Why do women seem scared of me ? What’s unappealing about my appearance?

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I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
 

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being short
 
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stop training legs



you look good tbh only possible reason women could reject u is if ur short or ND af or both
 
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I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
Nothing is wrong with u just talking to dumbass woman
 
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Gymcell case. U look good tho. Cucked by height .
 
blame hypergamy
 
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stop training legs



you look good tbh only possible reason women could reject u is if ur short or ND af or both
Not being rejected, just not being approached or solicited. Being ignored in DMs half the time too
 
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Estou fracassando miseravelmente em tentar conquistar mulheres. Ou elas parecem apavoradas em falar comigo, ou as que eu consigo conversar invariavelmente preferem um cara normal e sem graça a mim.
You're either shy or act strangely around them.
 
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American psycho serial killer poster isn’t doing you any favours bra
 
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I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
Download the hinge, you will slay like Crazy lol
 
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I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
whatever you could think of to blame, there is height needed to complete the rest of your life. When you wish for a women to approach you. You should be around 6ft+ or somehow a "handsome" short king, But in most cases a mtn/htn that is tall would mostly likely get girls to approach.
but when they ignore you even in dms it could be on how you handle convs and etc, I mean girls want someone to chase after them if it improves their ego.

overall what you can do to get girls to approach you, Is to cut on the gym a bit, Being a 5'9 or wtv gymcell is only going to make your love life a "bit worse"
then you have limb lengthening that could make it better, But dont be greedy. To tall with a 5´9 wingspan makes you look weird or even being called a t-rex.
 
I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
idk u look normal
 
Not being rejected, just not being approached or solicited. Being ignored in DMs half the time too
Theres nothing about your appearance that is easily approachable, thats why.

its pretty uncommon for women to be low inhib enough to just walk up to a guy and say hes hot or whatever, even if Chad.

The way that women tend to approach is by complimenting or commenting on something about your appearance that maintains plausible deniability of whether or not they're attracted to you.

Most of the women who approach me do so by commenting on my hair or tattoos


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this is what i look like for reference (6'3)
 
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Theres nothing about your appearance that is easily approachable, thats why.

its pretty uncommon for women to be low inhib enough to just walk up to a guy and say hes hot or whatever, even if Chad.

The way that women tend to approach is by complimenting or commenting on something about your appearance that maintains plausible deniability of whether or not they're attracted to you.

Most of the women who approach me do so by commenting on my hair or tattoos


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this is what i look like for reference (6'3)
Buff Norwood Cucurella
 
You might come across as an aggressive woman beater. Its just how your face harmonizes. You look good tho, just a theory
 
Dont get mad but you dont look like 5’10 . Stop working legs he is right.
lmao I’m not gonna get mad bro, I am just around 5’10. Maybe angles aren’t doing favors. You really think I should stop working legs?
 
Theres nothing about your appearance that is easily approachable, thats why.

its pretty uncommon for women to be low inhib enough to just walk up to a guy and say hes hot or whatever, even if Chad.

The way that women tend to approach is by complimenting or commenting on something about your appearance that maintains plausible deniability of whether or not they're attracted to you.

Most of the women who approach me do so by commenting on my hair or tattoos


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this is what i look like for reference (6'3)
Mirin bro, trve Tarzan 🔥. When I had long hair I occasionally had girls come up and give me compliments. Now that I’ve cut it I don’t get it anymore. But yeah, high iq take 🤝
 
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In no one case of this world this Guy is remotly incel lol, he is larping
On gangem I ain’t larpin 💯

Going through multiple unattractive stages (fat kid, long hair, test bloatcel) in life hardened me but fuk it we ball. However women are still put off by me so idk. Lowkey pulled more bitches as a 5’7 chubby 16 y/o
 
maybe he is fishing validation . For hinge it would be hard because foids filter for height
I downloaded Tinder last week and hit 99+ likes in a few days (rural Midwest), but only like 5 out of 16 matches have carried conversation with me. Hinge fucking sucks balls, I’ve had 4 matches and only 2 have returned convo
 
if you were a true 5'10, and this is your case im sorry but i dont know whats wrong
 
but yeah like @ZyzzReincarnate said, i'd drop the leg training frequency and downsize around your quads a bit
 
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but yeah like @ZyzzReincarnate said, i'd drop the leg training frequency and downsize around your quads a bit
Started doing this a few weeks ago actually out of laziness, I hit em once a week. However I’ve not lost mass, and they look bigger so I think it’s genetic + aas. Although off cycle they’re nearly as large so idk
 
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I’m failing so hard trying to get women. They either seem terrified to talk to me, or the ones I do talk to inevitably choose a DYEL normie over me.
if your short its probably because it looks like women arent already attracted to you and the muscles signal that you could potentially rape her easily since she's aware short dudes dont get play normally and it invokes fear
 
Mirin bro, trve Tarzan 🔥. When I had long hair I occasionally had girls come up and give me compliments. Now that I’ve cut it I don’t get it anymore. But yeah, high iq take 🤝
yeah try growing the hair, get cool tattoos + jewelry and women will approach u on that srs

but the problem could be solved by cold approaching. i dont really dm girls and im banned on all dating apps so i just run irl game
 

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