Why do women’s gravitate toward abusive men

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Every woman has been abused in their relationships it seems what gives ?
Why won’t they give the nice guys a chance finally
 
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Exactly
 
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Planned Parenthood Relationship GIF by INTO ACTION
 
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Dominant Dick
 
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You are either abusive or a cuck no inbetween. Cucks are ugly and abusers are good looking. Simple as.
 
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women have evolved to be abused dogs
 
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Women's tits
 
Who's going to protect you when you're in danger? An abusive guy who doesn't give a fuck what people think, or the kind of guy to complain about how "women don't like nice guys like me"? Calling yourself nice is ultra-cringe.
 
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Who's going to protect you when you're in danger? An abusive guy who doesn't give a fuck what people think, or the kind of guy to complain about how "women don't like nice guys like me"? Calling yourself nice is ultra-cringe.
This.
 
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Every woman has been abused in their relationships it seems what gives ?
Why won’t they give the nice guys a chance finally
of course

at least we feel content with a becky, meanwhile she's till wetting her panties over chad
 
They're not. A lot of incels would abuse aka discipline women if given the chance.

Women are, personality-wise, simply attracted to what they can relate to. Just as a dumb black gangster is not going to enjoy socialising with a smart posh British gentleman, nor do women enjoy spending time with intelligent men. They can't relate to them in any way. They're not intelligent. The more violent a woman is, the more likely she'll choose a violent man to associate with.

Women are less forthright than men and somewhat conceal their nature, but if you engage any of them properly you'll quickly find that they're all as much of a scumbag as the scumbag she's chosen to associate herself with. Because women face less discipline and difficulties in modern society and are intellectually challenged, it's no surprise that there are far more female scumbags than male, and so a whole grouping of men are too civilised for women to relate to.
 
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Because all men are misogynistic and prepetuate toxic masculinity. Some just hide it better than others
 
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Women love abusive men, and don't like "nice guys". The "nice guy" is a turn-off. If it wasn't, then nice guys would have a higher body count than gang members and school bullies, and criminals.

Women don't want men to respect them. If you respect a woman, she will view you as a weak, submissive beta cuck, and that's a turn-off.

Watch these videos to learn what men women want:







What women dismiss as "toxic masculinity", is what women actually want. Women, in reality, want what they say on social media that they don't want.
 
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Women love abusive men, and don't like "nice guys". The "nice guy" is a turn-off. If it wasn't, then nice guys would have a higher body count than gang members and school bullies, and criminals.

Women don't want men to respect them. If you respect a woman, she will view you as a weak, submissive beta cuck, and that's a turn-off.

Watch these videos to learn what men women want:







What women dismiss as "toxic masculinity", is what women actually want. Women, in reality, want what they say on social media that they don't want.

This
 
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Abusers are good looking, have high testosterone, and have other females they can fuck. That’s why.
 
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It's the other way around, genius. Abusers gravitate towards women who enjoy attention/bring pursued meanwhile nice guys are passive and don't do shit
 
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Who's going to protect you when you're in danger? An abusive guy who doesn't give a fuck what people think, or the kind of guy to complain about how "women don't like nice guys like me"? Calling yourself nice is ultra-cringe.
It's not this, women don't Need to get engaged for protection. It's Simply that good looking guys get to see the whore side of women, so they understand that they're inferior beings that deserve only to get abused. Ugly men think that women are Angels so they become nice guys. That's why incels are so hated, they got to sneak into chad's Life details without having the looks for having such knowledge.
 
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Who's going to protect you when you're in danger? An abusive guy who doesn't give a fuck what people think, or the kind of guy to complain about how "women don't like nice guys like me"? Calling yourself nice is ultra-cringe.
To many hoes don't realize the abusive guy IS the danger
 
The reality is it feels satisfying and almost relieving when a woman gets abused by an alpha jerk. It’s like they’re being put in their true place as an inferior specimen which makes them both happy and wet. Which is actual real love and connection where a woman is used and becomes a possession of her man, molding the couple together as one.

Meanwhile a nice guy doesn’t truly love her, instead they form fake transactional relationships where they give resources to the woman in return for fake sex and fake love.

The cuck gets to enjoy his faggot tradwife delusion I guess (until he discovers wifey being bred by alpha jock) but the foid is deprived from the pleasure, relief and happiness of getting beaten humiliated and raped and actually bonding with her through trauma and abuse. Hence no bond forms and the foid grows to detest her selfish fake simp partner.

Also looks amplify this.
 
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Every woman has been abused in their relationships it seems what gives ?
Why won’t they give the nice guys a chance finally
“Muh I like dominant/confident men” probably
 
The best analogy is taming a dog. You love your dog and the dog can be loyal. But you need to teach it to behave. Punish if its bad. Reward if its good. Put it down if it steps out of line or abandon.
This isn't real abuse, its training.

For example I literally call one of my GFs (slightly tanned) a monkey 5x a day. I say im joking, but overtime it breaks them down.
But I buy her snacks so im actually the good person here.
Emotionally abuse her, but otherwise be a gentleman.
 
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The best analogy is taming a dog. You love your dog and the dog can be loyal. But you need to teach it to behave. Punish if its bad. Reward if its good. Put it down if it steps out of line or abandon.
This isn't real abuse, its training.

For example I literally call one of my GFs (slightly tanned) a monkey 5x a day. I say im joking, but overtime it breaks them down.
But I buy her snacks so im actually the good person here.
Emotionally abuse her, but otherwise be a gentleman.
Yeah the idea is to trauma bond her to you
 
Yeah the idea is to trauma bond her to you
That's not the best
But it's the easiest

It's not the peak of attachment a girl can have for you, it's ceiling is lower

But it still passes the line, that attachment exists
 
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That's not the best
But it's the easiest

It's not the peak of attachment a girl can have for you, it's ceiling is lower

But it still passes the line, that attachment exists
What’s peak attachment
 
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Who's going to protect you when you're in danger? An abusive guy who doesn't give a fuck what people think, or the kind of guy to complain about how "women don't like nice guys like me"? Calling yourself nice is ultra-cringe.
Guys who say their a nice guys is usually men trying to shame women into fucking them because said man is good so he should be rewarded with sexual access over violent/criminal minded men.
 
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What’s peak attachment
True genuine attachment, that isn't out of fear/ trauma

An extremely, extremely deep love that's built on a dependency but unlike how most dependencies in life are material in relationships, this one is immaterial.. dependent on the presence of the other's soul

The kind that a dog has when his owner has to leave to go to work. He sits in one spot on the couch waiting for them to comeback, and just keeps on staring out

An entire life intertwined with the other's.
Although, this peak of attachment is obviously overall unideal, as it comes with a lot of negatives at the expense for a single very very high positive

Like a lot of things in life tbh. To put all your eggs in one basket, requires exponential effort, and 0 eggs in others


But whilst the ceiling for this type of love is very high.. you don't have to reach it with your partner. Go to the optimal position that would be higher than trauma bond relationships


The key to develop it, is to rely less on material stuff between you two and focus on increasing priority in shared immaterial endeavours
I.e. through activities.. don't watch TV together, but read a book.
Don't eat out, but cook together.


Also is why it's rare to find this relationship in today's consumer world, where we are told the answer rather than find it with somebody else.
That idea of completion, of having done a task together and the satisfaction of it actually really makes girls (and you) attached to each other, because you were dependent on one another

Stay away from "independent women"
You'll never form a true attachment with them, unless force a trauma bond.. they will be too busy prioritising material benefits in the relationship
 
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