Why do women in relationships keep flirting with me?

[spongebob]

I think Im starting to become crazy but yet this keeps repeating itself. They keep flirting and giving IOIs.
Some are outright admitting it.

Does this mean I mog their BF? Is it hypergamy? Or do they just want attention?

I really want to know. It's at the workplace btw

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Bitches wanna monkeybranch.

 

[Deleted member 25713]

Users here underestimate the strong desire women have to leave their cuck boyfriends for a better looking guy, especially when alcohol is involved. Happens to me a lot as well.

 

[spongebob]

Bitches wanna monkeybranch.

Damn. It feels good for my ego a bit. The problem is Im not very social so Im a bit of an outsider (I dont go to drinking events or parties at the job) so I feel more social pressure (gossip etc) to not straight up make a move. It's a bit bad but I dont know how to deal with the situation.

Everyone there thinks I workout every day of the week yet I only go once max twice.
Im not handsome or anything, just tall

 

[spongebob]

Users here underestimate the strong desire women have to leave their cuck boyfriends for a better looking guy, especially when alcohol is involved. Happens to me a lot as well.

How did you deal with it?

 

[looksmaxxed]

they're trying to be nice to the loner incel loser who thinks everything is an ioi

 

[Deleted member 25713]

How did you deal with it?

Because they were in my school and I was aspie I did nothing just flirted with them like I do to all girls I speak to. If I could go back in time i would just fuck them unless their boyfriend is a friend of mine or a guy not worth fucking with.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Damn. It feels good for my ego a bit. The problem is Im not very social so Im a bit of an outsider (I dont go to drinking events or parties at the job) so I feel more social pressure (gossip etc) to not straight up make a move. It's a bit bad but I dont know how to deal with the situation.

Everyone there thinks I workout every day of the week yet I only go once max twice.
Im not handsome or anything, just tall

Nah you're probably pretty good looking or at least average, women don't do that with ugly guys like me.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

Height? Heightpill strikes again

 

[Deleted member 25713]

You said this is at work though so if you value your job it’s not a good idea.

 

[spongebob]

they're trying to be nice to the loner incel loser who thinks everything is an ioi

Yeah you could be right. But why flirt and be sexual though?

 

[spongebob]

How do I recognise the difference between them seriously wanting to monkey branch and therefor being flirtatious and sexual or just being friendly and making jokes?
Idk if Im being delusional narcissistic or I'm being way too unconfident.
What would anyone else do in my place? I'm moving to a new city in 6 months so yeah...
Advice very much appreciated

 

[Deleted member 25713]

Just ask them out and pretend you don’t know they have a boyfriend. If they reject you just move on but if they are willing to cheat they are unlikely to mention him. If they do then just move on and back off, maybe she might regret saying anything and try and get your attention back.

 

[Deleted member 25377]

tales

 

[TITUS]

Flirting is a universal human behavior, the flirters just want to boost each other's ego. They probably don't want to fuck you (or they may do).

 

[spongebob]

Just ask them out and pretend you don’t know they have a boyfriend. If they reject you just move on but if they are willing to cheat they are unlikely to mention him. If they do then just move on and back off, maybe she might regret saying anything and try and get your attention back.

They tell me they got boyfriends. Then proceed to continue with their behaviour. I have no idea what these women want. I'm starting to think they are backing themselves up in case they do something so they can say:"Yeah maybe I did X but I told him I already had a BF so it's not my fault"

 

[spongebob]

Flirting is a universal human behavior, the flirters just want to boost each other's ego. They probably don't want to fuck you (or they may do).

I tried to flirt back with one and she started to project all these things like: "You care about me" or "You missed me"
So I'm starting to have 2nd thoughts if it's just friendly. You could be true for over half the cases though

 

[Deleted member 25713]

If those girls are into you, you probably look decent and at least have some options outside of girls at work. If girls don’t make it easy for you and you have options don’t bother and just move on. Only a desperate man puts up with bullshit.

 

[spongebob]

If those girls are into you, you probably look decent and at least have some options outside of girls at work. If girls don’t make it easy for you and you have options don’t bother and just move on. Only a desperate man puts up with bullshit.

You're right. Im already following this principle but thanks for the reinforcement.