Why do women say personality only matters?

[IwillRope2024]

genuinely you ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man and she will give some virtue signaling answer like personality saying ”If he cares about me and is compassionate and protective” And then they date the complete opposite type of guys and those types of guys always get all the girls.

Do they think most men were born yesterday or what? genuinely why do they even keep virtue signaling when everybody knows their true colors in 2026 thanks to social media

 

[anondude]

Cuz they want you to think you have a chance

 

[Soda_Pepsi]

It's to mask what horrible species they are, despite being horrible at it

 

[IwillRope2024]

everybody knows they are hypergamous whores who only care about looks and money and that they collectively only go for the top 20% of men and basically put the rest on block.

It’s no secret and i think they need to openly say this instead of saying obvious lies that controdics everything they do.

 

[Androgynous]

There are many reasons.

One reason being is that their looks don't matter as much when it comes to attracting partners, so they think personality plays a huge role in dating.

The second reason is that it creates the impression that you have a decent chance. Making it appear like you have a fair shot does 2 things, first, it makes them look kind and fair, second, it also allows it so they can leech off of simps who feed them validation, money, etc.

Another reason is that similar to the "Short kings have facecards" claim, most men are invisible to them. As a result, personality only matters to them once you reach a certain level of attractiveness, but they won't mention looks because, again, you're invisible to them. They haven't even taken you into consideration.

 

[whatsamaxilla]

genuinely you ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man and she will give some virtue signaling answer like personality saying ”If he cares about me and is compassionate and protective” And then they date the complete opposite type of guys and those types of guys always get all the girls.

Do they think most men were born yesterday or what? genuinely why do they even keep virtue signaling when everybody knows their true colors in 2026 thanks to social media

theyre trying to cover up how they only care about looks when they know thats all they care about the manipulative whores