Why do I have no problem getting sex from girls, but can’t get into relationships?

[MedMogger]

When I go out clubbing I easily get with girls. I have girls approaching me a lot of the time I go out clubbing, and I can get one night stands with ease.

But when I try to get into relationships with the girls I meet clubbing, I struggle. And this is with girls who approach me bare in mind.

Any advice? Is it something probs with my type of look? Maybe I’m just unloveable?

 

[Wexilarious]

It's called a target audience, like all the girls you find in the club are like that

 

[MedMogger]

It's called a target audience, like all the girls you find in the club are like that

Every single one of them? Literally no exceptions?

I have girls there telling me they love me, then a few days later I’m texting them and they’re being flaky on me.

 

[themaynrman]

What country do you live in? Ive only banged one chick from a club despite being chadlite. it was actually a bar.

 

[Wexilarious]

Every single one of them? Literally no exceptions?

I have girls there telling me they love me, then a few days later I’m texting them and they’re being flaky on me.

Lol we can do an experiment, like send their birth date me in PM and I would say maybe they have something in common

 

[MedMogger]

What country do you live in? Ive only banged one chick from a club despite being chadlite. it was actually a bar.

UK. I have bad self esteem tbh. I don’t think I’m chadlite, but I am a mentalcel tbh. The girls I got with from clubs/bars have been from them approaching me.

I sometimes get ghosted by girls after they approach me and ask for my insta even, so I figured there is literally 0 point in approaching a girl.

 

[MedMogger]

Lol we can do an experiment, like send their birth date me in PM and I would say maybe they have something in common

I don’t quite understand you.

But as trashy as it sounds, I’ve been with girls who I don’t even know their full names (some even first name) let alone their birthdays.

 

[themaynrman]

UK. I have bad self esteem tbh. I don’t think I’m chadlite, but I am a mentalcel tbh. The girls I got with from clubs/bars have been from them approaching me.

I sometimes get ghosted by girls after they approach me and ask for my insta even, so I figured there is literally 0 point in approaching a girl.

Im a mentalcel too lol

 

[themaynrman]

UK. I have bad self esteem tbh. I don’t think I’m chadlite, but I am a mentalcel tbh. The girls I got with from clubs/bars have been from them approaching me.

I sometimes get ghosted by girls after they approach me and ask for my insta even, so I figured there is literally 0 point in approaching a girl.

Are you whitr? Are british chicks so easy?

 

[MedMogger]

Im a mentalcel too lol

What country are you from?

I think the only reason I pull is maybe cause UK is easy mode tbf. But am not too sure. I’m also tall (189cm) and have good frame/muscles tbf.

 

[vevcred2_0]

Bros before hoes

 

[Wexilarious]

I don’t quite understand you.

But as trashy as it sounds, I’ve been with girls who I don’t even know their full names (some even first name) let alone their birthdays.

I mean I would look at their natal charts, like if you are interested in the experiment, you can ask their bd

 

[MedMogger]

Are you whitr? Are british chicks so easy?

I’m mixed. Half white. But in UK (especially around London) there’s such a variety of ethnicities of girls tbh. Idk if they’re easy or it’s just there’s a lack of competition tbf.

 

[themaynrman]

What country are you from?

I think the only reason I pull is maybe cause UK is easy mode tbf. But am not too sure. I’m also tall (189cm) and have good frame/muscles tbf.

American. Im 5’8 and kinda weird. Bitches like me til i open my mouth

 

[MedMogger]

American. Im 5’8 and kinda weird. Bitches like me til i open my mouth

I think maybe my personality is the problem too tbf. Without sounding bluepilled. But I even have had girls argue with me when I speak during hookups tbf. I have some weird outlooks on life maybe.

 

[MedMogger]

I mean I would look at their natal charts, like if you are interested in the experiment, you can ask their bd

Idk how I’d get natal charts lol. And I don’t know what bd is (I didn’t know what natal charts were either tbf, had to search it up).

 

[themaynrman]

I think maybe my personality is the problem too tbf. Without sounding bluepilled. But I even have had girls argue with me when I speak during hookups tbf. I have some weird outlooks on life maybe.

Dude the fact youre banging them tells me that its probably something else. Woman wont fuck men if theyre mentalcels or mentally ill as its a death sentence genetically. These are most likely just club whores and they wanna keep whoring around

 

[Wexilarious]

Idk how I’d get natal charts lol. And I don’t know what bd is (I didn’t know what natal charts were either tbf, had to search it up).

birthdate, I only need a day, month, year of a girl's birth to check her natal chart

 

[MedMogger]

birthdate, I only need a day, month, year of a girl's birth to check her natal chart

Bro last girl I slept with I didn't even ask her name. And I’m now trying to avoid contact with her after the condom slipped out during sex (she wasn’t on the pill).

No way I wanna get in contact with her asking for anything

 

[FutureSlayer]

unironically bad status, bad social media presence, bad ntness indicators, no social circle

 

[DarkAscender]

Sounds like a good problem to have tbh

 

[goontang]

Why the fuck would you want a relationship with these bops?

 

[MedMogger]

unironically bad status, bad social media presence, bad ntness indicators, no social circle

A lot of girls know I don’t drink/smoke at all. My social media is shit tbf (post quality wise) but I have a lot of followers from meeting girls on nights out. My social circle is a bit bad too. But surely this doesn’t matter more than sexual attraction?

 

[FutureSlayer]

A lot of girls know I don’t drink/smoke at all. My social media is shit tbf (post quality wise) but I have a lot of followers from meeting girls on nights out. My social circle is a bit bad too. But surely this doesn’t matter more than sexual attraction?

I am sure of it as I suffer from the same fate, kinda engrained in our personality tbh hard to get around it, just find a mentally deranged but still somehow cute and loyal girl

 

[MedMogger]

Why the fuck would you want a relationship with these bops?

After sex I feel suicidal. In a relationship I don’t even think about sex, tbh I just wanna be loved and cared for.
But I’ve learned that when I meet girls and I don’t jump in bed with them instantly, they lose interest. So it has lead to me just hooking up with girls pretty much instantly. Cause I’m just longing for that affection from them.

 

[MedMogger]

Sounds like a good problem to have tbh

It only is good to brag to your friends about pulling a girl on a night out. But after the sex is done I’m left with nothing tbh. The pleasure has gone. All that’s left are the emotional scars.

 

[MedMogger]

I am sure of it as I suffer from the same fate, kinda engrained in our personality tbh hard to get around it, just find a mentally deranged but still somehow cute and loyal girl

I wish the problems were in my looks tbh. But I feel you’re right. I end up coping with looksmaxxing as to why I am not in a relationship, with stupid stuff like tryna make slight increases to my PSL. But if my looks were the problem, I’d get no sex let alone any girls approaching me.

 

[DarkAscender]

It only is good to brag to your friends about pulling a girl on a night out. But after the sex is done I’m left with nothing tbh. The pleasure has gone. All that’s left are the emotional scars.

 

[FutureSlayer]

I wish the problems were in my looks tbh. But I feel you’re right. I end up coping with looksmaxxing as to why I am not in a relationship, with stupid stuff like tryna make slight increases to my PSL. But if my looks were the problem, I’d get no sex let alone any girls approaching me.

exactly

 

[FutureSlayer]

exactly

give rep tho you bastard

 

[MedMogger]

give rep tho you bastard

What does this mean?

 

[FutureSlayer]

What does this mean?

Like the replies ppl give you or you’ll fuck up their stats

 

[MedMogger]

Like the replies ppl give you or you’ll fuck up their stats

Ahh okay didn’t know about that my bad

 

[snowbunnypolice]

When I go out clubbing I easily get with girls. I have girls approaching me a lot of the time I go out clubbing, and I can get one night stands with ease.

But when I try to get into relationships with the girls I meet clubbing, I struggle. And this is with girls who approach me bare in mind.

Any advice? Is it something probs with my type of look? Maybe I’m just unloveable?

Your low trust

 

[MedMogger]

Your low trust

Is that in looks? I don’t think I look low trust tbf.

 

[snowbunnypolice]

A lot of girls know I don’t drink/smoke at all. My social media is shit tbf (post quality wise) but I have a lot of followers from meeting girls on nights out. My social circle is a bit bad too. But surely this doesn’t matter more than sexual attraction?

Girls don’t date you ltr if your lacking in finances and status and a overall healthy life

 

[MedMogger]

Dude the fact youre banging them tells me that it’s probably something else. Woman wont fuck men if theyre mentalcels or mentally ill as its a death sentence genetically. These are most likely just club whores and they wanna keep whoring around

Maybe it’s my looks are okay for them to sleep with, but not to commit to?

But still I’m confused as to why they even approach me then.

 

[snowbunnypolice]

Is that in looks? I don’t think I look low trust tbf.

Yes. Your med right? Dark features? Look masculine? That is low trust

 

[snowbunnypolice]

You have way higher success hooking up but notably worse time dating ltr

 

[MedMogger]

Yes. Your med right? Dark features? Look masculine? That is low trust

Yes I am. I didn’t know that was low trust though. I thought light features was low trust tbf. I thought dark features was meant to be more kind looking lol

 

[snowbunnypolice]

Yes I am. I didn’t know that was low trust though. I thought light features was low trust tbf. I thought dark features was meant to be more kind looking lol

No lol opposite

 

[snowbunnypolice]

Girls don’t date you ltr if your lacking in finances and status and a overall healthy life

Especially the older you get

 

[snowbunnypolice]

@thereallegend

 

[MedMogger]

You have way higher success hooking up but notably worse time dating ltr

Yeah that’s true. As crazy as it sounds. I have no issues having sex with girls like pretty instantly. But when I want to hold off sex at first, and get to know them better it all goes south. Literally a girl I was seeing for a bit after she approached me at the club, I was withholding sex cause I wanted to get to know her properly, and she ended up dumping me
Maybe problem comes when I don’t sexualise the women I meet tbh. They probs have pre conception about me from my looks, and then decide what they want from me from that.

 

[MedMogger]

Girls don’t date you ltr if your lacking in finances and status and a overall healthy life

I have healthy life. Okay-ish finances but not crazy status tbf.

 

[MedMogger]

Yes. Your med right? Dark features? Look masculine? That is low trust

I agree with that. But I’m not 100% sure if I look fully masculine. A lot of girls tell me I have a “pretty” face or “pretty boy” look. But I have been told I have quite intense eye contact. But I am muscular and tall too, so maybe makes me appear more masculine.

 

[lonelycurry]

FYI this is the type of women OP has sex with:

 

[MedMogger]

FYI this is the type of women OP has sex with:

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I see no problems there tbh…

This would be my choice. But I don’t sleep with who I want tbh. I sleep with who approaches me. I’ve given up on approaching as I feel it’s pointless. Girls approach who they want to fuck.

 

[MedMogger]

FYI this is the type of women OP has sex with:


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The last girl I slept with looked a bit like this but lighter skin colour.

Also, the sex was terrible ngl. She had some weird fantasies/fetishes.

 

[LooksmaxAutist]

Congrats you are meeting foids in night life which are some of the most fickle people on the planet, also don't look for a fucking relationship with one at a night club you are going to get the communal fleshlight