why do normies form close bonds but I can’t form relationships with anyone?

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Normies work great together at their jobs and get along so well and only 2 weeks into knowing each other they already ask each other for things like money and go hang out with each other.

Why doesn’t society like me? I’m a good guy
 
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Why doesn’t society like me? I’m a good guy
You bound during cigarette break, sharing a joint, hey let's sit on a beer. They don't care about novels and toys.
 
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in college i remember people just meeting for first time and were instantly best friends.
 
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And? Once they leave their shared environment they never bother to stay in touch. Just wandering dust till eternity ever after. From afar it looks like they’re bonding but they’re just diffusing the tension from being in shared space with smiles shit jokes and laughter.
 
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good they should keep their distance from me. I hate faking interactions for the sake of socializing
 
some people just have it
 
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And? Once they leave their shared environment they never bother to stay in touch. Just wandering dust till eternity ever after. From afar it looks like they’re bonding but they’re just diffusing the tension from being in shared space with smiles shit jokes and laughter.
nah you do actually form bonds and want to keep in touch if you were close friends/best friends
 
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nah you do actually form bonds and want to keep in touch if you were close friends/best friends
yea but that happens rarely. i have 2 close friends and used to have a ton of normal friends who drifted apart as life went on.
 
yea but that happens rarely. i have 2 close friends and used to have a ton of normal friends who drifted apart as life went on.
yeah you just proved me right i said close friends not normal friends who would want to keep in touch with normal ones
 
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yeah you just proved me right i said close friends not normal friends who would want to keep in touch with normal ones
yea but op was talking about people who bonded as soon as they met when in reality theyre just diffusing tension from being in shared space. it just looks like theyre bonding from afar true close friends dont even look like friends from afar cos theyre just chilling enjoying each others company
 
yea but op was talking about people who bonded as soon as they met when in reality theyre just diffusing tension from being in shared space. it just looks like theyre bonding from afar true close friends dont even look like friends from afar cos theyre just chilling enjoying each others company
I think thats just good social skills
 
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Why doesn’t this happen to me
Many reasons. First, maybe you are ugly, like bellow LTN, which seems to be where normies stop seeing you as a person and more of a funny humuncli. Secondly, you might be autistic or aspergers. Either is going to make fitting in a chore. If you're familiar with autism masking, just imagine doing almost continuously for a lifetime. Thirdly, you might be ideologically opposed to them and when sharing ideas, there's conflict. Like sharing your opinion on what old boomer you want ruling the USA or your not-so-sanitary opinion on current affairs.
yea but that happens rarely. i have 2 close friends and used to have a ton of normal friends who drifted apart as life went on.
True fact about life is that it gets lonelier with age, just if you're ugly the rate that you lose friends is far greater. I must have lost my friends just as HS finished, I wasn't high value enough to want to stay in touch or ever hang out again. You know it's over when you're the instigator btw.
And? Once they leave their shared environment they never bother to stay in touch. Just wandering dust till eternity ever after. From afar it looks like they’re bonding but they’re just diffusing the tension from being in shared space with smiles shit jokes and laughter.
 
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