Why does everything in this life seem like a cope

[STAMPEDE]

Why does getting rich just seem like a cope to me, having a gf and having sex seems like a cope, getting ripped seems a cope, everything in this life just seems like a cope to me

 

[Deleted member 242536]

insecurity

 

[KT-34]

Mogger avi

 

[gigacumster3000]

yeah bro i feel that sometimes too it's easy to get caught up thinking things will fix your problems when they probably won't in the long run sounds like you're figuring it out tho which is good

 

[superpsycho]

because it is, we will all be dead one day and it won’t matter.

 

[Adoins]

Why does getting rich just seem like a cope to me, having a gf and having sex seems like a cope, getting ripped seems a cope, everything in this life just seems like a cope to me

i have been there bro, basically you want to feel so independent that none of life's shit affects you... in your mind you want to achieve this zen like superpower meditative state. but in reality, this really is a castrated way to live, "just close your eyes for 15 hours everyday for 10 years and u become buddha" this maybe true but idk man i aint doin this

 

[MarkSynklar]

yeah bro i feel that sometimes too it's easy to get caught up thinking things will fix your problems when they probably won't in the long run sounds like you're figuring it out tho which is good

i wonder how others here deal with their mood states. bringing this up because it alters how solutions look like to me, greatly sometimes.

one day i could get a thrill out of finding something that looks like it could solve my greatest issues, then when I'm on my lows again, it either doesn't feel realistic, effective, or I start to dwell more on the cons of it.

maybe it's on me since I got OCD about dealing with the worst of everything first. kinda tired of this inconsistency.

 

[suub2incel]

Why does getting rich just seem like a cope to me, having a gf and having sex seems like a cope, getting ripped seems a cope, everything in this life just seems like a cope to me

word cope isnt phrased correctly here but since u have no clear goal in life you have to do ''something'' since u dont know what ur life goal really is u just follow the path of normal achievments like getting rich ripped etc these things arent good or bad but its just cope if its not youre true life goal but its way better to cope like this cause youll achieve something and not kys from going insane so yea