Why do I have no problem getting sex from girls, but can’t get into relationships?

[PARISIEN]

cause they are hoe in the club or you really a bad lover

 

[MedMogger]

Congrats you are meeting foids in night life which are some of the most fickle people on the planet, also don't look for a fucking relationship with one at a night club you are going to get the communal fleshlight

Where should I meet girls then? Clubbing is probably the only time I get to interact with girls (who are fuckable).

And what do you mean by “most fickle”?

 

[idescended]

You want to start a relationship with the girls you met clubbing? Are you hearing yourself

 

[PickleTheSlayer]

If u look high T, women will see u mostly as an option for hookups and short term. They won't like you as a boyfriend or husband material. I know because I struggle with this too, it's stupid asf cuz even high t guys want to do bf/gf relationship stuff long term

 

[MedMogger]

cause they are hoe in the club or you really a bad lover

Well the latter is possible tbf. I have slept with a girl who wanted to do doggy. When we were in the position she starts farting loads, and then asked me why I went soft. We went for like 2 hours then she got too tired and I couldn’t cum, and it was over.

But even girls I haven’t slept with straight away. Sometimes I meet girls in a club, and think “I’m gonna marry her”. Even after they approach me, when I don’t fuck them straight away, it’s like a curse on our relationship from then onwards. And I don’t end up with them.

 

[nuttheb]

you ve had to much sex now you cant bond with a female

 

[LooksmaxAutist]

Where should I meet girls then? Clubbing is probably the only time I get to interact with girls (who are fuckable).

And what do you mean by “most fickle”?

look up the definition of fickle retard. As far as meeting women goes your best bet in terms of quality is like a grocery store in the morning or any place that you constantly go to (restaurant, work, library) any place other than a nightclub realistically is a step up

 

[MedMogger]

You want to start a relationship with the girls you met clubbing? Are you hearing yourself

Everyone says all girls at a club are bad. But I think it’s a stupid misogynistic way of thinking. Cause by default, doesn’t that mean all guys going to the club are bad too?

I have friends at the club with me telling me not to wife up a club girl cause they’re all whores. But these guys at a club are surely on the same level as them?

 

[MedMogger]

If u look high T, women will see u mostly as an option for hookups and short term. They won't like you as a boyfriend or husband material. I know because I struggle with this too, it's stupid asf cuz even high t guys want to do bf/gf relationship stuff long term

I managed to get in a relationship for a few weeks, but the girl kind of flipped on me, and started saying how she thinks I’m a fuckboy, because I look like a fuckboy, and got insecure about the thought of girls approaching me. She did approach me too, and told me she loved me pretty quickly (which I didn’t reciprocate though).
I have had many girls accuse me of being a fuckboy without me actually doing anything or getting to know me at all.

But all I want is just a girl who will not make my life hell, not argue with me, take care of me, and care more about just sex. Is it over? Maybe I have no hope?

 

[MedMogger]

you ve had to much sex now you cant bond with a female

I can bond with them. All I want is a relationship where I’m with the girl forever and she is a genuine kind, down to earth, caring person. A bit like Selena Gomez type tbh.
But these girls end up in relationships with oofy doofys and it’s driving me crazy.

 

[MedMogger]

look up the definition of fickle retard.

Okay no need to be rude like that. I was just confused by your meaning.

As far as meeting women goes your best bet in terms of quality is like a grocery store in the morning or any place that you constantly go to (restaurant, work, library) any place other than a nightclub realistically is a step up

my issue is I’m a contract worker. So I don’t have women working with me regularly tbh. Mostly just take on clients and that’s it. And a lot of it can be remote work too.
Nightclubs/bars felt like the most social place for me to visit where I can meet girls. And it’s like the place where girls approach me.

 

[PARISIEN]

Well the latter is possible tbf. I have slept with a girl who wanted to do doggy. When we were in the position she starts farting loads, and then asked me why I went soft. We went for like 2 hours then she got too tired and I couldn’t cum, and it was over.

But even girls I haven’t slept with straight away. Sometimes I meet girls in a club, and think “I’m gonna marry her”. Even after they approach me, when I don’t fuck them straight away, it’s like a curse on our relationship from then onwards. And I don’t end up with them.

by friends imo, girls in the club are just fuckin sluts, or maybe try to kiss them during sex, the ons i got i was a good lover so idk, but it told her to fuck off xd.


yeah if you dont fuck her when she want she's like humiliated, but its satisfying to deny a hoe tbh. idk do you talk to them a little before fucking them, like what are they looking for and stuff ?

 

[LooksmaxAutist]

my issue is I’m a contract worker. So I don’t have women working with me regularly tbh. Mostly just take on clients and that’s it. And a lot of it can be remote work too.
Nightclubs/bars felt like the most social place for me to visit where I can meet girls. And it’s like the place where girls approach me.

get over your inability to talk to women, the foids there approach you not with the intent of a relationship if you want this you need to pursue a relationship in non-hedonistic environments

 

[MedMogger]

by friends imo, girls in the club are just fuckin sluts, or maybe try to kiss them during sex, the ons i got i was a good lover so idk, but it told her to fuck off xd.


yeah if you dont fuck her when she want she's like humiliated, but its satisfying to deny a hoe tbh. idk do you talk to them a little before fucking them, like what are they looking for and stuff ?

I’m not about humiliating/denying people tbh. I want people to feel good about themselves.

Problem is the girls I know through/as friends are not attractive to me both physically and personality-wise.

Ofc I talk to them a bit before hooking up. But it’s kind of talking flirtatiously, deep eye contact, and with the intent of kissing then into sex after.

 

[MedMogger]

get over your inability to talk to women, the f̶o̶i̶d̶s̶ girls* there approach you not with the intent of a relationship if you want this you need to pursue a relationship in non-hedonistic environments

Clever take tbh. That does kind of add up. If I’m meeting girls in an environment where everyone has gone there to get a quick hookup and get drunk, then obviously they won’t be into a relationship. And even if they were looking for a relationship, they are likely to disqualify me from that based on them meeting me in that environment and lumping me in the “hookup” category.

I don’t have an inability to talk to women. But I just find it’s easier to let them come to you, so you know where you stand with them.

 

[PARISIEN]

I’m not about humiliating/denying people tbh. I want people to feel good about themselves.

Problem is the girls I know through/as friends are not attractive to me both physically and personality-wise.

Ofc I talk to them a bit before hooking up. But it’s kind of talking flirtatiously, deep eye contact, and with the intent of kissing then into sex after.

Idk man, no advice

 

[idescended]

Everyone says all girls at a club are bad. But I think it’s a stupid misogynistic way of thinking. Cause by default, doesn’t that mean all guys going to the club are bad too?

I have friends at the club with me telling me not to wife up a club girl cause they’re all whores. But these guys at a club are surely on the same level as them?

No it doesn’t mean they’re all whores, but you have to realise that’s not where people meet their partner and is looked down upon

It’s a social norm you might meet the same person in a different place like college or whatever and it would be acceptable to date them.

 

[milchbubi88]

Same problem, I’m good enough to be fucked but not loved What I have to say is that I always said no when they said they would sleep with me. It’s so hard to find a good girl in this generation