Why do men want to have children?

[The Grinch]

Being a father means nothing for a man, there is zero benefit for a man. Your children will most likely dislike you, most kids literally hate their father without reason, while adoring their mother. You will lose your life paying for a child that doesn’t even love you, while providing for a wife that doesn’t love you either, because women are not capable of loving a man, they don’t have those feelings for men like men have for women, it’s how nature designed them, they just pick the one who they perceive as the best possible provider and since men are naturally wired to be submissive slaves for women, most men don’t even mind playing that role, they will be ok with providing for a family that doesn’t love them and they will defend their lifestyle by saying cucked shit like: "We men sacrifice ourselves for the family and we don’t want anything in return, that’s what a real man does, bro“.

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[Nexom]

Most kids hate their father? Where'd you hear that?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

People cope thinking they’re important and they are leaving a “legacy”, when in reality they are just a statistic and will be forgotten about in 2 generations’ time

 

[Gomez]

We are programed to think we want to have children
most people who could sit back and truly think about the reality of fatherhood wouldn't even consider it a option​

 

[foidhater123]

some of them do it to get money from the government and to have someone to beat after a long day at "work"

 

[sub5outsider]

People are pressured to have kids and having a kid is a good way for a women to hold on a man.

 

[The Grinch]

Most kids hate their father? Where'd you hear that?

Everywhere, everyone i ever talked to

 

[ybuyhgui]

Primarily for a reason to keep going. Most children are birthed in countries with horrible living conditions due to the fact that people need a reason and a meaning to keep living their pathetic lives. Often men will have kids for selfish reasons like that, while simultaneously claiming some kind of nobility in being a ‘provider’ in spite of the fact that they simply did what they wanted, the child never asked to be born.

The western birth rate decline is in part due to our lives being too comfortable and not needing to cope with kids, yet, we’re depressed due to the lack of a ‘meaning’ in the form of kids for the same reason.

 

[The Grinch]

People cope thinking they’re important and they are leaving a “legacy”, when in reality they are just a statistic and will be forgotten about in 2 generations’ time

In 2 generations is very merciful. Most of them will be forgotten during their lifetime after being divorced by the "love of their life“ who will also take the children and he will pay for them for multiple years while they tell everyone how much of an asshole their dad is for leaving them

 

[The Grinch]

@hopecel @gimmedatacc @STAMPEDE

 

[Yliaster]

Most kids hate their father? Where'd you hear that?

OP is a generic troll you have to bear with it

 

[ObsessiveTendencies]

Having kids is retarded
Why would I sacrifice everything to give some piece of shit that was born from the cum in my balls the life that I never had

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

i would personally avoid having kids. not for me sorry. if i wanted kids so bad i would adopt them tbh. there’s already plenty of miserable poor children, why bring more into this world?

 

[The Grinch]

OP is a generic troll you have to bear with it

You are scared of reality and by calling me a troll you are trying to sabotage the message, because you don’t know how to prove it wrong with facts, so you try to sabotage it trough name-calling and mockery, a tactics used by people with low iq

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Being a father means nothing for a man, there is zero benefit for a man. Your children will most likely dislike you, most kids literally hate their father without reason, while adoring their mother. You will lose your life paying for a child that doesn’t even love you, while providing for a wife that doesn’t love you either, because women are not capable of loving a man, they don’t have those feelings for men like men have for women, it’s how nature designed them, they just pick the one who they perceive as the best possible provider and since men are naturally wired to be submissive slaves for women, most men don’t even mind playing that role, they will be ok with providing for a family that doesn’t love them and they will defend their lifestyle by saying cucked shit like: "We men sacrifice ourselves for the family and we don’t want anything in return, that’s what a real man does, bro“.

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Nah, children are lovely. And not every man is so cucked.

 

[SharpOrange]

Nah, children are lovely. And not every man is so cucked.

 

[Yliaster]

You are scared of reality and by calling me a troll you are trying to sabotage the message, because you don’t know how to prove it wrong with facts, so you try to sabotage it trough name-calling and mockery, a tactics used by people with low iq

guilty,you got me

 

[MaxillaMaxing]

Kids will wage slave for you when you grow up, also some of them are cute as kids

 

[The Grinch]

Kids will wage slave for you when you grow up, also some of them are cute as kids

Most won’t though. How many people do you know who financially support their father?

 

[Eltrē]

Most kids hate their father? Where'd you hear that?

He's speaking from experience because daddy told him to stop mooching & to get a job.

 

[superpsycho]

i dont know, i dont understand normalfags.

i personally dont want kids, but even if i did i wouldnt be able to anyway.

 

[tyquese]

quite the opposite for me and the people around me

 

[The Grinch]

He's speaking from experience because daddy told him to stop mooching & to get a job.

You won’t ever be a father anyway, smelly incel, so this thread is of little to concern to you.

 

[The Grinch]

quite the opposite for me and the people around me

Exceptions exist you know. But also most people won’t tell you honestly IRL what they think of their family members, they could have the worst conflicts within their family but they will pretend to be a nice and loving family in public

 

[Eltrē]

You won’t ever be a father anyway, smelly incel, so this thread is of little to concern to you.

Did I hit a nerve?

 

[The Grinch]

Did I hit a nerve?

Hit a nerve by making up fake scenarios in your head that have nothing to do with the thread? No, you didn’t hit a nerve, you just exposed yourself as a schizo. Incel and also schizo, the brutal mix that will never see a pussy IRL

 

[Eltrē]

Hit a nerve by making up fake scenarios in your head that have nothing to do with the thread? No, you didn’t hit a nerve, you just exposed yourself as a schizo. Incel and also schizo, the brutal mix that will never see a pussy IRL

It's okay, most here agree that it's better to mooch than to be a wageslave in the Balkans.
We sympathize with your situation.

 

[lifeless]

It varies by gender (yes, LGBTQ+ counts)

 

[Cash💸]

People cope thinking they’re important and they are leaving a “legacy”, when in reality they are just a statistic and will be forgotten about in 2 generations’ time

My dad says that he’s very famous in the neighborhood and when I’m older everyone’s gonna talk to me about him

 

[The Grinch]

It's okay, most here agree that it's better to mooch than to be a wageslave in the Balkans.
We sympathize with your situation.

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[lolRexer]

Being a father means nothing for a man, there is zero benefit for a man. Your children will most likely dislike you, most kids literally hate their father without reason, while adoring their mother. You will lose your life paying for a child that doesn’t even love you, while providing for a wife that doesn’t love you either, because women are not capable of loving a man, they don’t have those feelings for men like men have for women, it’s how nature designed them, they just pick the one who they perceive as the best possible provider and since men are naturally wired to be submissive slaves for women, most men don’t even mind playing that role, they will be ok with providing for a family that doesn’t love them and they will defend their lifestyle by saying cucked shit like: "We men sacrifice ourselves for the family and we don’t want anything in return, that’s what a real man does, bro“.

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Naturally we are programmed to have a strong urge to have sex and have children to grow our population bigger.
This isn’t just about “wanting kids”

 

[The Grinch]

Naturally we are programmed to have a strong urge to have sex and have children to grow our population bigger.

It‘s 2025, you need to go with the time, buds. We don’t live in caves anymore

 

[lolRexer]

It‘s 2025, you need to go with the time, buds. We don’t live in caves anymore

Our instincts don’t care about that do they

 

[tyquese]

Exceptions exist you know. But also most people won’t tell you honestly IRL what they think of their family members, they could have the worst conflicts within their family but they will pretend to be a nice and loving family in public

thats what i do i try making my mom sound as good as possible but over time i tell my friends her real motives and they think shes a weird person to have kids but like u did say there are exceptions and i am that exception.

 

[The Grinch]

Our instincts don’t care about that do they

Humans have a lot of instincts and not all of them are good for us, some are harmful and lead to a bad outcome

 

[Kroker]

Too much unnecessary stress and responsibility muh legacy nah nigga I ain’t of royalty pedigree

 

[STAMPEDE]

Having kids is the biggest scam

 

[User28823]

Most kids hate their father? Where'd you hear that?

i think hes just projecting

 

[LTNUser]

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Leave him,he forgot to take his meds

 

[Sacrimoon]

i see no point in living if i can’t pass on my genes

 

[hopecel]

@hopecel @gimmedatacc @STAMPEDE

I simply want to be a slave to my wife, let me be

 

[algerianmogger]

Yeah men love to have kids!!

Men when they're told they're not the father

 

[jester triad]

Being a father means nothing for a man, there is zero benefit for a man. Your children will most likely dislike you, most kids literally hate their father without reason, while adoring their mother. You will lose your life paying for a child that doesn’t even love you, while providing for a wife that doesn’t love you either, because women are not capable of loving a man, they don’t have those feelings for men like men have for women, it’s how nature designed them, they just pick the one who they perceive as the best possible provider and since men are naturally wired to be submissive slaves for women, most men don’t even mind playing that role, they will be ok with providing for a family that doesn’t love them and they will defend their lifestyle by saying cucked shit like: "We men sacrifice ourselves for the family and we don’t want anything in return, that’s what a real man does, bro“.

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shi idk i’ll just ascend, fuck bitches without a condom, impregnate them, leave and not pay child support osns

 

[ikramy]

Too many assumptions ehh?

 

[The Grinch]

i see no point in living if i can’t pass on my genes

Why is that so important to you?

 

[lolRexer]

Humans have a lot of instincts and not all of them are good for us, some are harmful and lead to a bad outcome

And I’m aware, I am just explaining the reason men today want children and that it all goes back to the start