Why do I keep smiling nervous/laughing when people djsrespect me?

[Nation]

I know its a coping mechanism that brain do to make myself feel good even if its a bad situation but how do I stop that?

Its not even funny because those people want to banter or they try to gaslight and I keep laughing at their jokes so they continue being annoying thinking its funny.

I really have problems telling them to stop, like I cant even say bad words to someone in higher position

 

[Deleted member 19301]

its a submissive gesture not a "coping mechanism"

and u stop it by having self respect or disrespect towards them

 

[Deleted member 14693]

You have to mog for this to change. Confidence can't come from nothing. Building your body and learning how to fight will help.

 

[Deleted member 15827]

U have low T from the looks of it

 

[lonelycurry]

sounds like a cuck, like me

 

[Deleted member 14192]

low confidence

 

[Deleted member 2130]

I know its a coping mechanism that brain do to make myself feel good even if its a bad situation but how do I stop that?

Its not even funny because those people want to banter or they try to gaslight and I keep laughing at their jokes so they continue being annoying thinking its funny.

I really have problems telling them to stop, like I cant even say bad words to someone in higher position

You avoid confrontations because you are scared of getting even more humiliated in front of others. You need to overcome your fear of confrontation. Start with beating someone's ass

 

[Cope]

It's easy, just take Nardil

 

[Deleted member 16288]

Low T

 

[Momolooksmax]

It's easy, just take Nardil

any side effects ?

 

[Deleted member 16970]

simple: you surround yourself with people who think u are an abomination. despite them not having accomplished anything in life, you value them simply because of looks

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Say something twice as bad and if they protest be like “what, we’re having a laugh bro!”

 

[exeight]

I know its a coping mechanism that brain do to make myself feel good even if its a bad situation but how do I stop that?

Its not even funny because those people want to banter or they try to gaslight and I keep laughing at their jokes so they continue being annoying thinking its funny.

I really have problems telling them to stop, like I cant even say bad words to someone in higher position

its not a coping mechanism to make yourself feel good

its instinctivly/subconsiously gesture that you confirm, you are under them in the hierarchy

when people subdue themselfs (subconsiously) they smile a lot
its like to show the other people, that you are not their enemy or you are not a dangerous guy.. or that they are not in a dangerous situation with you.. and this fits perfectly in your "they dont respect me" case

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Say something twice as bad and if they protest be like “what, we’re having a laugh bro!”

Wouldn’t this make you look the bad guy though?

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Wouldn’t this make you look the bald person though?

Look to whom? Who gives a fuck? Put a mf in this place.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

its a submissive gesture not a "coping mechanism"

and u stop it by having self respect or disrespect towards them

What if it’s a group doing it to you?

I’m guessing you’d just be quiet and stare at whoever made that joke angrily?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Look to whom? Who gives a fuck? Put a mf in this place.

I meant wouldn’t this make you lose status in the group for being a bad guy, and justify them attacking you more because muhh you’re the one that went too far

 

[Deleted member 18244]

I meant wouldn’t this make you lose status in the group for being a bad guy, and justify them attacking you more because muhh you’re the one that went too far

So should he just keep grinning while they insult him? Lol obviously no point in keeping them.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

So should he just keep grinning while they insult him? Lol obviously no point in keeping them.

Yeah, I agree.

If it’s clear they know what they’re doing and keep on insulting you, you have no choice but to find another group. Sometimes even telling them to cut that shit out doesn’t work as they no longer respect you

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Yeah, I agree.

If it’s clear they know what they’re doing and keep on insulting you, you have no choice but to find another group. Sometimes even telling them to cut that shit out doesn’t work as they no longer respect you

By the way a lot of males (myself included) like offensive jokes and just have a rough sense of humour but they might really think they’re joking around and it’s all good. Op make sure you know which is which

 

[lilhorizontal32]

By the way a lot of males (myself included) like offensive jokes and just have a rough sense of humour but they might really think they’re joking around and it’s all good. Op make sure you know which is which

Yeah I used to be like this until it turned out that a lot of my friends got upset by what I was saying to them

Did a complete 180 and am very inoffensive now and it made me a lot more sensitive when someone makes fun of me

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Yeah I used to be like this until it turned out that a lot of my friends got upset by what I was saying to them

Did a complete 180 and am very inoffensive now and it made me a lot more sensitive when someone makes fun of me

That’s because youre NT lol you gotta gauge who is open to that type of jokes.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

That’s because youre NT lol you gotta gauge who is open to that type of jokes.

Yeah just socially anxious tbh

Plus you can tell instinctively most of the time who is joking and who is genuinely insulting you

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Yeah just socially anxious tbh

Plus you can tell instinctively most of the time who is joking and who is genuinely insulting you

should be able to. 19 year old me couldn’t even tell the different and used to sperg out at everyone that makes a joke lol.

I guess you gotta be somewhere in the middle

 

[lilhorizontal32]

should be able to. 19 year old me couldn’t even tell the different and used to sperg out at everyone that makes a joke lol.

I guess you gotta be somewhere in the middle

It’s often a defense mechanism from a childhood where people made fun of you a lot

 

[Deleted member 18244]

It’s often a defense mechanism from a childhood where people made fun of you a lot

True. I was an acne ridden fat + short subhuman

 

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