale slam-hog side chick, totally embarrassing if seen by anyone that knows you.

 

[Corleone]

She was probably waiting to see if there were other guys willing in the meantime and she probably found chad, I would honestly just dont reply, but if you'd like I suggest for you to wait a week and just say "no worries"

Brutal self-aware chad

 

[throwaway499]

Good luck getting a girl to hit you up with an alternative offer. They almost never will. Girls do not lead interactions in 90% of cases.

in my opinion its over at this point so im not legit expecting her to reschedule just want to save my dignity. if shes actually interested (doubt it) she'll at least send another text back

 

[Yliaster]

i will probably reply something like "no worries just hmu to reschedule" to save my dignity as I occasionally see this chick irl.

dude just let this entire thing go,you laready fckd it up from jump by allowing her to lead everything

use it as a learning experience and move on

 

[throwaway499]

dude just let this entire thing go,you laready fckd it up from jump by allowing her to lead everything

use it as a learning experience and move on

allowing her to lead everything? wtf are you talking about. I've already accepted its over

 

[Curry Suicide]

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@Niko69 @Sortofcel @Jamesothy @Based_Toad @Yliaster @thereallegend @maxeverything

Finally got a text back from her. My first instinct is this is a bullshit excuse to save face while giving me a soft rejection. Is it cope if I still think she’s actually interested

She found someone better than you

 

[the BULL]

That's why i'm done with dating apps. Even if they helped me get laid i'm done with getting mogged, done with the ghosting. Ltr Is life

 

[throwaway499]

Gym halo + I mogged this girl by a point facially WTF ITS OVER. Schizophrenic going into the weekend joker arc is starting

 

[Yliaster]

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Gym halo + I mogged this girl by a point facially WTF ITS OVER. Schizophrenic going into the weekend joker arc is starting

funny how you dudes have these masculine physiques yet your energy don't match your appearance LMAO
letting chicks lead dates and treat you like an option,then come here and blame it on your looks "muh i mog
this girl by 1 psl" NO NIGGA YOUR ENERGY IS FCKN CORNY "i had a good time this friday" looking ass smh

 

[MagaPutinism]

This is exactly what happened to me but i'm 5' 9"

 

[throwaway499]

funny how you dudes have these masculine physiques yet your energy don't match your appearance LMAO
letting chicks lead dates and treat you like an option,then come here and blame it on your looks "muh i mog
this girl by 1 psl" NO NIGGA YOUR ENERGY IS FCKN CORNY "i had a good time this friday" looking ass smh

read the thread theres a specific reason i sent that text nigga

 

[Curry Suicide]

She is a slut that fucks chad on the first date meanwhile you are a cuck that's figuring out what to message her and waiting for a reply like a dog