Why do people say I'm quiet but then don't talk to me?

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Everyone always tells me "you're quiet" but they never initiate any conversations with me. Am I supposed to start conversations myself with them or is there some sort of body language they are looking for to start it with me?
 
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Nobody ever told me that I am quiet.
I am allways the loudest guy in any given social enviroment.
 
Because you don't respond to social cues properly
 
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Because you are autistic
 
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Tell them "I like to speak when I actually have something to say". That'll make them think.
 
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I am the same as you and I’m working on it. I’m pretty sure we just act aspie so people stay away. Our expressions look unapproachable and when we speak we look like we lack enthusiasm due to aspie stare or lack of gestures and expressions (especially smiling). Monotone voice doesn’t help either. I’m guessing that once people have a certain image of you it’s hard to undo and no one will approach you now as you have established yourself as non NT.
 
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Tell them "I like to speak when I actually have something to say". That'll make them think.
No thats just a cringe ass quote that you will hear in a tv-show
 
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You probably have a Low trust face.
 
No thats just a cringe ass quote that you will hear in a tv-show
It works if you have the sigma mindset aura going for you. A popular girl in school once told me I was quiet and I said "I talk when I have something to say but you just blabber on regardless". The guys started laughing and she got noticeably triggered. It was pretty funny.
 
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It works if you have the being a chad aura going for you. A popular girl in school once told me I was quiet and I said "I talk when I have something to say but you just blabber on regardless". The guys started laughing and she got noticeably triggered. It was pretty funny.
 
It works if you have the sigma mindset aura going for you. A popular girl in school once told me I was quiet and I said "I talk when I have something to say but you just blabber on regardless". The guys started laughing and she got noticeably triggered. It was pretty funny.
Edgy cringelord moment
 
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just live in your fantasy world, that's the only thing keeping you from the rope
I cry tears of joy everyday. Things are getting better for me on all levels. My whole life is improving at a drastic rate. My mom just messaged me for suit measurements. What are you doing, doggo? Seethe and stay obedient to your master.
 
I am the same as you and I’m working on it. I’m pretty sure we just act aspie so people stay away. Our expressions look unapproachable and when we speak we look like we lack enthusiasm due to aspie stare or lack of gestures and expressions (especially smiling). Monotone voice doesn’t help either. I’m guessing that once people have a certain image of you it’s hard to undo and no one will approach you now as you have established yourself as non NT.
Do people say that they think you "don't like them" or that you think you "are better than them"?
 
Do people say that they think you "don't like them" or that you think you "are better than them"?
Idk really I was so aspie they could never even get to that level of discussion. They respected me because I was good looking and smart so they never said anything. I also act quite humble irl so it wouldn’t make sense for them to say it. I just get the vibe that they feel that way; like I’m distant and uninterested in going out (very rarely (maybe like 3 times) did anyone ever invite me out and let’s not blame it on looks jfl). I just had a lot of “friends” who I never really connected with.
 
They just want to gaslight you and let everyone in the vicinity know they think you're an aspie weirdo
 
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Everyone always tells me "you're quiet"
people don't talk to me
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Everyone always tells me "you're quiet" but they never initiate any conversations with me. Am I supposed to start conversations myself with them or is there some sort of body language they are looking for to start it with me?
Being the quiet guy isn't so bad. People just tell me I'm weird. Lmaoo
 

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