RODEBLUR
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So i found a girl on Yubo once who was a cute blonde and i was into her but i wouldn't call it oneitis because it's dumb to be like that for a girl you don't really know tbh ngl
Reason why i looked up girls on Yubo instead of real life is because A. I rot inside, i don't have any activities or places to go and B. There are no girls in my class.
So i'll tell you the story. I had matched with her at some point and chatted with her, and while i knew looks were one thing, i liked her personality too from the way she spoke. But after some time the chat died like every other match i had there.
But a month after the dead end i started thinking about her as i saw she was online. I messaged her and i was like actually nvm you're busy with a livestream so i won't bother you
She was like nono you can come too, which i did, but to my surprise, they all spoke Finnish.
I couldn't understand a single word they were uttering, and i made this clear in the stream, and only the dude heard me, which in turn told me she actually doesn't speak English.
So there i was, absolutely dumbfounded by this discovery. I've finally found someone i liked, and i don't have any social anxiety or anything of the sort so of course, fate decides to put a huge language barrier in the way so shit is difficult anyway.
I was feeling good though, because i was the best looking dude in the group.
But i got along with the dude, who had actually gotten her Snapchat at some point, and they were talking, and i didn't bother getting it as well because i don't even have Snapchat, but i know it's a big deal to have someone's Snapchat apparently.
It was at this point that a girl from my country joined and stayed a bit of a permanent member in the group we had going.
At some point when it was only me and the dude i came clean that i liked the girl too and neither of us were bothered about it, we actually made it a bit of a game
What me and the dude did is every time she was in the stream he'd translate for me what she said and asked, and when i replied he would translate back.
In turn i would tell the dude if his pickup lines were lame or not and gave him advice
The girl actually did compliment me, saying that i had cute ''fluffly hair'' or something like that.
One day i had become bored and i stayed in the stream but turned off the mic and they all went INSANE. The girl started begging me to come back in pm and that she was sorry and the rest asked me if i was mad. When i came back i was utterly confused. I had no idea what they could've even be talking about, and i still don't know to this day.
But since the girl messaged me i replied and we started chatting again. Kept that going for a while and the girl started to talk to me more in pms and on stream with translations
She asked me my height, and i truthfully replied 5'7''. While the dude, who i may add was 5'8'' and the other girl started laughing and talking shit, the main girl was like actually that's good and i was like why, how? and she said she was short. I asked well is that under 160cm then (5'3'') and she said yes.
This was quite weird to me, because even my mum is 5'5'', but i liked how it meant that she liked my height and it was a good thing.
I felt like everything was going REALLY well. While me and the dude were just playing in stream i decided to ask the girl a bit of a competition question, i asked her who she thought was cuter, me or him, and she said it was a hard question but ended up saying me because ''i'm cute and have nice hair and am short'' or something like that. My plan was to casually keep going until i felt it was the right moment to come clean. And i had never been rejected before so i was feeling good.
It felt unreal to me to be THIS CLOSE to having a girlfriend. Whether it's a LDR 5000km away or a normal relationship, i've never had anything of the sort as a KHHV and it was truly epic to me, my birthday was coming up and i figured this is the best present i could've had.
Even better, my mate had a falling out with the girl, and now i was the only one in the game.
Thing is, the other girl in our group didn't like this. Kept saying that she was ugly and fat and whatnot all the time.
It was completely whatever to me though i didn't care about what she had to say.
What did matter though is when the main girl joined and the other one was still there, she took it upon herself to Google Translate that i have a crush on her or something and that i am in love with her, and asking if she is with me as well and if she would have a relationship with me and whatever, and followed it up with [My name] heart [Her name]. And i KNEW that this shit was the fucking end, because it was fucking cringe and we hadn't spoken long enough for this to slide
So what the girl said was no, but she emphasized on ONLY because i lived far away, apologised and left. Other girl stayed to mock me and rub it into my face how she denied me. So the question is. Why did some complete other girl have to fuck shit up if i didn't like her and she didn't like me? What was the point? Don't get it.
In the end, she got bitter against the other dude as well and my mate was blocked off her Snapchat.
TL;DR: Language baited by a girl, but got quite far anyways, until another girl had to ruin it for no reason. Lesson learned: always be able to understand them.
I truly was THIS CLOSE. But alas.
Reason why i looked up girls on Yubo instead of real life is because A. I rot inside, i don't have any activities or places to go and B. There are no girls in my class.
So i'll tell you the story. I had matched with her at some point and chatted with her, and while i knew looks were one thing, i liked her personality too from the way she spoke. But after some time the chat died like every other match i had there.
But a month after the dead end i started thinking about her as i saw she was online. I messaged her and i was like actually nvm you're busy with a livestream so i won't bother you
She was like nono you can come too, which i did, but to my surprise, they all spoke Finnish.
I couldn't understand a single word they were uttering, and i made this clear in the stream, and only the dude heard me, which in turn told me she actually doesn't speak English.
So there i was, absolutely dumbfounded by this discovery. I've finally found someone i liked, and i don't have any social anxiety or anything of the sort so of course, fate decides to put a huge language barrier in the way so shit is difficult anyway.
I was feeling good though, because i was the best looking dude in the group.
But i got along with the dude, who had actually gotten her Snapchat at some point, and they were talking, and i didn't bother getting it as well because i don't even have Snapchat, but i know it's a big deal to have someone's Snapchat apparently.
It was at this point that a girl from my country joined and stayed a bit of a permanent member in the group we had going.
At some point when it was only me and the dude i came clean that i liked the girl too and neither of us were bothered about it, we actually made it a bit of a game
What me and the dude did is every time she was in the stream he'd translate for me what she said and asked, and when i replied he would translate back.
In turn i would tell the dude if his pickup lines were lame or not and gave him advice
The girl actually did compliment me, saying that i had cute ''fluffly hair'' or something like that.
One day i had become bored and i stayed in the stream but turned off the mic and they all went INSANE. The girl started begging me to come back in pm and that she was sorry and the rest asked me if i was mad. When i came back i was utterly confused. I had no idea what they could've even be talking about, and i still don't know to this day.
But since the girl messaged me i replied and we started chatting again. Kept that going for a while and the girl started to talk to me more in pms and on stream with translations
She asked me my height, and i truthfully replied 5'7''. While the dude, who i may add was 5'8'' and the other girl started laughing and talking shit, the main girl was like actually that's good and i was like why, how? and she said she was short. I asked well is that under 160cm then (5'3'') and she said yes.
This was quite weird to me, because even my mum is 5'5'', but i liked how it meant that she liked my height and it was a good thing.
I felt like everything was going REALLY well. While me and the dude were just playing in stream i decided to ask the girl a bit of a competition question, i asked her who she thought was cuter, me or him, and she said it was a hard question but ended up saying me because ''i'm cute and have nice hair and am short'' or something like that. My plan was to casually keep going until i felt it was the right moment to come clean. And i had never been rejected before so i was feeling good.
It felt unreal to me to be THIS CLOSE to having a girlfriend. Whether it's a LDR 5000km away or a normal relationship, i've never had anything of the sort as a KHHV and it was truly epic to me, my birthday was coming up and i figured this is the best present i could've had.
Even better, my mate had a falling out with the girl, and now i was the only one in the game.
Thing is, the other girl in our group didn't like this. Kept saying that she was ugly and fat and whatnot all the time.
It was completely whatever to me though i didn't care about what she had to say.
What did matter though is when the main girl joined and the other one was still there, she took it upon herself to Google Translate that i have a crush on her or something and that i am in love with her, and asking if she is with me as well and if she would have a relationship with me and whatever, and followed it up with [My name] heart [Her name]. And i KNEW that this shit was the fucking end, because it was fucking cringe and we hadn't spoken long enough for this to slide
So what the girl said was no, but she emphasized on ONLY because i lived far away, apologised and left. Other girl stayed to mock me and rub it into my face how she denied me. So the question is. Why did some complete other girl have to fuck shit up if i didn't like her and she didn't like me? What was the point? Don't get it.
In the end, she got bitter against the other dude as well and my mate was blocked off her Snapchat.
TL;DR: Language baited by a girl, but got quite far anyways, until another girl had to ruin it for no reason. Lesson learned: always be able to understand them.
I truly was THIS CLOSE. But alas.
