Why do people get bored of me?

[RecessedCels]

(This is all online because I don't talk to people IRL)

I always talk to people for weeks or months and then they suddenly just get disinterested in me pretty much out of nowhere. Like one day they say I'm so kind to them and one of their favorite people and a couple days later they don't care about me at all. Niggas why does this happen?

 

[_MVP_]

ur low iq

 

[RecessedCels]

ur low iq

Nigga explain. I'm genuinely so confused

 

[_MVP_]

Nigga explain. I'm genuinely so confused

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 91545]

Not entertaining

 

[alurmo]

bc u prob sound like most of the people they meet

 

[Deleted member 91545]

Not entertaining

Not saying u arent but just a normal reason y people get bored

 

[TitusA]

(This is all online because I don't talk to people IRL)

I always talk to people for weeks or months and then they suddenly just get disinterested in me pretty much out of nowhere. Like one day they say I'm so kind to them and one of their favorite people and a couple days later they don't care about me at all. Niggas why does this happen?

Either not entertaining or ur forcing friendships too hard. If u appear as if u are trying too hard/overly talkative can make u appear low status in another persons eyes. U need to prob work on making a life ur comfortable with and hobbies you like and stop looking for friends so hard. Friendship is slow process that develops over time from seeing each other in the same places and having similar interests etc you cant force it just let it develop slowly.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

(This is all online because I don't talk to people IRL)

I always talk to people for weeks or months and then they suddenly just get disinterested in me pretty much out of nowhere. Like one day they say I'm so kind to them and one of their favorite people and a couple days later they don't care about me at all. Niggas why does this happen?

For a friendship to last you have to provide value that the other person wants, and can't get a better version of anywhere.

So if they like humor, and they like watching comedy movies for example, then you have to be funnier than any other place they could be watching humor from.

If they like logic and science, then you have to be better at logic and science than anywhere else they could be getting logic and science form.

If they like drama, then you have to better at providing drama than one one, or anywhere else they could be getting drama from.

think of it like a business.

 

[e.skimo]

(This is all online because I don't talk to people IRL)

I always talk to people for weeks or months and then they suddenly just get disinterested in me pretty much out of nowhere. Like one day they say I'm so kind to them and one of their favorite people and a couple days later they don't care about me at all. Niggas why does this happen?

Online friendships are extremely fucking fleeting

 

[Clark69]

'online friends' don't exist and are superficial by default

truth be told: they find you boring because you dont make a complete clown of yourself or you dont want to drown in the same misery as them. they want jesters or other miserable people

dont get mad or depressed over it. they will gladly cut you off quick if you have a different political opinion or an outlook on life. it's just one giant echochamber

 

[RecessedCels]

'online friends' don't exist and are superficial by default

truth be told: they find you boring because you dont make a complete clown of yourself or you dont want to drown in the same misery as them. they want jesters or other miserable people

dont get mad or depressed over it. they will gladly cut you off quick if you have a different political opinion or an outlook on life. it's just one giant echochamber

I don't have any actual friends irl either man