Why do we associate character traits with looks?

[reborn]

Sometimes you see a girl that's really cute and you immediately think she is probably intelligent and that one can have good conversations with her and that she is probably very open minded and fun to hang out with.

But if the same girl gets fat or old suddenly she looks like a sack of potatoes and suddenly you no longer feel like she has those positive character traits at all.

Interestingly it often seems like it is actually true. For some reason young, beautiful girls are often intelligent and friendly and fun to hang out with and for some reason once they get fat or old they are actually a pain in the ass.

How does it work? Is your mind playing tricks on you and making you think a person is nice just because she is beautiful? Or is it more like people tend to be nice if they are young and beautiful and then as they grow old and get fat and ugly they are frustrated about everything and their outer ugliness somehow affects their personality?

Which one is it?

 

[getra]

No it’s because when you let yourself go, the treatment that comes with that puts you down. You realize you’re not worth what you used to be cause looks so you just give up. Same happened to me. I think it happens to everyone regardless of sex.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Hold the fuck on…

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That was an EXTREMELY large piece of shit I had to squeeze out of my asshole. The asshole is tiny, by the way, and my shits are big. It’s like giving birth, but to shit goblins.

What were you saying again? Wait, I don’t give a shit, I just gave my last one

 

[getra]

Personality unironically = looks

 

[reborn]

No it’s because when you let yourself go, the treatment that comes with that puts you down. You realize you’re not worth what you used to be cause looks so you just give up. Same happened to me. I think it happens to everyone regardless of sex.

Yeah and I think it works both ways: You either feel bad first, then your looks start to adjust. Or you look like shit to begin with. Then your mind adjusts to your looks.

 

[getra]

Yeah and I think it works both ways: You either feel bad first, then your looks start to adjust. Or you look like shit to begin with. Then your mind adjusts to your looks.

True I started letting myself go after getting blackpilled. Felt hopeless knowing the truths so I was like fuck it. Binge ate for months on end, did shitload of drugs, and let go of all my projects and most of my friends.

 

[the BULL]

because you're visual animals

 

[Aesthetics_III]

OP discovers physiognomy

 

[Deleted member 16456]

because you're visual animals

Italian man tries writing English without google translate for the first time

 

[reborn]

True I started letting myself go after getting blackpilled. Felt hopeless knowing the truths so I was like fuck it. Binge ate for months on end, did shitload of drugs, and let go of all my projects and most of my friends.

Well I was aware of the blackpill all my life. It is self evident. After several decades I am at least no longer suicidal and have certain goals but I agree it is hard to motivate yourself when you know the truth. Maybe eventually after a few years things will change for you too. After a long time you get used to the truth and then it starts to feel less terrible.

 

[the BULL]

Italian man tries writing English without google translate for the first time

i have a c1 you worthless moron

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Preconception.

 

[getra]

Well I was aware of the blackpill all my life. It is self evident. After several decades I am at least no longer suicidal and have certain goals but I agree it is hard to motivate yourself when you know the truth. Maybe eventually after a few years things will change for you too. After a long time you get used to the truth and then it starts to feel less terrible.

Money and bitches are my goal. Realistically, that’s all there is to it.

 

[Deleted member 8908]

w

Sometimes you see a girl that's really cute and you immediately think she is probably intelligent and that one can have good conversations with her and that she is probably very open minded and fun to hang out with.

But if the same girl gets fat or old suddenly she looks like a sack of potatoes and suddenly you no longer feel like she has those positive character traits at all.

Interestingly it often seems like it is actually true. For some reason young, beautiful girls are often intelligent and friendly and fun to hang out with and for some reason once they get fat or old they are actually a pain in the ass.

How does it work? Is your mind playing tricks on you and making you think a person is nice just because she is beautiful? Or is it more like people tend to be nice if they are young and beautiful and then as they grow old and get fat and ugly they are frustrated about everything and their outer ugliness somehow affects their personality?

Which one is it?

whenever i see a fellow gym bro in the gym, i instantly assume they are as smart as i am because they clearly have their priorities in order. Those who are attractive clearly value their reputation and public image therefore they are self aware and smart.

 

[DivineBeing]

because most of our decisions are fast decisions

compare how long it is to judge a person by their personality (e.g. their actions over time) versus their looks

 

[reborn]

Money and bitches are my goal. Realistically, that’s all there is to it.

True bro.

 

[Deleted member 16456]

i have a c1 you worthless moron

You may have that but at the end of the day non of that can save your subhuman face. If you were smart you would have roped by now

 

[DivineBeing]

w

whenever i see a fellow gym bro in the gym, i instantly assume they are as smart as i am because they clearly have their priorities in order. Those who are attractive clearly value their reputation and public image therefore they are self aware and smart.

when i see others at the gym that aren't 6'3 and broad framed i pity them because they don't know yet it's over

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Because society wants good looking people to succeed and ugly people to fail.

 

[the BULL]

You may have that but at the end of the day non of that can save your subhuman face. If you were smart you would have roped by now

bro i'm literally too handsome for girls idk what are you talking about

 

[Deleted member 16456]

Tfw when 6’y

 

[Deleted member 8908]

when i see others at the gym that aren't 6'3 and broad framed i pity them because they don't know yet it's over

im tall af and shredded and i disagree: they need to go to the gym MORE as an ugly cunt cuz the gym is the only thing holding their mental health together and its the only thing thats look at for them (cringe ik but its true)

 

[DivineBeing]

im tall af and shredded and i disagree: they need to go to the gym MORE as an ugly cunt cuz the gym is the only thing holding their mental health together and its the only thing thats look at for them (cringe ik but its true)

you just said it yourself? they go to the gym to hold their mental health together - which means it's over for them at this stage

 

[Deleted member 16456]

im tall af and shredded and i disagree: they need to go to the gym MORE as an ugly cunt cuz the gym is the only thing holding their mental health together and its the only thing thats look at for them (cringe ik but its true)

Bro I’m taller then you lmao i mog you man

 

[Deleted member 8908]

you just said it yourself? they go to the gym to hold their mental health together - which means it's over for them at this stage

bro, they dont go to the gym because they think they have a chance with women: they go to the gym because its their PASSION. because they ENJOY IT.
they are literalyl going in their with NOTHING in return. thats how you are SUPPOSED to approach the gym.

if i was some 5ft. legless ugly guy and the doctors told me i physically couldnt increase my muscle mass no matter how hard i train or eat, id STILL train. there are people who gravitate to the gym cus its fun, then there are others who have to force themselves into the gym and treat it like a chore.

keep coping bro

 

[Deleted member 8908]

Bro I’m taller then you lmao i mog you man

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[DivineBeing]

bro, they dont go to the gym because they think they have a chance with women: they go to the gym because its their PASSION. because they ENJOY IT.
they are literalyl going in their with NOTHING in return. thats how you are SUPPOSED to approach the gym.

if i was some 5ft. legless ugly guy and the doctors told me i physically couldnt increase my muscle mass no matter how hard i train or eat, id STILL train. there are people who gravitate to the gym cus its fun, then there are others who have to force themselves into the gym and treat it like a chore.

keep coping bro

how the fuck is gym any fun you moron? only social outcasts and subhumans deem it as fun independent of any outcome

there are many more pleasurable things to do than to go to the gym what a fucking joke

 

[Deleted member 8908]

how the fuck is gym any fun you moron? only social outcasts and subhumans deem it as fun independent of any outcome

there are many more pleasurable things to do than to go to the gym what a fucking joke

I honestly feel sorry for you bro if the gym isnt fun
what else would you be doing?

 

[DivineBeing]

I honestly feel sorry for you bro if the gym isnt fun
what else would you be doing?

my nigga yo keep confirming the opinions i have but you seem not to get it

i used to go to the gym too and had fun i did it 2 hours a day everyday. but it was a cope and wasted my time so i stopped.

What else could you do?

Combat Sports or more active sports - better for cardiovascular health

Homegym (which I do) - 30 minutes workout 3-4 times a week got me better outcomes than everyday for 2 hours

Learn a language, learn some skills -and yes there are a shit ton of skills that everyone needs that you could learn in freetime like negotiation or problem solving

 

[Deleted member 2382]

Your outward appearance is a reflection of your mind and soul
Your appearance is also linked to your behavior
You have low T so you have no browridge, you look like a bit of a cuck and because you are low T you act like a bit of a cuck
You inject T, you grow a browridge, you look more dominant because of browridge and you act more dominant because of higher T

I had poor air intake all my life due to narrow airways. I had my palate expanded and now I take in twice as much air while I sleep so my brain functions better and I become higher IQ. Because my palate is expanded I show 10 teeth when I smile rather than 6, women find me more attractive than they used to because my palate looks better but they don't realize why. I am now higher IQ and displaying higher genetic quality

 

[Deleted member 8908]

i used to go to the gym too and had fun i did it 2 hours a day everyday. but it was a cope and wasted my time so i stopped.

"used to" "cope" "wasted my time"
bro post physique or stfu lmfao

 

[DivineBeing]

"used to" "cope" "wasted my time"
bro post physique or stfu lmfao

what does my physique have to do with it?

you said some people do it because it's pleasurable independent of outcome. so physique shouldn't matter right?

and those subhumans that gym have shit frames so their physiques will be bad. why do they then go to the gym?

 

[Deleted member 8908]

what does my physique have to do with it?

you said some people do it because it's pleasurable independent of outcome. so physique shouldn't matter right?

and those subhumans that gym have shit frames so their physiques will be bad. why do they then go to the gym?

you gave up because you didnt see imediate progress. progress takes time, work and effort. youre just a lazy whining cunt. im sick of whining cunts. ruins everything. stfu cunt and lift weights you massive pussy

 

[datboijj]

Money and bitches are my goal. Realistically, that’s all there is to it.

There was a study where scientists put a group of peoples faces at rest
and told people to guess which one's were autistic.
There was like an 80% success rate
it was posted on blackpill studies reddit