Why do people believe women are better at socializing than men on average?

[JovenCansao]

Women are unfunny most of the times
Don't know how to adapt to different types of people or social groups
Are less willing to take risks, which leads to a limit on experiences a group or pair have when hanging around with women
As a general rule you have to be more respectful around them ( )
They will rarely act alone, most need groups to get shit done.

In short, every social advantage that women have on social situations comes from men wanting to fuck them. Nothing else.
They aren't more adept at socializing than men.

 

[Slayer]

 

[JovenCansao]

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They have one of the biggest advantages for socializing, drone mentality and high agreeability

 

[Brian Peppers]

How can they be better at socializing when:

a) 80% of men are ugly to them and not welcome in their social group
b) they're all addicted to their smartphones
c) share the same boring hobbies: netflix dramas, britains got talent, eurovision, collecting useless tack, judging the Jones' on their facebook/insta feeds.
d) they can't hold a decent converation with a man about a certain subject without her delusionally thinking he's trying to impress her seksually; basically making a scene that all men want them.
e) are job or education heiriachy snobs; i.e. they don't socialize with men that don't have the same academic attainment or similar income levels.

 

[JovenCansao]

How can they be better at socializing when:

a) 80% of men are ugly to them and not welcome in their social group
b) they're all addicted to their smartphones
c) share the same boring hobbies: netflix dramas, britains got talent, eurovision, collecting useless tack, judging the Jones' on their facebook/insta feeds.
d) they can't hold a decent converation with a man about a certain subject without her delusionally thinking he's trying to impress her seksually; basically making a scene that all men want them.
e) are job or education heiriachy snobs; i.e. they don't socialize with men that don't have the same academic attainment or similar income levels.

I think it's exactly their drone mentality what helps them socialize, anything that's popular they will like
And ofc men making it easier for them

 

[SubSigma]

Having good social skills has nothing to do with intelligence or being above average at anything. It has to do with fitting in and avoiding any conflict. Anyone who is remotely above average or below average at anything is instantly non nt. Women are good at being average/mediocre, and conforming to the status quo. Most of the “good” shit they do is to virtue signal too. They will out blm in their bio, but will never step foot in the ghetto and serve at a food kitchen.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Estrogen promotes a higher affinity to socialization, which increases survivability (safety in numbers) and the likelihood of being impregnated by an alpha.

 

[soulless_npc]

i think it's because a huge number of men are actually anti social and the statistic that's making the rounds about 60% of men being single and shit correlates with it. women judge each other by different standards, idk what they r cuz I'm not a woman but men judge each other by what they bring to the table so to speak. and since a lot of guys are mediocre and don't bring anything to the table, plus a growing sigma mindset with age, plus how if you're high cortisol it can basically put you in a zone where whenever you have to coexist/work with other high T men you're in fight or flight mode avoiding / diffusing confrontation and the rest of the time you wanna be tf alone because it's mentally exhausting , it amounts to a huge number of the guys under the social dominance/hierarchy bellcurve who are just your average guy who goes to work and comes home smokes pot/drinks and chills and plays xbox. EVEN if he has a gf / wife.

 

[Guba]

It's a fact that women are better at socializing on average. Women are social animals, they need to stick with the pack in order to survive. Being physically weaker than men they need to conform to social conventions to not be outcasted or get embroiled in violence. This is not to say that it's good for a man to become a total outcast either, but he can manage it better. This necessity breeds better social skills on the woman's part, and yes, regardless of what incels might say here, women are on average better at nurturing and empathizing with others, which is another important factor in cultivating social skills. There's also the fact that women's intelligence is more middling, whereas men occupy the extreme ranges of both stupidity and high intelligence. Being really stupid might turn you into a brute who doesn't know how to socialize, while being very intelligent can turn you into a neurotic, over-thinking mentalcel.

 

[CyberPsychodelic]

Both men and woman are equally the same at socializing, i think that overthinking this will makes you think woman are at X level and men at X level, to combat this thinking, be the most good looking you can be, have the most money you can, the most testosterone levels, have people who cares for you and calls you and messages you, have a car, the better you are, the less you will be allow peopoe to give you negative feedback

Lets say, a guy does have a bloated face, is balding and uses a hat, doesnt have too much testosterone, narrow shoulders, wears old clothes from 3 years ago, he will get certain feedback, he perceives he is perceived as with poor income and not so dominant because of low T and low dimorphism, so he fixes all of that

He does improve, things like lean face, good hairline, thick neck, good shoulders and body, good clothes
Testosterone (How masculine and dominant you are perceived)
Maybe a car

So now he gets very psoitive feedback by people and is perceived the way he wants to be perceived, with money and atractive, dominant/masculine