Why does no one talk about being mistreated by family for being Ugly?

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A lot of people mention the Halo effect but that’s usually in the context of school/ work/ social/ romantic stuff etc.

But I barely see anyone talk about it in terms of family.

Like you guys do realise your parents will probably hate you wayyy more if you’re ugly, right? I’m not even kidding. If your sibling is better looking subconsciously or perhaps even consciously your dad or mom will love them more and prefer them.

And if you improve your looks they’ll see you as being better in EVERY way. Smarter, harder-working etc.

Obviously this effect is even more pronounced with extended family and in-laws because they care about you less than your parents.

Ngl this is the worst Blackpill because we all know unconditional love is a lie but if it did exist it should with parents and their kids but NOPE if you mog then that def increases the love your parents have.

My parents explicity told me they hated my face jfl a few years ago
 
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A lot of people mention the Halo effect but that’s usually in the context of school/ work/ social/ romantic stuff etc.

But I barely see anyone talk about it in terms of family.

Like you guys do realise your parents will probably hate you wayyy more if you’re ugly, right? I’m not even kidding. If your sibling is better looking subconsciously or perhaps even consciously your dad or mom will love them more and prefer them.

And if you improve your looks they’ll see you as being better in EVERY way. Smarter, harder-working etc.

Obviously this effect is even more pronounced with extended family and in-laws because they care about you less than your parents.

Ngl this is the worst Blackpill because we all know unconditional love is a lie but if it did exist it should with parents and their kids but NOPE if you mog then that def increases the love your parents have.

My parents explicity told me they hated my face jfl a few years ago
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nigga i made a thread about this a while ago

i ascended and my parents glaze me hard as fuck and do SO much for me, and my siblings get fucking scraps

my cousins came over for my siblings graduation recently and the WHOLE time they were just trying to talk to me.. NIGGA?

It's very brutal but not just looks but ur social/personality/charisma
 
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unconditional love and a face only a mother can love IS A LIE NIGGA
 
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nigga i made a thread about this a while ago

i ascended and my parents glaze me hard as fuck and do SO much for me, and my siblings get fucking scraps

my cousins came over for my siblings graduation recently and the WHOLE time they were just trying to talk to me.. NIGGA?

It's very brutal but not just looks but ur social/personality/charisma
It’s awful man like you realise looks truly are the ONLY thing that matters lol
 
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It’s awful man like you realise looks truly are the ONLY thing that matters lol
yeah my brother is bluepilled and malnourished. i told the nigga lets go lift we'd subconsciously get more respect and attention from ppl. he didn't do SHIT and a yr later he's invisible and extended family hardly acknowledge him

whats ur story tho what made u make this post
 
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A lot of people mention the Halo effect but that’s usually in the context of school/ work/ social/ romantic stuff etc.

But I barely see anyone talk about it in terms of family.

Like you guys do realise your parents will probably hate you wayyy more if you’re ugly, right? I’m not even kidding. If your sibling is better looking subconsciously or perhaps even consciously your dad or mom will love them more and prefer them.

And if you improve your looks they’ll see you as being better in EVERY way. Smarter, harder-working etc.

Obviously this effect is even more pronounced with extended family and in-laws because they care about you less than your parents.

Ngl this is the worst Blackpill because we all know unconditional love is a lie but if it did exist it should with parents and their kids but NOPE if you mog then that def increases the love your parents have.

My parents explicity told me they hated my face jfl a few years ago

 
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Shit like that has just made me feel completely alienated and unable to connect with anyone else bcuz of knowing abt how diffetently they would treat me if I was ugly ngl
 
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Ye very retarded thread and very subjective. It hugely depends on the country too, in US it is a common practice to not care about your child after 18 years of age. In my country Georgia, parents can have their children stay at their house for 30 years and more, and mothers here tend to have more love to their child than in other countries. Of course this has pros and cons too. Way mothers/fathers sacrifice for their children in this country is unheard of in USA :lul::lul:
 
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I generally do not believe in unconditional love when it comes to wife, gf or friends. But healthy parent/children relationship is very unconditional. My parents literally sacrificed everything for me, and I truly believe good parents love their children unconditionally.
 
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They haven't suffer enough to mention it

Literally this is far more brutal than school/work/friends

Because you had a back up like my parents love me at the end of the day ir smth like "a face only a mother could love"

Literally all that just to wake up and realise not even your parents don't like you and treat you like loser because of their shit genes/habits btw:feelsokman::feelskek:

I'll be forever envy of others and hate my life because of this i hope none suffer like i did
 
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yeah my brother is bluepilled and malnourished. i told the nigga lets go lift we'd subconsciously get more respect and attention from ppl. he didn't do SHIT and a yr later he's invisible and extended family hardly acknowledge him

whats ur story tho what made u make this post
Brutal. That’s what happens when you don’t put the work in. Looksmaxxing is mandatory.

For me it’s just the way my parents treated me lol. Definitely better when I mog more
 
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Shit like that has just made me feel completely alienated and unable to connect with anyone else bcuz of knowing abt how diffetently they would treat me if I was ugly ngl
You’re the same way, it’s just human nature
 
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They haven't suffer enough to mention it

Literally this is far more brutal than school/work/friends

Because you had a back up like my parents love me at the end of the day ir smth like "a face only a mother could love"

Literally all that just to wake up and realise not even your parents don't like you and treat you like loser because of their shit genes/habits btw:feelsokman::feelskek:

I'll be forever envy of others and hate my life because of this i hope none suffer like i did
it causes a lot of rage and bitterness. Just use it as fuel to ascend and mog ngl
 
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They haven't suffer enough to mention it

Literally this is far more brutal than school/work/friends

Because you had a back up like my parents love me at the end of the day ir smth like "a face only a mother could love"

Literally all that just to wake up and realise not even your parents don't like you and treat you like loser because of their shit genes/habits btw:feelsokman::feelskek:

I'll be forever envy of others and hate my life because of this i hope none suffer like i did
Yeah this is sad bro but always see good in life. When you have children give them what you missed from your parents.
 
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Yeah this is sad bro but always see good in life. When you have children give them what you missed from your parents.
I'm not that stupid to make them suffer from this shit world

I'll disappear as elder and live by my own on mountains

The kids that our generation will make, they will be everyone like 95%+ deformed and the rest htn at max and some 0.01% chad/Stacy

"Looksmaxxing" is cope you can prevent deformities but you'll never change bonemass and proportions

Unless you're rich enough to pay and customise your kids "genes"
 
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A lot of people mention the Halo effect but that’s usually in the context of school/ work/ social/ romantic stuff etc.

But I barely see anyone talk about it in terms of family.

Like you guys do realise your parents will probably hate you wayyy more if you’re ugly, right? I’m not even kidding. If your sibling is better looking subconsciously or perhaps even consciously your dad or mom will love them more and prefer them.

And if you improve your looks they’ll see you as being better in EVERY way. Smarter, harder-working etc.

Obviously this effect is even more pronounced with extended family and in-laws because they care about you less than your parents.

Ngl this is the worst Blackpill because we all know unconditional love is a lie but if it did exist it should with parents and their kids but NOPE if you mog then that def increases the love your parents have.

My parents explicity told me they hated my face jfl a few years ago
My mother constantly reminds me im a failure and useless mistake
JFL homie everything is a pill to swallow
 
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it causes a lot of rage and bitterness. Just use it as fuel to ascend and mog ngl
My brother mogs psl gods facially :ROFLMAO::feelsokman:

Literally I'll never be loved and liked from our parents the same

It was over before i born:feelscry:
 
A lot of people mention the Halo effect but that’s usually in the context of school/ work/ social/ romantic stuff etc.

But I barely see anyone talk about it in terms of family.

Like you guys do realise your parents will probably hate you wayyy more if you’re ugly, right? I’m not even kidding. If your sibling is better looking subconsciously or perhaps even consciously your dad or mom will love them more and prefer them.

And if you improve your looks they’ll see you as being better in EVERY way. Smarter, harder-working etc.

Obviously this effect is even more pronounced with extended family and in-laws because they care about you less than your parents.

Ngl this is the worst Blackpill because we all know unconditional love is a lie but if it did exist it should with parents and their kids but NOPE if you mog then that def increases the love your parents have.

My parents explicity told me they hated my face jfl a few years ago
same and when I ascended somehow they show me love now JFL and even my mother said "I like this new version of u" she said that exactly
Ye very retarded thread and very subjective. It hugely depends on the country too, in US it is a common practice to not care about your child after 18 years of age. In my country Georgia, parents can have their children stay at their house for 30 years and more, and mothers here tend to have more love to their child than in other countries. Of course this has pros and cons too. Way mothers/fathers sacrifice for their children in this country is unheard of in USA :lul::lul:
same for me in egypt too u can live w ur parents till ur like 24 maybe and then they sit on ur ass to find a job and get married
also the older sibling in here is the favorable like u can get away w so much if ur the oldest sibling
 
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