Why does my gf always start arguments/say shit that pisses me off during her period? Looking for advice

[bddcoper]

Why? We never argue normally but her last two periods she’s been saying out of pocket/rude shit that would piss me off then just says “oh I was joking” (she clearly wasn’t). And I’ve been ignoring it for months but I’m so tired this isn’t the girl I met 6 months ago and every month it becomes harder to stay with her because she just becomes more and more generic as I get to know her.

It’s also long distance right now so everything gets misinterpreted over text which makes things worse though the out of pocket shit is clear cut and not a reading/tone issue.

Any advice other than to leave her? I never outright asked if it was her period but I track her cycle and it’s aligned both times. Last month is also the first time we talked while she was on her period so that’s why this all started recently

 

[Lemic]

Have you talked to her about it?

 

[bddcoper]

Have you talked to her about it?

Yes but then she changes it on me saying some bullshit

She always accepts blame but it’s more like a fake acceptance than a genuine one. It’s the equivalent of someone saying sorry to their mom just to get her to leave them alone.

She never expresses these concerns until we argue. This is the type of shit that happens with cheaters they say “oh you didn’t give me enough attention” AFTER they cheat without having ever mentioned it during the relationship. And it’s sad because she was a virgin and turned out this way but give me your thoughts. Online bullshit is one thing but if it happens in person I’m done I’m leaving I don’t need to take this when plenty of better looking girls would date me in an instant in my lean state

 

[ØUROBOROS]

When she starts arguing just put your dick in her mouth she can't talk if her mouth

 

[reeven]

Yes but then she changes it on me saying some bullshit

She always accepts blame but it’s more like a fake acceptance than a genuine one. It’s the equivalent of someone saying sorry to their mom just to get her to leave them alone.

She never expresses these concerns until we argue. This is the type of shit that happens with cheaters they say “oh you didn’t give me enough attention” AFTER they cheat without having ever mentioned it during the relationship. And it’s sad because she was a virgin and turned out this way but give me your thoughts. Online bullshit is one thing but if it happens in person I’m done I’m leaving I don’t need to take this when plenty of better looking girls would date me in an instant in my lean state

tell her that you're gonna break things up if she continues like that. put some order and boundaries goddmannit

 

[bddcoper]

tell her that you're gonna break things up if she continues like that. put some order and boundaries goddmannit

I did tell her to stop saying the shit and that it’s disrespectful and she says she’s joking but I think something might be wrong with her genuinely atp based on the stuff she said. I also don’t wanna be specific because she has admitted to knowing about incel forums and I’ve caught her measuring my facial thirds with her fingers + mentioning other similar things

Though it’s still a reason to leave and never date someone as antisocial/socially outcasted growing up as me again. I think the moment you have to set boundaries in a relationship the moment it’s over bc these things are common sense. If you don’t have enough common sense to not say obviously offensive things how do I know you won’t go and cheat

 

[bddcoper]

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[bddcoper]

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[LowTierBateman]

She wants to be a bitch

Just let her

Or break up

 

[reeven]

I did tell her to stop saying the shit and that it’s disrespectful and she says she’s joking but I think something might be wrong with her genuinely atp based on the stuff she said. I also don’t wanna be specific because she has admitted to knowing about incel forums and I’ve caught her measuring my facial thirds with her fingers + mentioning other similar things

Though it’s still a reason to leave and never date someone as antisocial/socially outcasted growing up as me again. I think the moment you have to set boundaries in a relationship the moment it’s over bc these things are common sense. If you don’t have enough common sense to not say obviously offensive things how do I know you won’t go and cheat

then break up?