Why do I suddenly lose attraction to a girl when shes attracted to me

[Deleted member 8904]

I must be retarded

 

[Deleted member 6403]

I unironically do too jfl

 

[Deleted member 6403]

like a toy, i want it so bad, then i got it, now i dont gaf ab it

we all want what we can't have

 

[cvzvvc]

Because you don't think you deserve to be liked and you likely have low self-esteem. Sorry.

 

[JosephGarrot123]

cant relate

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Because you don't think you deserve to be liked and you likely have low self-esteem. Sorry.

Ok

 

[Deleted member 14561]

this happens to me so many times in ltr's everytime i get the girl i crave badly after some time i abuse her, ghost her or cheat her i'm only attracted to when she isnt available to me but after getting her the atttaction/lust, passion fades away by time and i got bored . one of my normie friend have a htb wife but he is obsessed with his fat below average sister in law idk how blackpill explains this

 

[Prettyboy]

You use them only for validation, narcy trait

 

[Deleted member 6403]

You use them only for validation, narcy trait

true

 

[Vermilioncore]

People chase what they can’t have. I can’t have nothing so I’m always chasing everything

 

[Deleted member 14303]

low tea

 

[datboijj]

i think it's projection because you think your not all that great
and the fact that someone you put on a pedestal thinks ....you kinda are
puts them on a lower level in your eyes
either way it's low T