why do girls want to get used when fucking?

[iliassslm]

i’m in a relationship and i was virgin after like 5 times she’s literraly begging me to “use” her slap her and just make her feel like she’s getting fucking raped, i’ve read a thread about it, but i need some tips it looks cringe and i’m not the type of guy to do that since i always try to control my muscles so i can last how much i want, but it would be too much stimulation. 90% of the time we fuck in doggy and i last a lot and i just keep an hand on her hair and one on her hips as support, nothing more. so anyone got tips? i’m fucking 15 i was virgin till a month ago so i need some help

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

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[Littlepickel2]

i’m in a relationship and i was virgin after like 5 times she’s literraly begging me to “use” her slap her and just make her feel like she’s getting fucking raped, i’ve read a thread about it, but i need some tips it looks cringe and i’m not the type of guy to do that since i always try to control my muscles so i can last how much i want, but it would be too much stimulation. 90% of the time we fuck in doggy and i last a lot and i just keep an hand on her hair and one on her hips as support, nothing more. so anyone got tips? i’m fucking 15 i was virgin till a month ago so i need some help

The best way to feel dominant is to put your hand LIGHTLY around her neck, bite her ear, and don't make ANY sex noises. You have to act as though fucking her means nothing to you because that's the kind of thing she's looking for. Slapping faces feels really awkward, so stick to slapping her ass. Another less-thought-about thing is where it's done. If she's looking for dominance, DO NOT do it on a bed; pin her to either the ground or the floor so it feels as though the situation wasn't planned and you're actually using her. I just turned 15 too, so I think I have a good idea of the extent she wants. Now I'll repeat it: do not squeeze her neck just hold; do not slap anywhere but her butt; do not do it on a bed; and definitely don't sound or look like you're enjoying the person. Keep your expression either angry or completely flat, and make it look like you're fucking her cause of her pussy not because you like her. I'm not saying you should actually "use her" im just saying it builds onto the effect. Obviously, the partner comes first, so decide a safeword beforehand for her to say if it becomes too much, and after you finish, reinforce the idea that it was just an act by holding her or something.