why do normies consider it a cardinal sin for a male to "lack confidence"?

[banjojones]

TLD;R for you lazy fucks! Basically I wonder why normies hate men who "lack confidence" and my theory to this is that normies are insecure.

Like why do they care if a man does? why does it concern them? What is so fascinating about an awkward stuttering man? Like normies will feel PERSONALLY INSULTED if a man stutters or is a little awkward. Why? Don't normies have better things to do? I myself am confident in myself but don't feel the need to beat my chest over it and I act more reserved. If someone is nervous or stutters around me I don't mind or get angry. (simply the awkwardness does not bother me at all! I am worried about MYSELF not others) Plus in my experience people who stutter are actually very capable/confident when you get to know them. They just have a slight speech impediment. Its not like normies are hot stuff either. Most normies (American especially) are frankly ugly/unattractive!

-I have a theory normies are HORRIBLY INSECURE and a man who projects insecurity reminds normies of their own insecurities so that is why they hate awkward people. They FEAR that they will be "that awkward guy" (kinda like fundamental Christians who hate gays because they fear that they might be gay themselves!)

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

dnr

 

[Zer0/∞]

TLD;R for you lazy fucks! Basically I wonder why normies hate men who "lack confidence" and my theory to this is that normies are insecure.

Like why do they care if a man does? why does it concern them? What is so fascinating about an awkward stuttering man? Like normies will feel PERSONALLY INSULTED if a man stutters or is a little awkward. Why? Don't normies have better things to do? I myself am confident in myself but don't feel the need to beat my chest over it and I act more reserved. If someone is nervous or stutters around me I don't mind or get angry. (simply the awkwardness does not bother me at all! I am worried about MYSELF not others) Plus in my experience people who stutter are actually very capable/confident when you get to know them. They just have a slight speech impediment. Its not like normies are hot stuff either. Most normies (American especially) are frankly ugly/unattractive!

-I have a theory normies are HORRIBLY INSECURE and a man who projects insecurity reminds normies of their own insecurities so that is why they hate awkward people. They FEAR that they will be "that awkward guy" (kinda like fundamental Christians who hate gays because they fear that they might be gay themselves!)

because normies hate introverts and autists! They want non NTs to die and rot!

 

[John124]

You can have confidence without barking all the time. Women even have a name for it - BDE. Walk into situations and relationships with nothing to prove because you know your worth. Don't have to bark to get attention.

 

[6ft4]

The first foid in this video states just how much the thought of a moment of silence while on a date TERRIFIES her
I've met with girls from tinder on occasions without being drunk so at some points I had nothing to say and was just fine with not speaking for a while
MEANWHILE IT CAUSES FOIDS TO GO CRAZY INSIDE and they then pass it off as YOU being the awkward one because they can't handle the idea that they also have NOTHING to contribute to the convo
I think this is why most men are dancing monkeys to women which comes to be expected of men so when a foid encounters a guy who simply does not give a shit if there is silence for a while they tell themselves that there is something wrong with that man even tho the man is secure in himself while the foid is not

 

[banjojones]

You can have confidence without barking all the time. Women even have a name for it - BDE. Walk into situations and relationships with nothing to prove because you know your worth. Don't have to bark to get attention.

I know but then stupid normies think you aren't confident and will ostracize you. Barking your confidence is an american thing. in continental europe men are more reserved (NOT beta just they don't feel the need to beat their chest like a silverback gorilla over every little thing)

 

[Aladin]

TLD;R for you lazy fucks! Basically I wonder why normies hate men who "lack confidence" and my theory to this is that normies are insecure.

Like why do they care if a man does? why does it concern them? What is so fascinating about an awkward stuttering man? Like normies will feel PERSONALLY INSULTED if a man stutters or is a little awkward. Why? Don't normies have better things to do? I myself am confident in myself but don't feel the need to beat my chest over it and I act more reserved. If someone is nervous or stutters around me I don't mind or get angry. (simply the awkwardness does not bother me at all! I am worried about MYSELF not others) Plus in my experience people who stutter are actually very capable/confident when you get to know them. They just have a slight speech impediment. Its not like normies are hot stuff either. Most normies (American especially) are frankly ugly/unattractive!

-I have a theory normies are HORRIBLY INSECURE and a man who projects insecurity reminds normies of their own insecurities so that is why they hate awkward people. They FEAR that they will be "that awkward guy" (kinda like fundamental Christians who hate gays because they fear that they might be gay themselves!)

because only idiots die for retards

 

[Deleted member 17829]

because normies hate introverts and autists! They want non NTs to die and rot!

It’s not that bad, they just don’t wanna associate like be friends w them cos it’s awkward af

Non NTs and autists should just be friends with other non NTs and autists

No one wants them dead

 

[Brian Peppers]

May be a passed down thought pattern from tribal/primitive times where if a man seemed to lack confidence it meant he couldn't protect his clan/tribe and was unsure of himself. He was not reproductively competitive so had no family to feed but himself.

Similar to how a lot of built guys and their beefy bully buddy boyos don't respect thin or twink-built framecel men.

 

[Deleted member 19766]

Because men are supposed to be perfect in every way and to have the slightest imperfection will doom you to inceldom in 2022

 

[Deleted member 21620]

Because it reminds them of the weird school shooter types in high school

 

[looksmaxxed]

they don't, as long as you don't interact with them. if you interact withthem, you ruin their day with your weird ways. they want to feel like the protagonist in a movie where all the dialog took a year to write and is perfect. your autism intrudes upon their fantasy delusions

 

[Meteor21]

Normies are selfish and abhor responsibility. That's where this, gotta love yourself, just get confidence from within bullshit stems from.

Same people tht act like depression is incurable.