why do some people think im gay?

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i act like a normal male , my voice is deep what is the reason?, its especially the girls who think I'm gay

 
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gay aura bro over for u
 
its a sign...
 
same for me. Ended up thinking i was actually gay. in reality it was just me being a loser
 
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i act like a normal male , my voice is deep what is the reason?, its especially the girls who think I'm gay


maybe your behavior or looks?
 
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well groomed eyebrows nice skin good fashion sense
 
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maybe your behavior or looks?
def behavior it can't be his looks
this guy has so many fucking posts about his bdd face here
just look

"women aren't the problem its you"
"why do gay men mog men on average"
 
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You probably look narc, and narcs are regarded often at least as bisexual.
 
why are you gay?
 
have had literally the same problems but realized why and currently fixing it.

a reason might be that we were hanging out too much around girls and copied some of their mannerisms.

voice is for me the gamechanger. around guys I usually have a monotone, deep, relaxed and masculine voice. When I start dating its the same. But as soon as I open up - and especially with hot girls I subconciously change a lot of my charismatic and cool behavior. I literally start talking like a woman. changing my tone and pitch literally 24/7 sounding emotinal asf. basically like some gay dude.

i think this is the biggest factor:



obviously u shouldnt be monotone asf - girls don t like that either but be careful with ur voice.

any other feminine mannerisms like certain movements or how u walk also affect this ofc:

for example do you notice that you have to think about how you move your body a lot when you are around people? i realized that basically when I am home alone i move like a fucking retard.
and when I am around people I try to move more masculine but the movements seem a bit unnatural and fake. if thats the case you should start fixing your posture first (rounded shoulders anterior pelvic tilt which makes u look feminine asf too). So you "learn" to have a natural masculine posture and dont have to think about it anymore.
I personally fucked up my posture by working out my chest but barely any back for some years.

dont act out to emotinal. if you are a senstive & emotional person -> try therapy. tbh i did psychoanalysis just on myself writing up traumas and things that create anxieties. literally all the shit that makes me depressed and suicidal but by writing it on a piece of paper it starts to loosen up and u wont be as emotional over dumb shit anymore.

also being told u seem gay obviously creates insecurities so when talking about personal things what happens is that you might not own up to your own feminine side making u look even more insecure. for example girl asks u what ur fav movie is (its titanic) but u hesitate or even lie cuz ur a bitch. obviously if u like wearing girl panties while watching porn u shouldnt tell her that lol. but owning your feminine side as a man -> be perceived as more masc.

any questions -> pm me.
 

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