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I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
 
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I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
she uninterested , move on
 
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she uninterested , move on
Honestly bro how do I find a girl that is actually like interested in me and will want to talk a lot? Who would want to text a lot. I don’t mean a lot but like they text first for example half the time like do I have to cold approach or what do you think?
 
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idk maybe it’s time to give up, to be honest, I always do give up but then I don’t know like I just see friends that have girlfriends and like I think I look better than them or maybe the same level of attractiveness because I am 6 foot two and my face isn’t terrible, but I don’t know. It’s just difficult.
 
idk maybe it’s time to give up, to be honest, I always do give up but then I don’t know like I just see friends that have girlfriends and like I think I look better than them or maybe the same level of attractiveness because I am 6 foot two and my face isn’t terrible, but I don’t know. It’s just difficult.
Same boat , told im attractive but i have had 0 interaction with women whilst hb's are pulling. Fml
 
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they realise ur not what they want and cancel, if u want to succeed schedule it asap like the next day type shi so they dont have time to think of a million reasons to cancel mark as solution thanks
 
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Honestly bro how do I find a girl that is actually like interested in me and will want to talk a lot? Who would want to text a lot. I don’t mean a lot but like they text first for example half the time like do I have to cold approach or what do you think?
you stop being a little beta and let them initiate convos
 
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Same boat , told im attractive but i have had 0 interaction with women whilst hb's are pulling. Fml
Bro, this is exactly what is happening to me like I know I might not be like an MTM or a HTN but the particular girls I’m talking to call me attractive but it just seems like they just aren’t interested and yeah, it’s difficult when people are saying it’s over, but you have homeboys who look worse or the same who are pulling maybe it is the personality like I’m not sure
 
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they realise ur not what they want and cancel, if u want to succeed schedule it asap like the next day type shi so they dont have time to think of a million reasons to cancel mark as solution thanks
Yeah, you’re right. To be honest. I like I hate talking online because I really don’t know what to say so honestly like my personality might cook me even more so maybe right.
 
I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
She just wants your attention
 
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She just wants your attention
Someone said here some great advice and I think it’s just instead of wasting time just talk to them a little bit and set up a date like ASAP and then if they cancel at least time is not wasted and then if they go on the date then perfect hopefully they’ll like you then
 
Someone said here some great advice and I think it’s just instead of wasting time just talk to them a little bit and set up a date like ASAP and then if they cancel at least time is not wasted and then if they go on the date then perfect hopefully they’ll like you then
I lost 10iq reading this
 
Hypergamy. You were one out of 10 dudes she talked to and she linked up with the best looking one. You simply lost the raffle

Also your first mistake was dragging the interaction for weeks

Second mistake was rescheduling for her. That’s her job if she canceled first
 
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Hypergamy. You were one out of 10 dudes she talked to and she linked up with the best looking one. You simply lost the raffle

Also your first mistake was dragging the interaction for weeks

Second mistake was rescheduling for her. That’s her job if she canceled first
Your right bro, she acc wanted to reschedule kinda tho she just said next week Monday or Tuesday but il just be dry now. But ye I think its time to give up tbh cos I don’t even shoot for girls out of my league
 
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I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
This is me
i saw u on tiktok go kys faggot
 
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Your right bro, she acc wanted to reschedule kinda tho she just said next week Monday or Tuesday but il just be dry now. But ye I think its time to give up tbh cos I don’t even shoot for girls out of my league
Right move. Mark as solution
 
I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
like cancel culture ?
 
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There’s so many dudes on tiktok, and she texted u first which means she most likely texted a bunch of other dudes as well lol
Well it was related to my content tbh she just wanted to let me know of the girls in my video was a catfish
 
I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
Because your ltn and ugly
 
I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
Welcome to black pile brother
 
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I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
It may not be your looks it might be your personality. Whatever you do DONT let her find you on the org or else it's pretty much over also don't let her know anything about you trying to looksmax as it is very repulsive to females and definitely a turn off
 
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It may not be your looks it might be your personality. Whatever you do DONT let her find you on the org or else it's pretty much over also don't let her know anything about you trying to looksmax as it is very repulsive to females and definitely a turn off
Thanks bro we’ll have u see my face and can u help if it’s over or not?
 
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It may not be your looks it might be your personality. Whatever you do DONT let her find you on the org or else it's pretty much over also don't let her know anything about you trying to looksmax as it is very repulsive to females and definitely a turn off
 

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I was talking to a girl for about a few weeks and we like each other and then I asked her to go out and then the next morning when we’re going out, she cancels so I’m like okay let’s reschedule. She agrees and then a week later she cancels again and she’s like let’s go out again next week and then another girl was supposed to come over today and she cancels last minute and it’s the same thing with other girls and I understand it may be because I’m not attractive enough but why do they show interest in the first place? And why do they actually agree to set up a date and then just cancel? Like if I’m not attractive enough why can’t they just not talk to me in the first place?
ur not chad
 
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