Why do I get matches on tinder but no messages?

[lonelyguy326]

What do I have to do to get a girl to message me back?

 

[Deleted member 20370]

be chad.

 

[Deleted member 3672]

Over if girls don't message you first.

 

[gymmaxedhorse]

A better looking face. Ideally you really shouldn’t message them first at all. Due to the sheer amount of matches they get, they’ll message you first if you truly standout to them

 

[Deleted member 20370]

Over if girls don't message you first.

yup
the amount of matches dont matter as much as the amount of girls texting you first

 

[Deleted member 7580]

A better looking face. Ideally you really shouldn’t message them first at all. Due to the sheer amount of matches they get, they’ll message you first if you truly standout to them

This is cope
I’ve hooked up with many girls I messaged first and have been ghosted by girls who messaged me first

 

[TUSSELEIF]

I don’t even get matched ith and when I do get ignored by subhuman Badoo foids. Caging at how fucking over it is tbh jfl

 

[Deleted member 18840]

This is cope
I’ve hooked up with many girls I messaged first and have been ghosted by girls who messaged me first

girls are shy of very gl guys. as a rule of thumb tho if no reply in few hours delete the match

 

[Deleted member 7580]

girls are shy of very gl guys. as a rule of thumb tho if no reply in few hours delete the match

Depends when you matched with her

If I message someone a week or two after I match I don’t expect a quick reply bcz girls don’t use apps everyday

 

[Gargantuan]

The truth is that there's nothing you can really do against getting ghosted/no replies besides becoming more attractive.

Tinder = only looks so you just gotta accept that this is part of the game. So unless you plan on improving your looks and becoming more attractive, you gotta let it go.

Don't listen to people who say that you should wait for her to message you first, you cannot rely on that unless you're chad otherwise you're just going to miss on a lot of convos and probably some potential meet-ups too.

 

[gymmaxedhorse]

This is cope
I’ve hooked up with many girls I messaged first and have been ghosted by girls who messaged me first

I didn’t say you couldn’t hook up with them I just said ideally them messaging you first is a great indicator of interest. However, ideal isn’t always reality. I’ve no problem with messaging first I just think it’s better if they do. Also some bitches are also just flakey no matter what. You could be balls deep making her squirt everywhere one day then the next day she ghosts you

 

[Adonis]

What do I have to do to get a girl to message me back?

because ylu are mtn like me.
We are too ugly for women so they don't bother to reply.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Depends when you matched with her

If I message someone a week or two after I match I don’t expect a quick reply bcz girls don’t use apps everyday

i mean if you find a girl hot why would you wait days to send a msg. i have a high ratio of matches but i am very selective so the few i matches i genuinely want to see them and thus initiate convos when they don't asap

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

girls are shy of very gl guys. as a rule of thumb tho if no reply in few hours delete the match

Better yet, if they dont reply just send a random non offensive text to then and ignore them until they reply keep your Elo higher

 

[Deleted member 7580]

@StreegeReturn also tinder is very glitchy on my phone.. messages of girls disappear like they unmatched and reappear after few days… many prob think I ignored her for 3 days bcz they stop replying after that lol

 

[Deleted member 7580]

i mean if you find a girl hot why would you wait days to send a msg. i have a high ratio of matches but i am very selected so the few i matches i genuinely want to see them and thus initiate convos when they don't asap

I use apps mostly for validation. Message my matches when I’m horny lol

 

[lonelyguy326]

because ylu are mtn like me.
We are too ugly for women so they don't bother to reply.

I’ll take mtn

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Better yet, if they dont reply just send a random non offensive text to then and ignore them until they reply keep your Elo higher

so basically have no girls that has 0 convo with you theory? makes your elo higher?

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

so basically have no girls that has 0 convo with you theory? makes your elo higher?

Engaging in conversation increases your Elo, but no, i have too many matches to text them all and I don't need more matches, so I only now text people I want to meet up with within an hour. But if you have under 5-10k matches I would highly recommend it

 

[rand anon]

subhuman Badoo foids

Women on Badoo truly are something else jfl

 

[CyprusGD]

A better looking face. Ideally you really shouldn’t message them first at all. Due to the sheer amount of matches they get, they’ll message you first if you truly standout to them

That’ll never happen

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Women on Badoo truly are something else jfl

If I can’t even get subhumans or roasties how tf am I ever gonna get laid

 

[Erik-Jón]

If I can’t even get subhumans or roasties how tf am I ever gonna get laid

You just need some nt fun pictures

 

[Blackgymmax]

Medsage them and say hi dude. It works

 

[Johnnybegood]

Depends when you matched with her

If I message someone a week or two after I match I don’t expect a quick reply bcz girls don’t use apps everyday

Wow you truly know your stuff tbh.

This thread is just you slapping delusions left and right and making very grounded in reality statements. Very refreshing to see lucidity on this forum tbh

 

[sergeant blackpill]

A better looking face. Ideally you really shouldn’t message them first at all. Due to the sheer amount of matches they get, they’ll message you first if you truly standout to them

True, if they don't message first then they're not interested, simple as that, just getting matches means nothing, getting messaged first after getting matches is what really matters

 

[Blackgymmax]

True, if they don't message first then they're not interested, simple as that, just getting matches means nothing, getting messaged first after getting matches is what really matters

Lol ur too black pilled. Had plenty of times where girls were enthusiastic towards me after i messaged first

 

[Pakicel]

Lol ur too black pilled. Had plenty of times where girls were enthusiastic towards me after i messaged first

Do you have wide hips?

 

[Pakicel]

Wow you truly know your stuff tbh.

This thread is just you slapping delusions left and right and making very grounded in reality statements. Very refreshing to see lucidity on this forum tbh

Is Johnny Be Good your favourite movie?

 

[Blackgymmax]

Do you have wide hips?

No

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Lol ur too black pilled. Had plenty of times where girls were enthusiastic towards me after i messaged first

I always strive to be more blackpilled by the day

 

[Johnnybegood]

Is Johnny Be Good your favourite movie?

No, never even seen it lol.

One of my favourite songs as a kid was Johnny B. Goode by Chuck Berry. I first listened to it watching the movie Back to the Future where Marty has to play that song to entertain people at the prom.

I didn't know how to spell Johnny B.Goode, i thought it was Johnny be good but it isn't.

I just thought it was interesting there was a movie with my username and decided to use it as my pfp.

 

[Deleted member 20670]

What do I have to do to get a girl to message me back?

A lot of girls use tinder as a form of validation. They have no interest in hooking up and only want to see that guys are interested in them.

 

[Blackgymmax]

A lot of girls use tinder as a form of validation. They have no interest in hooking up and only want to see that guys are interested in them.

Yes but if youre in anyway subjectively an 8/10 youll get responses from women lmao

 

[Deleted member 20670]

Yes but if youre in anyway subjectively an 8/10 youll get responses from women lmao

True, but my point still stands.

 

[AlexBrown84]

Medsage them and say hi dude. It works

Thx for the advice


Anything else I should say?

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Thx for the advice


Anything else I should say?
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You did not

 

[lonelyguy326]

True, if they don't message first then they're not interested, simple as that, just getting matches means nothing, getting messaged first after getting matches is what really matters

Makes me wonder why they even swipe right in the first place

 

[Adonis]

You did not

 

[bleksandre]

JFL, write bitches first, got multiple dates this way

 

[bleksandre]

While girls who wrote me first ghosted me