Why do I always get friendzoned?

[Ken]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

 

[StrangerDanger]

FACE

 

[Deleted member 15674]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

need to be more sexual from the get-go and flirt with those whores. God I fucking hate women.

 

[Ken]

FACE

I am not even attracted to the girls I'm asking out. Hypergamy is insane. My last hope is asking out girls im repulsed by but I don't see the point in that. I would be embarrassed to be seen with them. A rejection by one of those girls would be even more brutal.

 

[Hypno]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

Bruttal

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Start posting on r/friendzonecucks

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I am not even attracted to the girls I'm asking out. Hypergamy is insane. My last hope is asking out girls im repulsed by but I don't see the point in that. I would be embarrassed to be seen with them. A rejection by one of those girls would be even more brutal.

god I fucking hate women. I went clubbing the other week and was a dick to so many women.

 

[Ken]

Start posting on r/friendzonecucks

I stop talking to them once they say they just want to be friends. Its a complete waste of time. I kept talking to the first girl that friendzoned and became borderline suicidal.

 

[Deleted member 15338]

I stop talking to them once they say they just want to be friends. Its a complete waste of time. I kept talking to the first girl that friendzoned and became borderline suicidal.

Yeah, just browse r/friendzonecucks

 

[Yliaster]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

I don't understand this thread tbh,like what exactly are you asking here ? are you saying that you get friendzoned by these
girls whenever you bring up wanting a relationship ?

 

[ruoho]

Bro i used to struggle with that for a while. Gl but bitches always wont meet up with you. You just gotta approach and meet bitches first and after a while youll pick up on signs that shes interested. Maybe check out goodlookingloser forums. Helped me chill while was going thru what your going through rn. And some girls are just dumb. Like ive found out 3 times last year that girls ive asked to meet had crushes on me but for some they wouldnt meet lol

 

[Ken]

I don't understand this thread tbh,like what exactly are you asking here ? are you saying that you get friendzoned by these
girls whenever you bring up wanting a relationship ?

No, whenever I ask them to meet up with me. They always make it clear they just want to be friends. I never even get to the relationship part.

 

[Yliaster]

No, whenever I ask them to meet up with me. They always make it clear they just want to be friends. I never even get to the relationship part.

fam this isn't making sense.....why would girls go on dates with you then randomly say that they just want to be friends ???
obviously you're either (1) bringing it up to them that you want something more (2) you are giving off strong nice guy vibes.....

you're definitely leaving something out here

 

[Ken]

fam this isn't making sense.....why would girls go on dates with you then randomly say that they just want to be friends ???
obviously you're either (1) bringing it up to them (2) you are giving off strong nice guy vibes.....

you're definitely leaving something out here

Probably the second one.

This is exactly how my last interaction went. Talk to coworker at company party. Get her instagram. Next day text her asking if she wanted to get food together. She said "yeah sounds fun". A few hours later she text me asking "Can I ask why? Im confused". I text back telling her I want to get to know her better and get ghosted. Its been nearly a day with no response. If she does reply im expecting a friendzone text. Should I have been more direct?

 

[Yliaster]

Probably the second one.

This is exactly how my last interaction went. Talk to coworker at company party. Get her instagram. Next day text her asking if she wanted to get food together. She said "yeah sounds fun". A few hours later she text me asking "Can I ask why? Im confused". I text back telling her I want to get to know her better and get ghosted. Its been nearly a day with no response. If she does reply im expecting a friendzone text. Should I have been more direct?

why did she say this "Can I ask why?" that part makes 0 fckn sense to me,especially after she agreed to to the date.
you are leaving something out in your story.

 

[Ken]

why did she say this "Can I ask why?" that part makes 0 fckn sense to me,especially after she agreed to to the date.
you are leaving something out in your story.

No. I made it clear it would be just me and her and she agreed.

The girl before this I asked if she wanted to go get a burger she instantly replied with a "Yes!" When I asked if she was free on the weekend I got ghosted.

 

[Ken]

She finally replied saying it was very out of the blue and asked if it would be odd since we work together. She's acting like I asked her to marry me. Ill just ignore her and quit before HR fires me.

 

[SAR]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

Are you nt?

 

[frendly]

All the girls I've tried asking either completely ignore me or they friendzone me. I understand being rejected by hot girls but ive only been trying with girls that I consider average looking. Is it really all looks or am I doing something wrong by not showing enough intent. I've been gymcelling and skinmaxxing. Girls are friendlier to me now but they still don't see me as a sexual being. I recently asked a coworker over text if she wanted to go get something to eat over the weekend. She is my looksmatch at best. She said yes. I was happy at first but a few hours later she asked why and she said she was confused. I replied saying I want to get to know her better and she ghosted me. I have to quit my job now.

youre either too nice or just so average looking to the point where women dont even find you attractive. you have two choices
1. ascend even more and wait for women to approach you (which they wont tbh)
2. become a truecel and treat all women like shit.

 

[Ken]

Are you nt?

No. Im improving but still awkward.

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Bro same situation, I will try not to make shit awkward like you did since its coworkers.

 

[Deleted member 17344]

Face prob still not good enough

 

[fifteenflagsfly]

At least you probably have had a girlfriend before though

 

[Ken]

At least you probably have had a girlfriend before though

Nope. Im a kissless virgin.

 

[Deleted member 2403]

 

[MostGLSlayer]

She finally replied saying it was very out of the blue and asked if it would be odd since we work together. She's acting like I asked her to marry me. Ill just ignore her and quit before HR fires me.

Are u still working there? Is it awkward?

 

[SAR]

No. Im improving but still awkward.

Same jfl. I'm too aspie and high inhibition to even ask.

 

[Ken]

Are u still working there? Is it awkward?

Yes, but I haven't seen her since I got rejected. Im going to ask out one more girl once I get a replacement job. Shes the most attractive girl there, VS model tier face but short. Im 99% sure ill get rejected but its worth trying before I quit.

 

[Ken]

Same jfl. I'm too aspie and high inhibition to even ask.

Just go for it. It makes life more exciting. The rejections hurt less everytime but im still not over my oneitis rejection.

 

[fifteenflagsfly]

Nope. Im a kissless virgin.

But you made a post the other day about girls approaching you all the time sending IOIs

 

[Ken]

But you made a post the other day about girls approaching you all the time sending IOIs

Yes, but they were all land whales. I just recently cleared up my skin, before that I would get no IOI's. Acne ruined the prime years of my life.

 

[traveler]

have to learn from the experience

become low inhib and dont care for them then they will give up the vagina

 

[fifteenflagsfly]

Yes, but they were all land whales. I just recently cleared up my skin, before that I would get no IOI's. Acne ruined the prime years of my life.

Yeah but you get IOIs its not like your sub 5, getting validation from a lot of girls still counts even if they aren't stacy

 

[Ken]

Giga high inhib if your quitting your job over that

I decided not to until I ask out at least 2 more girls there. The hottest girl (9/10 angelic face more attractive than my oneitis) and the most attractive fat girl (5-6/10 face, thicc body).

 

[Deleted member 15004]

Bring Lookism back online, you neoteneous chink rat




jk jk how are you? how are things going with your oneitis? Last I heard you were gonna drive her to the airport even though she was not very responsive to your texts so you decided you were going to move on from her completely

 

[Ken]

Bring Lookism back online, you neoteneous chink rat




jk jk how are you? how are things going with your oneitis? Last I heard you were gonna drive her to the airport even though she was not very responsive to your texts so you decided you were going to move on from her completely

I have no control over lookism, I doubt it will ever come back.

She went out of town to visit family for 5 weeks around the time lookism went down. I didn't text or call her at all in that time. She would post videos of herself getting drunk and partying daily. The day she was supposed to get back she randomly called me asking me to pick her up from the airport but I didnt answer the phone so she stayed another week. When she got back I saw her at a small gathering. She was very touchy and getting close to me. I asked her out for the next day but she said she couldn't. The next day she posted videos of her self clubbing and drinking all night. I plan on asking her out again this week.

 

[Deleted member 15004]

I have no control over lookism, I doubt it will ever come back.

The next day she posted videos of her self clubbing and drinking all night. I plan on asking her out again this week.

You are such an abused dog for her, she has you on a leash man. She gives you some crumbs (being touchy feely) so you can take her places in your car so she has a nice driver, free of charge. You are her slave basically and she has you completely under her control. This is unhealthy bruv you gotta move on and just focus on other girls exclusively