Why do foids give IOS but never approach

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Since I fixed my bloat and got hollow cheeks (I only now realise I have cheekbones because I was fat In Hs) I get IOS often like smirks or lip bites.
Bitch if you bite your lip when you see me why don't you approach
 
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she doesnt wanna look like a hoe
 
Fear of rejection + ego.
 
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she want you to approach
 
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Idk she might think I'm good looking but not special enough for her to approach
So basically unless 6psl=over
girls dont approach unless your high htn -chad even then they want htn-chalites to approach them
 
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girls dont approach unless your high htn -chad even then they want htn-chalites to approach them
isnt approaching suicide as htn-chadlite? If she isnt head over heels for you like chad that relationship will falter somewhere down the road when she runs into a better option
 
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girls dont approach unless your high htn -chad even then they want htn-chalites to approach them
I would say I'm Mtn or htn max
Most men here are just subhuman and I don't often get mogged facially
But I'm only 5'11 and avg heigh here is 6ft
With average frame that might be a factor too
 
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isnt approaching suicide as htn-chadlite? If she isnt head over heels for you like chad that relationship will falter somewhere down the road when she runs into a better option
Just be lonely forever unless you're Chad bro
 
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isnt approaching suicide as htn-chadlite? If she isnt head over heels for you like chad that relationship will falter somewhere down the road when she runs into a better option
yall are delusional not every women cheats jfl
 
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Since when do women get rejected
Girls get rejected everyday everywhere in the world, except maybe in some incel's fantasist mental worlds.
If she finds a man attractive then it means that other girls are susceptible to find this man attractive too, it's about the mere eventuality of being rejected even if it's not the most likely outcome, their egos are much more fragile and forcing the man to approach prevent rejection.
And aside from that there is a part of pride, since they have more choice today.
 
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Girls get rejected everyday everywhere in the world, except maybe in some incel's fantasist mental worlds.
If she finds a man attractive then it means that other girls are susceptible to find this man attractive too, it's about the mere eventuality of being rejected even if it's not the most likely outcome, their egos are much more fragile and forcing the man to approach prevent rejection.
And aside from that there is a part of pride, since they have more choice today.
Only man who can afford to reject girls is Chad because he has plenty of options
Why would she be afraid to be rejected by a Mtn?
 
Only man who can afford to reject girls is Chad because he has plenty of options
Why would she be afraid to be rejected by a Mtn?
1 - Not at all.
2 - Reread my message, i gave you two reasons, maybe she doesn't consider you as such, anyway if she show interests to you it means that you pass her looks threshold so and even in the case where she isn't afraid of rejection her pride prevent her to approach.
 
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1 - Not at all.
2 - Reread my message, i gave you two reasons, maybe she doesn't consider you as such, anyway if she show interests to you it means that you pass her looks threshold so and even in the case where she isn't afraid of rejection her pride prevent her to approach.
Since I'm nothing special facially idk why would she afraid of me rejecting her?
The ego thing I can understand but I doubt she would have an ego if she saw a Chad
 
Tales from the psych
 
simply not being chad enough/ they like another guy
 
Since I'm nothing special facially idk why would she afraid of me rejecting her?
The ego thing I can understand but I doubt she would have an ego if she saw a Chad
Go get some experience with girls
You spent your formative years as a subhuman so you have literally no idea what’s going on in general, girls are stupidly easy to figure out.

Girls are always afraid to approach for the exact same reason that YOU are afraid to approach (and no, it being a chad does not override that, it exacerbates it because she’s certain she’ll get rejected unless she’s facially in his league. Whether girls actually get rejected is irrelevant, it’s entirely emotion based. They do though, you just only know incels and normies so you don’t know what the full world is like yet.) because they have literally no experience approaching. Don’t overcomplicate this by assuming it’s different to YOUR situation, it isn’t. she’s afraid to approach because she’s never approached before.

Another thing you need to understand which you obviously don’t is that the vast majority of relationships are looksmatched (objective fact and you can even prove it anecdotally in your own life by looking around all the couples you know, nothing but normies with other normies). Remember that girls invented the idea of a looksmatch and a league, and they AUTISTICALLY adhere to this idea. What this means is that girls more than one full tier below your looks level are most likely NOT going to approach you, but there’s a caveat to that, this rule is typically broken in clubs/other environments where casual sex is the goal. This is the female equivalent of betabuxxing (remember you DO NOT compare male ltrs to female ltrs, it’s diagonal, a female ons is equivalent to a male ltr and vise versa.) think about it, both are situations where someone offers something of value to someone better looking than themselves in exchange for some level of closeness with that person. The man offers money to be able to ltr stacy (even though he’d rather be fucking a different stacy every night but he can’t), a woman offers INSANELY easy sex to be able to ons chad (even though she’d rather lock down chad and have him in an ltr with her, but she can’t.)
Also note that I’m using chad and stacy as shorthand for any level of good looking, not the psl rating, you’re delusional if you think a ltb can ons a psl chad. Unless the chad is a massive freak (or a newly ascended former subhuman) he’s not going below htb for ons.
 
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Go get some experience with girls
You spent your formative years as a subhuman so you have literally no idea what’s going on in general, girls are stupidly easy to figure out.

Girls are always afraid to approach for the exact same reason that YOU are afraid to approach (and no, it being a chad does not override that, it exacerbates it because she’s certain she’ll get rejected unless she’s facially in his league. Whether girls actually get rejected is irrelevant, it’s entirely emotion based. They do though, you just only know incels and normies so you don’t know what the full world is like yet.) because they have literally no experience approaching. Don’t overcomplicate this by assuming it’s different to YOUR situation, it isn’t. she’s afraid to approach because she’s never approached before.

Another thing you need to understand which you obviously don’t is that the vast majority of relationships are looksmatched (objective fact and you can even prove it anecdotally in your own life by looking around all the couples you know, nothing but normies with other normies). Remember that girls invented the idea of a looksmatch and a league, and they AUTISTICALLY adhere to this idea. What this means is that girls more than one full tier below your looks level are most likely NOT going to approach you, but there’s a caveat to that, this rule is typically broken in clubs/other environments where casual sex is the goal. This is the female equivalent of betabuxxing (remember you DO NOT compare male ltrs to female ltrs, it’s diagonal, a female ons is equivalent to a male ltr and vise versa.) think about it, both are situations where someone offers something of value to someone better looking than themselves in exchange for some level of closeness with that person. The man offers money to be able to ltr stacy (even though he’d rather be fucking a different stacy every night but he can’t), a woman offers INSANELY easy sex to be able to ons chad (even though she’d rather lock down chad and have him in an ltr with her, but she can’t.)
Also note that I’m using chad and stacy as shorthand for any level of good looking, not the psl rating, you’re delusional if you think a ltb can ons a psl chad. Unless the chad is a massive freak (or a newly ascended former subhuman) he’s not going below htb for ons.
I wish wasn't so autistic in Hs but in first year I kind of rejected 3 girls not because I wanted to but because I was retarded
Then became fatcel in year 2
I didn't give a shit about girls or partying at all
Just played games
Then I was a 21 year old kissless virgin who barely interacted with girl yikes
 
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I wish wasn't so autistic in Hs but in first year I kind of rejected 3 girls not because I wanted to but because I was retarded
Then became fatcel in year 2
I didn't give a shit about girls or partying at all
Just played games
Then I was a 21 year old kissless virgin who barely interacted with girl yikes
Start approaching, keep looksmaxxing, you’ll be fine eventually

You’ll never be fine if you just rot alone afraid to approach though.
 
She expects you to
If you dont then she will probably see it as no loss cuz ur a pussy to her
 
Start approaching, keep looksmaxxing, you’ll be fine eventually

You’ll never be fine if you just rot alone afraid to approach though.
I got approached by a Becky at a party recently but she changed her mind when I told her I was younger
I thought maybe I would ascend now but nope
 
I got approached by a Becky at a party recently but she changed her mind when I told her I was younger
I thought maybe I would ascend now but nope
If you can be approached and not fuck it up socially but instead by having her not like your age, then you’re 100% capable of approaching.
 
If you can be approached and not fuck it up socially but instead by having her not like your age, then you’re 100% capable of approaching.
I think it's because of the age difference but idk maybe I was too autistic but If she really wanted my dick so badly she wouldn't mind
 
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Not Chad enough.

Foids have all been on tinder; they know their SMV and they know they will never get rejected for ONS at least.
 
I think it's because of the age difference but idk maybe I was too autistic but If she really wanted my dick so badly she wouldn't mind
the more attractive you are the less nt you have to be. If your autism is SEVERE then you’ll probably need to be a psl chad (probably never going to happen no matter what) to make up for that with 0 effort on your part.

That doesn’t mean it’s over, it means whatever your looks level is you’re going to have to ACTIVELY get better socially until your looks can make up the difference. If you’re a mtn you’re gonna need to be average levels of nt or get lucky with an outlier girl/a subhuman. But if you’re a htn you can get away with being a little bit socially awkward, and even more if you’re a chadlite etc. (but there’s always a limit of course. autistic james isn’t getting one night stands lmao. But i doubt you’re THOSE levels of autistic anyway, chris chan levels of autism is probably a limit too for sub-gigachads)
 
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I wish u the best of luck op, hopefully ur not a TI outcaste in ur dating scene and getting signals and hopes high from girls only to get ruthlessly rejected in favor of a cyclops or goblin tk really put salt in the wound. If that’s the case it’s giga over, in which case I recommend being transracial and becoming pajeet to get arranged marriage with brothels/escorts for sex.
 
Since I fixed my bloat and got hollow cheeks (I only now realise I have cheekbones because I was fat In Hs) I get IOS often like smirks or lip bites.
Bitch if you bite your lip when you see me why don't you approach
They do, you’re not gl enough.
 
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If she finds a man attractive then it means that other girls are susceptible to find this man attractive too, it's about the mere eventuality of being rejected even if it's not the most likely outcome, their egos are much more fragile and forcing the man to approach prevent rejection.
Holy based this is one of the most intelligent things Ive read on here
 
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isnt approaching suicide as htn-chadlite? If she isnt head over heels for you like chad that relationship will falter somewhere down the road when she runs into a better option
no chads don't really exist they are just indian forum myth, chadlites here are chads irl, tall HTNs are the same, basically what I'm saying is it's harder to go wrong in reality than indians on this forum claim
 
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Lip biting ?!?!?

Wtf do girls actually do that when they see gl guys?

God wtf, its so over
 
Girls get rejected everyday everywhere in the world, except maybe in some incel's fantasist mental worlds.
If she finds a man attractive then it means that other girls are susceptible to find this man attractive too, it's about the mere eventuality of being rejected even if it's not the most likely outcome, their egos are much more fragile and forcing the man to approach prevent rejection.
And aside from that there is a part of pride, since they have more choice today.
This is one of the best explanations I’ve heard upon this subject. Really explained the female mindset well.
 
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Lip biting ?!?!?

Wtf do girls actually do that when they see gl guys?

God wtf, its so over
No, In short they don’t bite there lip often. That will never happen unless in bar / nightclub, or a setting that promotes hooking up. Girls don’t want to be to overt toward there attraction to guys, it’s much more subtle and covert.
 
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the more attractive you are the less nt you have to be. If your autism is SEVERE then you’ll probably need to be a psl chad (probably never going to happen no matter what) to make up for that with 0 effort on your part.

That doesn’t mean it’s over, it means whatever your looks level is you’re going to have to ACTIVELY get better socially until your looks can make up the difference. If you’re a mtn you’re gonna need to be average levels of nt or get lucky with an outlier girl/a subhuman. But if you’re a htn you can get away with being a little bit socially awkward, and even more if you’re a chadlite etc. (but there’s always a limit of course. autistic james isn’t getting one night stands lmao. But i doubt you’re THOSE levels of autistic anyway, chris chan levels of autism is probably a limit too for sub-gigachads)
I did kinda get attention in Hs
No, In short they don’t bite there lip often. That will never happen unless in bar / nightclub, or a setting that promotes hooking up. Girls don’t want to be to overt toward there attraction to guys, it’s much more subtle and covert.
I know what I've seen and I doubt I'm even htn
 
Women do approach

 
What's IOS?
 
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