LongHairToMog
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Genuine problem I have and I haven't gotten around to solving it yet
a little backstory:
My previous gf was on birth control so we didnt use condoms and I never had issues with cumming fast. We only had actual sex rarely cause she had that vaginismus shit and it always hurt her so bad she cried so the sample size is not exactly high but when we did have actual sex I would last above 30 minutes easily and then Id have to actively try to make myself climax
Even when she gave me blowjobs Id last too long and ended up fucking her head hard as fuck just to actually cum.
Now I have another girlfriend who is objectively better looking and I can actually have sex with more often
When she gives me a blowjob I still last just as long as I did, but when I put on a condom I genuinely cum in like 5 minutes which isnt even enough to start getting rougher.
How do I know its because of the condom?
Well I had the suspicion intuitively so I tested it with masturbation.
When I masturbated without a condom I lasted like 45 minutes, got bored, left without cumming and lasted 30 more later in the day.
When I masturbated WITH a condom I came in like 5 minutes again!!!!
At first I thought its because the condoms I got were "extra thin" for "extra pleasure" but I got ones that have numbing gel inside for "long lasting" and I still came in like 5 minutes when I put it on and masturbated.
I thought condoms made you last a lot longer, what the fuck is happening?
What could possibly be the cause?
please write any actual ideas you have for what might be causing this so I can work towards fixing that shit cause its so fucked up
a little backstory:
My previous gf was on birth control so we didnt use condoms and I never had issues with cumming fast. We only had actual sex rarely cause she had that vaginismus shit and it always hurt her so bad she cried so the sample size is not exactly high but when we did have actual sex I would last above 30 minutes easily and then Id have to actively try to make myself climax
Even when she gave me blowjobs Id last too long and ended up fucking her head hard as fuck just to actually cum.
Now I have another girlfriend who is objectively better looking and I can actually have sex with more often
When she gives me a blowjob I still last just as long as I did, but when I put on a condom I genuinely cum in like 5 minutes which isnt even enough to start getting rougher.
How do I know its because of the condom?
Well I had the suspicion intuitively so I tested it with masturbation.
When I masturbated without a condom I lasted like 45 minutes, got bored, left without cumming and lasted 30 more later in the day.
When I masturbated WITH a condom I came in like 5 minutes again!!!!
At first I thought its because the condoms I got were "extra thin" for "extra pleasure" but I got ones that have numbing gel inside for "long lasting" and I still came in like 5 minutes when I put it on and masturbated.
I thought condoms made you last a lot longer, what the fuck is happening?
What could possibly be the cause?
please write any actual ideas you have for what might be causing this so I can work towards fixing that shit cause its so fucked up
