Why do I start resenting people that get too close to me?

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Be it family, friends or gfs. I start resenting people who get too close to me

whats wrong with me
 
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Therapist will know, I feel glad when someone gets close
 
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here. bless you with some holy water,
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share peace and kindness from now on thx
 
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You got to play it cool and be aloof. I push away everybody, even those who care for me deeply. I don't resent them as much as i resent myself.
 
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I feel exactly the same way. The even weirder thing is that I only trust people who are very close to me, but the process of getting close by itself is difficult and involves some level of trust. It's all a vicious cycle.
 
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Bf 8
 
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@Ritalincel gtfih
 
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I feel u bro

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What do u exactly mean by resenting?

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It sounds like avoidant attachment style
 
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Bro I have the same problem
 
I got this too
 
fuken nattecel
 
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I wish somebody was close to me even my own parents distance themselves as much as possible
 
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Same, except with friends
 
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happens to me. i don't have friends and don't even like getting close with relatives. i always ignored guys who would try to be friends with me and when i noticed girls would be nice to me or try to get my attention i saw them as whores. i really only care about the validation or the challenge of getting to a high social status without caring about it. i think i have npd
 
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Be it family, friends or gfs. I start resenting people who get too close to me

whats wrong with me
I also hate when people get too close. Anything closer than a meter makes me uncomfortable unless it's a girl I find attractive.
 
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Same tbh, childhood trust/attachment issues of some sort
 
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happens to me. i don't have friends and don't even like getting close with relatives. i always ignored guys who would try to be friends with me and when i noticed girls would be nice to me or try to get my attention i saw them as whores. i really only care about the validation or the challenge of getting to a high social status without caring about it. i think i have npd
Nah people with NPD need validation more than regular people. You might be anti-social aka psychopathic.
 
i dont like when people get close to the point that they bother me and feel entitled to my time
 
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I also hate when people get too close. Anything closer than a meter makes me uncomfortable unless it's a girl I find attractive.

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as an autistic nigger i really do hate when randoms/mates initiate a conversation with me, like i don't feel like talking bro you might be happy and wanna talk but im depressed as shit bro
 
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i think when youre so used to being alone, people trying to get close to you is off putting and you just feel the urge to push them away

thats how it is for me i think at least
 
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