Why does making friends irl feel so awkward

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When i was a child it felt natural and wasn’t awkward
 
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Autism
 
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Making friends past highschool is awkward
 
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Autism
 
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Your view on reality is distorted by your worldview
 
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when i was a child it was awkward
and now that im a little grown its still awkward
 
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No testosterone
 
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You're surrounded by assholes, tbh. Earlier generations were more easy to get along with. I envy the Boomers and Silents. They grew up in the best of times.
 
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When i was a child it felt natural and wasn’t awkward
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When i was a child it felt natural and wasn’t awkward
Cause you’re going in with the intention of making a friend
Rather than just getting to know the dude

You frame yourself to navigate to an end destination, which you shouldn’t do because you’ll just come across as a needy “nice” guy
 
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Because we are all awkward,picky and full of insecurities nowadays
 
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as a child you could make friends over the little things like favourite colours, toys, cartoons, or video games

as an adult it's really not like that
 
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You need to get in frequent close proximity with ppl and just conversate with them. Unless you’re some social butterfly, it might be awkward, but its worthwhile.
 
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When i was a child it felt natural and wasn’t awkward
because everyone is slightly autistic and full of insecurities. Not just inkwels and NDs are akward, so are normies
 
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