Why do people hate social awkwardness so much?

[lilhorizontal32]

Seems that people are willing to befriend/hang out with dark triad charismatic types over good intentioned awkward people

why is this?
And why do people in general hate awkward behaviour so much?

personally I don’t really mind it in others and find it to be kind of endearing, but it seems that not many other people see it this way

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Probably because they are equally shy

 

[Deleted member 11726]

Fear of being socially rejected and Insecurities.

 

[whiteissuperior]

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

 

[Deleted member 275]

Because it's painfully boring. I have hanged out with socially awkward/shy guys and most of the interactions with them are just painfully boring. You have to lead them basically like the alpha leader of a group of betas.

 

[volcelfatcel]

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

Elab

 

[jcthecatalyst]

Seems that people are willing to befriend/hang out with dark triad charismatic types over good intentioned awkward people

why is this?
And why do people in general hate awkward behaviour so much?

personally I don’t really mind it in others and find it to be kind of endearing, but it seems that not many other people see it this way

Social rejection has been hard wired into humans to avoid for survival purposes. We are community based animals.

 

[Gonthar]

Because it's painfully boring. I have hanged out with socially awkward/shy guys and most of the interactions with them are just painfully boring. You have to lead them basically like the alpha leader of a group of betas.

It feels empowering, especially if your social skills aren't also that good - you aren't judged for what you say or do, and you can be the leader in a group of awkward/shy guys if you are a little better at socializing than them.

 

[subhuman incel]

It feels empowering, especially if your social skills aren't also that good - you aren't judged for what you say or do, and you can be the leader in a group of awkward/shy guys if you are a little better at socializing than them.

thats why i hang out with akward subhumans, so i can mog them facially and in nt-ness.

 

[Looks234]

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

Yup. Has to do with your ego.

 

[subhuman incel]

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

Elab

elab

 

[TITUS]

Because they are gregarious animals.

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

being socially accepted is very important today because of how big and different the world is. everybody wants to be on the safe side

 

[Bewusst]

just overdose on xanax theory

 

[Deleted member 275]

thats why i hang out with akward subhumans, so i can mog them facially and in nt-ness.

I did the same. I was pack leader of a group of autistic incels.

In the end i got disinterested tho. They would often not match my energy and act too self conscious. So i often ditched them and went solo at parties i went to together with them etc.

 

[Baldingman1998]

Yup. Has to do with your ego.

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

How? I don't understand this

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Because it's painfully boring. I have hanged out with socially awkward/shy guys and most of the interactions with them are just painfully boring. You have to lead them basically like the alpha leader of a group of betas.

Interesting.

My theory was that socially awkward/shy = low social status, and people hate things that are bad for their social status and will actively avoid it/them

but it seems much simpler than that

 

[lilhorizontal32]

being socially accepted is very important today because of how big and different the world is. everybody wants to be on the safe side

Social rejection has been hard wired into humans to avoid for survival purposes. We are community based animals.

Fear of being socially rejected and Insecurities.

Not really answering my question.

How does this relate to why people dislike socially awkward people

 

[datboijj]

means bad neuro connections
and bad brain chemistry
in one shape or form, clear sign of under development

 

[Deleted member 275]

Interesting.

My theory was that socially awkward/shy = low social status, and people hate things that are bad for their social status and will actively avoid it/them

but it seems much simpler than that

Nah, socially awkward/shy doesn't have to mean low social status, but it makes it very unlikely for them to be high social status.

The lowest social status are the loud annoying subhumans that everyone knows. They are ugly, unpopular annoying, but aren't shy/awkward and everyone hates those faggots.

Prob still more fun interacting with them than the bland awkward/shy guys that basically do nothing, show nothing, say nothing.

 

[jcthecatalyst]

Not really answering my question.

How does this relate to why people dislike socially awkward people

This explains why why we don’t like socially awkward. Skip to 1:55

 

[whiteissuperior]

How? I don't understand this

When I feel like typing up an essay when I get home I will elaborate

 

[Looks234]

How? I don't understand this

People with anxiety think they’re the center of attention and that everyone’s thinking about them. They also worry too much about other peoples opinions which is kinda narcissistic.

If you took shrooms and had an ego death you wouldn’t have anxiety anymore.

 

[ETO]

I dont get good intention vibes from those types of "men" at all. they seem fake and untrustworthy like girl personality type

 

[SeiGun]

tbh, if they look like shit and talk confidently will pissed me off more than socially awkward

 

[whiteissuperior]

People with anxiety think they’re the center of attention and that everyone’s thinking about them. They also worry too much about other peoples opinions which is kinda narcissistic.

If you took shrooms and had an ego death you wouldn’t have anxiety anymore.

Yea, also not getting social cues is typically caused by anxiety and self centered ness, cuz you lack the emotional intelligence and deliberation to pick up on other people’s feelings, so not understanding social cues comes across that way too

that’s the subconscious reason people despise those who miss social cues

 

[lilhorizontal32]

If you took shrooms and had an ego death you wouldn’t have anxiety anymore.

are you speaking from experience?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

tbh, if they look like shit and talk confidently will pissed me off more than socially awkward

a lot of people here have said that they know ugly guys with big social circles because they are very NT and confident, so not sure if normies think like this as well

 

[Looks234]

are you speaking from experience?

Nah. I would never try to get rid of my ego.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Nah. I would never try to get rid of my ego.

so it means that that isnt a good solution bro

 

[Entschuldigung]

Because it's painfully boring. I have hanged out with socially awkward/shy guys and most of the interactions with them are just painfully boring. You have to lead them basically like the alpha leader of a group of betas.

Wow that's my dream I like to rule people

 

[Entschuldigung]

means bad neuro connections
and bad brain chemistry
in one shape or form, clear sign of under development

Cope
I was very nt at high school and now I'm not
It's just lack of proper social interaction and too much self consciousness

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Cope
I was very nt at high school and now I'm not
It's just lack of proper social interaction and too much self consciousness

think there is some truth to this

 

[Entschuldigung]

think there is some truth to this

It's very true in my case
No joke I was the most NT guy at my school tf happened

 

[lilhorizontal32]

It's very true in my case
No joke I was the most NT guy at my school tf happened

how do you know, as in did other people tell you that you were charismatic?

and did it help much with girls?

 

[mulattomaxxer]

People with anxiety think they’re the center of attention and that everyone’s thinking about them. They also worry too much about other peoples opinions which is kinda narcissistic.

If you took shrooms and had an ego death you wouldn’t have anxiety anymore.

Extremely based my friend. This is a very unique perspective on social anxiety.

 

[Entschuldigung]

how do you know, as in did other people tell you that you were charismatic?

and did it help much with girls?

Yes tbh
I was very popular and I'd always be chosen to do things despite not being good on Sports
Thinking now it helped me with girls because I looked like shit

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Yes tbh
I was very popular and I'd always be chosen to do things despite not being good on Sports
Thinking now it helped me with girls because I looked like shit

mirin man.

so whyd you stop hanging out with your friends after high school? seems like you had many from the sound of it

 

[Entschuldigung]

mirin man.

so whyd you stop hanging out with your friends after high school? seems like you had many from the sound of it

I moved to another city where I knew a total of 0 people
Tbh my biggest mistake

 

[isis_Bleach]

because they’re boring to talk to usually, and they can make you feel bad/undesired when all they say to you is “yea” “ok” or nothing at all.

and it is caused by their ego and overbearing fear of criticism

 

[lilhorizontal32]

because they’re boring to talk to usually, and they can make you feel bad/undesired when all they say to you is “yea” “ok” or nothing at all.

and it is caused by their ego and overbearing fear of criticism

Can I pm?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Can I pm?

Sure
you don’t need to ask jfl

 

[CFW432]

Social awkwardness is indicative of not being an accepted member of society vis a vis, someone with inferior genetics. Only chads can get away with being quite somehow, because girls will still desire him for his looks (genetics) regardless. Everyone else that is "normal" talks "NT" because they have been accepted as a member of society. This is why the most extroverted people you meet are usually girls and high tier normie men and above. Because they have already met the looks threshold to be accepted by society, so they have never received any negative reinforcement throughout their upbringing which would make them shy/asocial which would have lead them to not knowing how communicate with their peers. This is why most school shooters, and ER goers are at BEST average looking/normie and at worst trucel. Because being average looking as a male is still not enough to be accepted by society, you have to have some kind of status as well to carry you. And obliviously if you are subpar-ugly, its over for you regardless of what you do.

I.E. people hate those with inferior genetics, and you not being able to communicate with everyone else like everyone else, is an indicator you might have inferior genetics.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

This explains why why we don’t like socially awkward. Skip to 1:55

Doesn’t really answer my question. It’s more so why do people have a feeling of hate, which is such a strong emotion to feel especially when the person who is awkward 9/10 doesn’t have any bad intentions

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Social awkwardness is indicative of not being an accepted member of society vis a vis, someone with inferior genetics. Only chads can get away with being quite somehow, because girls will still desire him for his looks (genetics) regardless. Everyone else that is "normal" talks "NT" because they have been accepted as a member of society. This is why the most extroverted people you meet are usually girls and high tier normie men and above. Because they have already met the looks threshold to be accepted by society, so they have never received any negative reinforcement throughout their upbringing which would make them shy/asocial which would have lead them to not knowing how communicate with their peers. This is why most school shooters, and ER goers are at BEST average looking/normie and at worst trucel. Because being average looking as a male is still not enough to be accepted by society, you have to have some kind of status as well to carry you. And obliviously if you are subpar-ugly, its over for you regardless of what you do.

I.E. people hate those with inferior genetics, and you not being able to communicate with everyone else like everyone else, is an indicator you might have inferior genetics.

I think this is in line with what I was saying earlier of people disliking that which is low status, and social awkwardness is definitely a big indicator of that

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Sure
you don’t need to ask jfl

Can’t seem to, can you pm me instead?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

People with anxiety think they’re the center of attention and that everyone’s thinking about them. They also worry too much about other peoples opinions which is kinda narcissistic.

If you took shrooms and had an ego death you wouldn’t have anxiety anymore.

Not really. Everyone realises consciously that they’re not the center of the universe

The difference is that anxious people have had a bad experience(s) in a particular situation, and their body produces anxiety to make them alert/to make them avoid the situation altogether.

Hence why you feel anxious on the first day of school, but if you make friends that quickly dissipates, because now your brain knows that you have nothing to be uncertain or worry about

You’re reasoning doesn’t let really make much sense

 

[Deleted member 19281]

Unironically social awkwardness is a form of selfishness. Sounds crazy to incels but I’m being dead serious

How tho?

 

[looksmaxxed]

because social awkwardness is correlated to bad genetics, bad personality, and a liability in survival situations. people like that can't cooperate to survive, they can't hunt, they can only passive aggressively rape wymxn behind the tribe's back. so they need to be killed

 

[MoggerGaston]

dark triad charismatic types

Interesting

good intentioned awkward people

Boring

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