Why do i feel so responsible for being ugly ?

[lurking truecel]

Like i didnt do anything to deserve it but still i feel like bad that everything goes so much against me. But i couldnt even change it, its not my fault. Like i was born with recessed jaw, narrow mandible, narrow palatte, removed 4 pre molars, big crooked ugly nose, dark circle of death, rosacea of doom, schleral show, too wide bizogamtic width, assymetrical as hell, nasal folds since birth. Like it wasmt much i could so. Also 5 year in braces between 11 and 16

 

[cjc]

Trimax or keep sulking

 

[lurking truecel]

Trimax or keep sulking

Already did trimax and implants, didnt help much apart from the recessed jaw obv. Got decent or good jaw now. But still have assymetry dark circle, schleral show, and a lot more. Yes i will try to fix those next but i am not aure i can. Also done two rhinos.

 

[Punjabi Waffen]

Already did trimax and implants, didnt help much apart from the recessed jaw obv. Got decent or good jaw now. But still have assymetry dark circle, schleral show, and a lot more. Yes i will try to fix those next but i am not aure i can. Also done two rhinos.

recipe for going more in until you have gone crazy


mental health matters too

 

[SIMPLEMAN]

its okay bhai

 

[WristcelSupreme]

Like i didnt do anything to deserve it but still i feel like bad that everything goes so much against me. But i couldnt even change it, its not my fault. Like i was born with recessed jaw, narrow mandible, narrow palatte, removed 4 pre molars, big crooked ugly nose, dark circle of death, rosacea of doom, schleral show, too wide bizogamtic width, assymetrical as hell, nasal folds since birth. Like it wasmt much i could so. Also 5 year in braces between 11 and 16

Its all good slime just make sure you dont marry some ugly girl cuz if you do its better not to marry at ll i genuinely dont want my kids to go through what i went through

 

[Prøphet]

because our rugged individualist world treats it as a moral failing

The way you think / behave is controlled by your environment to a large extent

So even though society is retarded and cucked you still unconsciously internalize all of it

For me the only thing that helped me let go of a lot of these judgments is extreme self isolation

But obviously that adds other problems

 

[lurking truecel]

recipe for going more in until you have gone crazy


mental health matters too

I Mean i kinda taken it a step at a time. And the last obv hurdle is the midface region, schleral show, and dark circle

 

[Anatole]

Virtually no infant is born recessed, unless physically disabled.
Your unattractiveness can be the result of commutating factors.

Out of your control:
• Objectively bad genetics inherited from your parents such as: hairline, eye shape, heigh etc.

In your control (theoretically):
• Poor alimentation (Soft/transformed foods, not breastfed)
• Bad habits (Mouth breathing, bad neck/spine posture, improper mastication of food)

Now I precised "theoretically" because these are factors that can be controlled and voluntarily influenced, but the brutal truth is that if your parents were clueless during your development, you will not have benefited from those.

 

[lurking truecel]

because our rugged individualist world treats it as a moral failing

Yea it doesnt makes sense, when i talk with my parents about why i dont get girls and they say its because of you think i want to rope asap. They start blaming my mental for becoming mental because nothing goes my way because of my looks. Its making me go crazy ngl

 

[Prøphet]

Yea it doesnt makes sense, when i talk with my parents about why i dont get girls and they say its because of you think i want to rope asap. They start blaming my mental for becoming mental because nothing goes my way because of my looks. Its making me go crazy ngl

Same here, I don’t even bother talking to anyone irl about it anymore. The older generations lived in a different world when it comes to hypergamy, and most people are just too caught up in herd thinking to actually analyze things from an unbiased perspective. Because of the Just World fallacy people would rather believe your problems are your fault than admit that the world isn’t fair. They want to push every problem away from themselves and the collective and dump it onto the victims.

 

[lurking truecel]

Virtually no infant is born recessed, unless physically disabled.
Your unattractiveness can be the result of commutating factors.

Out of your control:
• Objectively bad genetics inherited from your parents such as: hairline, eye shape, heigh etc.

In your control (theoretically):
• Poor alimentation (Soft/transformed foods, not breastfed)
• Bad habits (Mouth breathing, bad neck/spine posture, improper mastication of food)

Now I precised "theoretically" because these are factors that can be controlled and voluntarily influenced, but the brutal truth is that if your parents were clueless during your development, you will not have benefited from those.

i mean i think recession is in the family

 

[lurking truecel]

Same here, I don’t even bother talking to anyone irl about it anymore. The older generations lived in a different world when it comes to hypergamy, and most people are just too caught up in herd thinking to actually analyze things from an unbiased perspective. Because of the Just World fallacy people would rather believe your problems are your fault than admit that the world isn’t fair. They want to push every problem away from themselves and the collective and dump it onto the victims.

Yea, but it makes me feel so much worse. That they think i fail because its how i think. So apperntly i am both ugly and stupid. Thats a combo, prob is right

 

[Prøphet]

Yea, but it makes me feel so much worse. That they think i fail because its how i think. So apperntly i am both ugly and stupid. Thats a combo, prob is right

Don’t feel down man, if you had the halo effect they would be calling you a genius, literally seen it happen so many times with siblings for example where the genetically blessed one is praised for every attribute while the unfortunate one is the scapegoat. No one is immune to it.

 

[lurking truecel]

Don’t feel down man, if you had the halo effect they would be calling you a genius, literally seen it happen so many times with siblings for example where the genetically blessed one is praised for every attribute while the unfortunate one is the scapegoat. No one is immune to it.

Yea its sad, life is sad tragedy, and its getting worse

 

[Prøphet]

Yea its sad, life is sad tragedy, and its getting worse

Life is a fight, don’t ever give up

 

[Zenis]

Like i didnt do anything to deserve it but still i feel like bad that everything goes so much against me. But i couldnt even change it, its not my fault. Like i was born with recessed jaw, narrow mandible, narrow palatte, removed 4 pre molars, big crooked ugly nose, dark circle of death, rosacea of doom, schleral show, too wide bizogamtic width, assymetrical as hell, nasal folds since birth. Like it wasmt much i could so. Also 5 year in braces between 11 and 16

It isnt though, you couldnt do anything about it.

 

[lurking truecel]

Life is a fight, don’t ever give up

Nah its not even a fight, good genes thrive without a fight. Bad ones fight for no reason to never be fullfilled

 

[Prøphet]

Nah its not even a fight, good genes thrive without a fight. Bad ones fight for no reason to never be fullfilled

Everyone wil eventually have to fight for one reason or anothee

Maybe it’s illness, maybe it’s money, maybe it’s family, etc

Maybe even against the self

Ofc some will fight more than others

Much much more than others

But at it’s core life itself is to fight for what you care about, every day is a fight for something

easier said than done ofc

Fulfillment is mostly an illusion in my eyes, it’s still a fleeting thing, your happiness level will always adapt and level out eventually, we need something greater or we will get disappointed again and again

 

[tansel]

Everyone wil eventually have to fight for one reason or anothee

Maybe it’s illness, maybe it’s money, maybe it’s family, etc

Maybe even against the self

Ofc some will fight more than others

Much much more than others

But at it’s core life itself is to fight for what you care about, every day is a fight for something

easier said than done ofc

Fulfillment is mostly an illusion in my eyes, it’s still a fleeting thing, your happiness level will always adapt and level out eventually, we need something greater or we will get disappointed again and again

ur surgery is coming up soon dude

 

[lurking truecel]

Everyone wil eventually have to fight for one reason or anothee

Maybe it’s illness, maybe it’s money, maybe it’s family, etc

Maybe even against the self

Ofc some will fight more than others

Much much more than others

But at it’s core life itself is to fight for what you care about, every day is a fight for something

easier said than done ofc

Fulfillment is mostly an illusion in my eyes, it’s still a fleeting thing, your happiness level will always adapt and level out eventually, we need something greater or we will get disappointed again and again

Yea i guess you are right in that way. Maybe thats what should done next, the fight against this bs. Maybe in the ER way.

 

[surgeryplanning]

Already did trimax and implants, didnt help much apart from the recessed jaw obv. Got decent or good jaw now. But still have assymetry dark circle, schleral show, and a lot more. Yes i will try to fix those next but i am not aure i can. Also done two rhinos.

I Mean i kinda taken it a step at a time. And the last obv hurdle is the midface region, schleral show, and dark circle

Are you talking about Lefort 2 area by midface? How are you going to address it?

 

[Prøphet]

ur surgery is coming up soon dude

Yeah man pretty excited

How’s the swelling

 

[Prøphet]

Yea i guess you are right in that way. Maybe thats what should done next, the fight against this bs. Maybe in the ER way.

Not what I meant bro

 

[Pale God]

 

[Canthus23]

Also done two rhinos.

howd they go?