Why do looks matter much more then it did 10 years ago?

T

toasted.potato123

Iron
Joined
Jun 2, 2024
Posts
184
Reputation
102
I noticed that people are a lot more pickier when it comes to looks and judge much more based on how other people look Is this because of social media and dating apps? Back in the day just getting ripped would get you girls now thats like almost the bare minimum if you want to attract a decent looking girl, what happened.....
 
  • +1
Reactions: Snowskinned
Money trumps everything in this world unfortunately
If we're talking about being cucked in a romantic relationship (see the subreddit r/Cuckold), then yes. If we're talking about who is getting laid the most, then no. Fit muscular ripped guys are the ones getting the most dating opportunities.
 
If we're talking about being cucked in a romantic relationship (see the subreddit r/Cuckold), then yes. If we're talking about who is getting laid the most, then no. Fit muscular ripped guys are the ones getting the most dating opportunities.
You must not understand you are looking at it from an oppurtunity stand point lol homeless chad gets laid but is a loser. Moneymaxxed fat ugly man decides what he wants when he wants
 
Wh

Who the fuck needs dating apps lol. Once you achieve certain status dating apps are low class
Used to think that too, until I realized when I go out, most attractive women who go to places have a boyfriend with them, or even if they don't, if you were to approach 100 women, most would have a boyfriend that they're in love with that they don't want to cheat on. And women don't go to bars or clubs to meet men anymore, or at least not as often as in the past. So dating apps are the only option. It's dating apps or you wait for your mom to set you up with an unattractive girl who lives in the neighborhood.
 
Used to think that too, until I realized when I go out, most attractive women who go to places have a boyfriend with them, or even if they don't, if you were to approach 100 women, most would have a boyfriend that they're in love with that they don't want to cheat on. And women don't go to bars or clubs to meet men anymore, or at least not as often as in the past. So dating apps are the only option. It's dating apps or you wait for your mom to set you up with an unattractive girl who lives in the neighborhood.
Go to wealthy areas and watch people for a bit. Notice rich ugly old man with Stacy gf/wife everywhere. It’s easy mode once your rich
 
You must not understand you are looking at it from an oppurtunity stand point lol homeless chad gets laid but is a loser. Moneymaxxed fat ugly man decides what he wants when he wants
You're looking at 2 extremes. If you have muscles and your own apartment, you can bring women to your place, get laid, send them in a cab, and rinse and repeat, or you can get into a relationship from the basis of sex. Meaning, you have sex with a girl, then build the relationship. When you're rich, you have to wine and dine them many times before even having any sex, it's a lot of hassle, a lot of commitment and the risk is high. When you're poor, they can't falsely accuse you of anything, they can't go for your money, and they can't withhold sex as manipulation since it's all they want from you.
 
Go to wealthy areas and watch people for a bit. Notice rich ugly old man with Stacy gf/wife everywhere. It’s easy mode once your rich
Yes, but there's a difference between having a girlfriend and getting laid. Most of those men are not getting laid, they're in a transactional relationship where they're not getting anything in return in terms of sex. It's all fake.

Not saying the woman doesn't love them but she doesn't put out. I've seen it time and time again. You think Trump's wife is fucking him on a daily basis or that they were when they were younger? Just look at how repulsed she is when he tries to kiss her. That's not the life of my dreams.
 
Yes, but there's a difference between having a girlfriend and getting laid. Most of those men are not getting laid, they're in a transactional relationship where they're not getting anything in return in terms of sex. It's all fake.

Not saying the woman doesn't love them but she doesn't put out. I've seen it time and time again. You think Trump's wife is fucking him on a daily basis or that they were when they were younger? Just look at how repulsed she is when he tries to kiss her. That's not the life of my dreams.
Yeah because trump is 78 years old and she is much younger. Nobody likes grandpas,
 
Yes, but there's a difference between having a girlfriend and getting laid. Most of those men are not getting laid, they're in a transactional relationship where they're not getting anything in return in terms of sex. It's all fake.

Not saying the woman doesn't love them but she doesn't put out. I've seen it time and time again. You think Trump's wife is fucking him on a daily basis or that they were when they were younger? Just look at how repulsed she is when he tries to kiss her. That's not the life of my dreams.
Trump fucks whoever he wants lmfao wife is just for show
 
I noticed that people are a lot more pickier when it comes to looks and judge much more based on how other people look Is this because of social media and dating apps? Back in the day just getting ripped would get you girls now thats like almost the bare minimum if you want to attract a decent looking girl, what happened..

If we're talking about being cucked in a romantic relationship (see the subreddit r/Cuckold), then yes. If we're talking about who is getting laid the most, then no. Fit muscular ripped guys are the ones getting the most dating opportunities.
Appeal matters
 
Appeal matters
OP's mistake is assuming the average man is muscular when it's actually not the case. There's a difference between being a skinny guy with abs and actually being muscular. Abs are just the cherry on top, and if you look at most men, they're not muscular. It's so rare in fact that on dating apps, if you make a girl profile you'll notice there are less than 1% of male profiles who have this physique or better:

B7ec7240028a2e4711b2c9a4c770e309 3633120462
20eb13e9fb841a7a384edc92112c2e0d 443314844


You might see a few guys who have a Fight Club build like me, but you won't see more than 1 out of every 100 profiles that are as muscular as the 2 pictures above.

This means if you acquire that look, you automatically get into that top 1% and become extremely desirable. And yet, most guys are focusing on the wrong things and why? Because getting that look requires training to failure with long workouts, going to bed early, eating 3 nutritious meals and avoiding high stress activities, that means you have to give up on playing video games late at night or watching tv late at night, you have to give up going out clubbing with your friends, and you have to really stick to it for at least 3 years, and then maintain it or keep improving.

Nobody wants to do that. Guys would rather find a quick fix solution or a shortcut instead like roiding or plastic surgery, but women, they respect the hard work that goes into building such a physique, they respect that much more than any surgery you could do.
 
Trump fucks whoever he wants lmfao wife is just for show
Yeah but there's a difference between having sex with prostitutes and having women who are sexually attracted to you, it's not the same at all. I'd rather be poor and have women thirsting for me than rich and having to pay for fake affection, or as escorts call it "the girlfriend experience". Only losers need the girlfriend experience, winners get that as much as they like for real from real women. It's not even about the money.
 
Yeah because trump is 78 years old and she is much younger. Nobody likes grandpas,
If you're in good shape (muscular instead of fat) at 78, you can attract women who are in their 60s, or even possibly 50s without being creepy and without them being gold diggers.
 
  • +1
Reactions: toasted.potato123
I noticed that people are a lot more pickier when it comes to looks and judge much more based on how other people look Is this because of social media and dating apps? Back in the day just getting ripped would get you girls now thats like almost the bare minimum if you want to attract a decent looking girl, what happened.....
Since women on internet see chads daily back then there were town chads that woman saw but since they only saw one they settled with mtns and htns now women see chads daily also speak to men on internet who fraud an lie about heights they're egos get boosted by other women and they're minimum becomes a man whos 6'2 and a chadlite.
 
  • +1
Reactions: toasted.potato123
Since women on internet see chads daily back then there were town chads that woman saw but since they only saw one they settled with mtns and htns now women see chads daily also speak to men on internet who fraud an lie about heights they're egos get boosted by other women and they're minimum becomes a man whos 6'2 and a chadlite.
Wise words
 
  • Love it
Reactions: Azomn88
It always mattered,beauty trends in the 80s and 90s(I’m not only talking about women)
But I’m not sure man nowadays if your gonial angle is 1° less ideal then you hear things like “it’s over” or something I don’t know.
I guess standards for males and females became more extreme or some shit
 
It always mattered,beauty trends in the 80s and 90s(I’m not only talking about women)
But I’m not sure man nowadays if your gonial angle is 1° less ideal then you hear things like “it’s over” or something I don’t know.
I guess standards for males and females became more extreme or some shit
Yea, guys are much more straight forwars when it comes to telling the truth, girls be just lying to ugly girls to make em feel better and boost their ego
 
Looks always "mattered" but obviously 30,40 let alone 70 years ago men and women were expected to marry young and marry into as best a FAMILY as they could. Especially women had less of a choice but were expected to marry a rich dude if they could and would have been considered whores if they slept around with guys purely out of physical attraction.

In today's pseudo-individualistic society where gender-based norms have mostly been undone women can express and act according to their true feelings about a man. And this is where looks come into play and take a central role thus creating the appearance that women care more about looks today. In fact, they always cared but couldn't prioritise looks in a man because conditions did not permit it.
 
Last edited:
Looks always "mattered" but obviously 30,40 let alone 70 years ago men and women were expected to marry young and marry into as best a FAMILY as they could. Especially women had less of a choice but were expected to marry a rich dude if they could and would have been considered whores if they slept around with guys purely out of physical attraction.

In today's pseudo-individualistic society where gender-based norms have mostly been undone women can express and act according to their true feelings about a man. And this is where looks come into play and take a central role thus creating the appearance that women care more about looks today. In fact, they always cared but couldn't prioritise looks in a man because conditions did not permit it.
High iq response, thanks bhai
 
  • +1
Reactions: GreekGenes

Similar threads

L
Replies
13
Views
775
chinprojectiongod
chinprojectiongod
Ziaoni
Replies
9
Views
180
truthhurts
truthhurts
JOJOcelReturns
Replies
48
Views
923
DarkTriadBeliever
DarkTriadBeliever

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top